Originally Posted by shysaint (Post 7646671)

Let me start from your last sentence first.

I am SO confuse on your statement !

You are already contradicting n confused your ownself ... How can you think properly.

You allowed her to be with someone and you are ok with it ? So strange .. is she not your wife ?

At this stage , when her heart no longer with you, whether she bed or no bed with that someone, its no longer important.



Yes .. probably u don't understand the cultures ... And guessed you don't understand woman as well .

I cannot and also not up to me to comment / tells you whether she has someone outside. I also believe no one can tell u.

U r the husband ... It's your job to find out the truth and carry out the proper remedy actions.

If u don't trust her, why marry her at the first place ?

Next , what things did she do to make u think that she is having someone outside ? If nothing than u are just plain paranoid.

Next , also think what have you done to her ?

I can tell you straight forward Now ..if you are so f**king paranoid, the day your wife pregnant will be the day this marriage is going to end ! Coz a person like you will sure thinks that the baby is not yours.

If you can trust people here whom you dun meet before and you don't trust a woman u married and you see her everyday ... Something is real wrong with u !

Go think thru everything, dun just come here and seek advice . And please use your brain before exercising advice from the thread.

Originally Posted by Kim91 (Post 7646291)

Something to share n discuss.. With brothers here esp many of us are sole earners


Young Singapore mother struggling to make ends meet
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FYI, raising a child now is about 1K per month. all the milk powder, diaper, paying for the caregiver, food, medical (touch wood), etc.

This is reality, I am also trying to accept it. If you can’t accept it, you may want to choose to leave the country.

Seeing my friends stress up on Primary 1 registration.Over registration of Pri 1, having to ballot becos of lots of New citizen joining, taking up the Pri 1 vacancy. Raising up cost, Education cost, competition, etc. All this add up to the consideration of people having children. It’s not easy living in Singapore now

Originally Posted by shysaint (Post 7646499)

A street along main rd called cong hoa. Opposite e-town.

Originally Posted by player79 (Post 7644083)

Hi brother anyone in singapore can teach tieng viet cheap cheap. I want people to teach me speak tv. Got pls kindly pm me. i got book but cannot speak.

Originally Posted by Hurricane88 (Post 7646994)

wonder why he bother to ask...so many are doing that...as though he knew all the streets names in hcm...:)

to get over this problem is easy...just compare the price before you buy...buy from the shop which you like...example cheap, good service, beautiful gals...etc...:)

Originally Posted by A+++ (Post 7644751)

bro if 1500 is good enough, y don't u just marry her & get her a ltvp or dependant pass (which u have more than 4k income), she could work as waitress or whatsoever which could be even more than 1500.....:confused:

Originally Posted by Hurricane88 (Post 7647054)

haha...why want to learn...get a long hair dictionary to teach you...:)

or just learn at JC/GL...:)

Originally Posted by repsoi (Post 7647336)

i might have used the wrong way to ask, thats why there is a misundertanding. i am not asking for the street name. i am asking if the reason he is at the street is because there is some shops there providing some kind of pleasure services.

Why i am asking that is because when he share his experience with me,
in the reply, it sounds like so.

Originally Posted by Hurricane88 (Post 7647054)

haha...why want to learn...get a long hair dictionary to teach you...:)

or just learn at JC/GL...:)

Originally Posted by Hurricane88 (Post 7646982)

now you are talking...you can have your say every 5 years in GE...make sure you exercise correctly...:)

I am one that will definitely leave after I retire...haha...:)

btw, this topic has nothing to do with this thread...:)

Originally Posted by Kim91 (Post 7645295)

If 4k plus sure can get ltvp+, got formal salary Got cpf got pay tax. Higher chance of getting PR later. Think long not short term gain bro. For me, i never never do that to my precious bx.

Originally Posted by Kim91 (Post 7648525)

Just find it funny when they cant survived but how most of us can? Its a matter of choice
I also like u H88 planned to give myself 25-30yrs to earn n save then fxxk off from here, once my kid/s grow up.

Originally Posted by jackbl (Post 7648156)

Where u learnt??? :D

Originally Posted by repsoi (Post 7644134)

ic what you means. Its like that i think, they want to earn a little. But 2k dong is like 15cents in singapore, not much.

Just curious, where is this place u mention for??

Originally Posted by shysaint (Post 7648169)

1 .... Not everyone comes to Vn to f**k ... N get S**ked ...

I am Definitely NOT one of them ....

2 .... Wrong Thread to share such info ....

Anyway no worries .... Misunderstanding here can clear up BUT sometimes misunderstanding with your loved one may not cleared up so fast ...

So we see the importance of proper communications ...

Originally Posted by Kim91 (Post 7648525)

Just find it funny when they cant survived but how most of us can? Its a matter of choice
I also like u H88 planned to give myself 25-30yrs to earn n save then fxxk off from here, once my kid/s grow up.