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She wants to stay out and you allow her to do so? This doesn't sound like a real marriage. I can understand that staying with in laws may lead to lots of problems, but staying out and coming home twice a month doesn't sound right at all.

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Too late, this is once again a situation where a sillypore guy rush into marriage, then do everything opposite of what we have been talking about and now still trying to rush to buy a property so that she can get half upon divorce!


My sincere advice to that guy.... U better tell that silly bitch to be back home everyday by 7pm to cook dinner for u and then get into bed with u, otherwise the marriage is off!!!


What she is doing outside now and sleeping with who and why even she.marries u, all those we dun even need to guess!

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haha...the bx maybe bringing home his money monthly for expenditure...so he cannot do anything or say anything...can only say things and sob here...:)

the above is just a case scenario...dun mean to hurt anybody...:)

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Do you think it is normal for married couples to stay apart like that? :rolleyes:

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Hi Paktam,

My honest Opinion.

When i read this, many questions pop out in my head, asking for the reason why like that.

She only comes home around once or twice a month, doesn't your parents have any concern on this issue? And somemore, you and her are married...but not staying together...dont you think is bit awakard?

If she says she stay at her friend house, get her friend address and pop by one day unannounced at her friend house to see how is she after the on job training.

For the time being, if she cannot even stay with u when u in the midst of applying for a BTO Flat and giving excuse that she is bored at home, we have bros in here who also have vn bxa, can intro to them to chat and tcss like us..

Seriously, there should be something wrong about this case already.

My advice is to stop everything and sit down and have a good talk with her about the whole thing.

When married, everything also can sit down and discuss peacefully between the bxa and oxa.

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Just continue living your foolish life.... no one can help u more than yourself. Good luck to u, u will need a lot of lucks.

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You dun even know where she stay??? What kinda of marrige is that?

Tell her to stay at home. If she want, she can go out every other day.

You must also do your part to keep her occupied and entertained.

If cannot accept, divorce better. She can stay out everyday and no need to come back at all. Until her ltvp lapse.

Atleast that's what I told mine when she gave me similar proposal. (Scared of my mom)

Now she kwai kwai stay at home but sometimes grumble abit.

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Is this `staying out' thingy something new among the new vietnamese spouse in Singapore? If you guys can accept that, you must be really foolish. If your viet bx loves you, she will not do such thing. Such action clearly illustrates that you are being used by her to get LTSVP. :confused:

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Just like i said : "What she is doing outside now and sleeping with who and why even she.marries u, all those we dun even need to guess!"

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Bro deptrai, you are very the correct leh. :D

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I have learnt a lot from ur wise teachings ma.

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Am i a monk or a priest ? :D

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Yes....good advice.

Daily 6 points to share/return/exchange

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his case could be like my fren case. My fren marry a VB cause she give him sgd8700 to marry him and stay sg to work. Slowly slowly start to regret cause stay long also got feeling. So now die la. I told my bx, is becausr of girls and guys like that, u so hard to get yr pr.

Anyway bro hurricane, still cant meet u as my grand dad now approaching his seventh day dead. Me quite pantang, only after 9 day den can go see friend. Custom. Shld be able to meet u within this week. Sry sry

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haha...no worries...you settle your things first...any other things can wait...:)

Once again...my condolences for your grandpa recent bereavement...