Re: Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner
 

Wa liao eh. Y so serious? Can't u see the smiley face at the end? Here, let u see again. :p

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Wow ... What a sudden change of attitude n thinking. I guessed his friend's bx more power ...

Like naemlo kor kor ... We can close case on u liao

Chok di na :) good luck :)

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Wat talk u? I am talking about u all who are not married .. use proper term please ... Call call for fun.

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Hahaha .. that's why his 'story' is damn confusing ... Un-convincing !

From so excited n un-experience til now got friends who married a vietnam wife for 6-7yrs ... Best can talk straight to them wo .. hmmmmm... So he know his friend's or knows his friend's bx ?

Hahaha ... Dau dau ... Kg hieu ROI. Khung Khung dien dien ROI. Hahaha

Think we better wash hands .

Re: Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner
 

nothing wrong leh... i also call my bx "ba xa" since day one... :)
call till really get married liao :p

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difficult...
i am so fcuking near to the area/scene every weekdays :p
also many vb still in touch with me..
also my little bro gets hungry easily :p

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I have different thinking.I still think marriage is a gamble.Even people who have done lots of research as what u mention still lose and end in divorce.Couple can know each other for many many years before marry and still divorce so is it call gamble or long term investment?

Couple who marry many many years,have kids already will still end up divorce.whether is marry local or foreigner,is still the same except marry foreigner,the 'stack' is higher.

There is no such thing as best investment for marriage,only best tolerant and understanding from both party.

I see marriage as a gamble and i go for it,up to now i can say i did not lost but gain a lot from this few years of marriage experience.

Who can safely say his marriage is long term investment like insurance or FD which gurantee safe return?Nobody know cos people change at different stage,so for me is there is no long term investment.Only 'manageable gamble' means u can control how to gamble.:)

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Actually I also Call my BX "ba xa" before I marry her :p

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To Each its Own ... It depend on how you interpret it or sees it ....

How do we know that its an Long Term Investment or a Gamble ?

If you sees it Right .. Gamble at the first place an become a LTI ... If you sees it Wrongly ... LTI can be termed it as Gamble ...

Gamble or LTI is just a "Face Value" Issue ....

In here the cyber space world .. you can talk big and see your marriage as a LTI ... who actually knows.

However, in the reality ... When your marriage fails ... can you say .. " Oh .. my LTI ... fails .. Gone ... FLush down the drain" ... Probably u will say .. "AI Yeah .. Marriage is a Gamble mah .. can work good loh, cannot bo bianz" ...

My Previous so called LTI last for 10 years and have 2 gals ... Currently so called LTI for 3 years and 1 gal only termed as Gamble as 1st LTI fails ...

Most Importantly is that BOTH should Works towards a Better Future ... whether it's a Gamble or LTI ...

Re: Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner
 

Please intro me :)

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Me married liao hor.

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love is supposed to be splendour and happy things...yours get so unhappily messy and heart breaking...sincerely can imagined what you are going thru now...haha...but I dun sympathise with you because you love the wrong gal...:)

I was so happy recently because my decent gf makes me so happy...nothing like yours...we can plan ahead so many things...travels, dinners, family gatherings, etc...her mom dun ask for money...:)

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If i go a decent restaurant with my bx and her family. Maybe a total of 10 pax how much will it cost in hcm ?

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I can only say .. u post in the wrong thread .

Post here instead :

http://www.sammyboyforum.com/showthr...1410&page=1290

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i don't call them bx and I also hate them calling me ox...

to me.... when calling ox, means talk money liao :D:p... when that time comes, I go Thailand aka "Siam" ... :eek: