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i think your bro dun know what he is getting himself into...first get involved with a married woman...of course its fun...but dun get caught...secondly dun think he understand Viet gal yet...not so simple as your bro and you are thinking...conflict of interest here...:)

ask yourself this..now that your bro call her baxa...means wife...see the thing here your bro is completely kc...do you really think she wants to go taiwan when she is already here in sinkie...most VB already knew that taiwan is a no go...sinkie is better...think she will start to ask your bro or already mentioned to him that she wants certain sum of money to send back to Vietnam...she mentioned Taiwan is just a ploy to gauge your bro kc level...:)

if you dun already know and let me highlight again...very common that VB had many diff bf...she may not like her sinkie hubby...but she will not give up her LTSVP easily...her motives are simple...who can provide more and better for her...dun think your bro or you know the Viet culture and scene well enough...for me, I had heard and learned for 6 yrs and still learning new things daily...:)

above is just my humble opinion...:)

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you are too humble la... :p

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always remain humble...live life simple...no stress...bonk longer...:)

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and live longerrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr :p

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Sifu,I have a problem here, after breaking off with my ex, I know a vb recently about a month.I want to visit her in hcmc sometime end of this month or early next month.We chat/call everyday and she asked me to visit her mother.

Sifu, I know you are a very experienced man,what should I do now ? Does she treat me like a walking ATM? I don't want to get hurt again... you told me PAY AND GO and forget everything, but now it is GO AND PAY. :confused:

I want to follow your motto.. live life simple... no stress.. bonk longer.. but I can't.

Your advice is very much appreciated.Thank you

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ur case will just repeat and repeat and repeat until one day u have the honour to buy si fu a beer and he will show u some tricks...

meantime, to bonk longer, u already know there is this magic tablet....

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no shifu here...only friends...and friendly sharing...for those who listen...:)

this a simple case...i knew your background because we knew each other and shared before...my answer to you is dun bother to visit for your case...reason is very simple...what purpose it will serve...moreover just know one month...what do you hope to achieve....ask yourself then simple logic apply...unless you are telling me you haven't bonk her...:)

well to take you as a walking ATM then you need to answer yourself...what motives she want to bring you to meet her mother...think answer can be simple...you to pay for everything during the trip, dinner, gifts for the family, relatives, friends, etc...:)

after this trip...ask yourself what else next month, next next month, 6 months from now....one year from now...etc...how hurt you want to be...who can hurt you if you dun self induced...:)

bro deptrai advice also valid...

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No problem lah beer,bottle also cheap right ? The price of coke or mineral water only ma.

What you like ? I can spend you end of this month if you are in hcmc ?:p

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okok... will think again.. need to pay consultancy fees

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if she is determined, nothing can change her mind lah, that is vietnamese for u. no matter how many facts u try to prove with. U think she will listen to u who is only her "bf" brother or her cousin?

The way u post, u dun seem to be happy n contented with yur fiance.




1 advise for u and yur brother, if she can do this to her current husband, she can do the same with yur brother in the future if yur brother cannot support her monetary wise.

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there is no implications in getting a WP. Like KT said, it is also a pass for her to stay in singkie for the period mentioned in the WP, ususlly is 2 yrs and she has to work only in the place that is stated in the WP.

Once u got yur WP, yur LTSVP is no longer vaild and have to surrender to the Minstry of Manpower. In any point in time she cannot hold 2 passes. So they r not related.

BTW, what did the husband do that made u call his a a**hole? u only hear her side of story, did u know of the whole big picture of what is going on? Always listen with a pinch of salt! My 2 dongs.

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Think u referring to LTSVP+. Only LTSVP+ holders are allowed to work but have to apply for a Letter of Consent to work. LTSVP holders are not allowed to work.

Yes, i have mentioned b4, there are lots of jobs out there, just that ppl lazy to look and have a misconception of lowly educated cannot work and earn much.

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It is for ppl to bao toh those overstayers. It is not new, has been there since 2008. Also know as Overstayers Report Form.

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ok thanks.. seems ICA is getting tougher these days.. :o

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Thanks who sista? :D