Originally Posted by papillon30 (Post 2121501)

This is just my humble opinion, not intended to slight anyone. Looking for a life partner is a very important decision. And, you guys seem to go to all the wrong places to look for one; KTV, massage parlours, disco......Looking for a wife at those places is like looking for trouble with a capital 'T'. Even marriage bureau is a bad place to look for one because of the profit motive. For those who are looking for a Vietnamese life partner, just a suggestion - forget about cheonging for the time being and spend time travelling Vietnam as a budget traveller(backpacker). Below is a useful link: http://thorntree.lonelyplanet.com/ca...iCountryId=101

Originally Posted by SingViet (Post 2122070)

There was a singapore documentary that interviewed the author of the Lonely Planet - Saigon, and to my surprised, its a typical version of ang moh conning ang moh. This author have only been to Saigon for 4 short trips and he wrote the book. Damm.... how much can you know a big city with 4 short trips? no offense bro. The best way to know a city is to stay there for longer period of time and mix around with the locals :D

Originally Posted by SingViet (Post 2121263)

Bro,

I am in vietnam monthly. But i have passed the stage of cheonging. Have cheong too much when i was based there for those many years. You guys enjoy yourself :D

Originally Posted by papillon30 (Post 2122045)

Not all WLs r bad. Only 99% r potentially bad:) Why take the risk that you'll end up financially ruin and emotionally scared? With a 99% success rate.

Generally Vietnamese ladies know Singapore men make good husbands(with a few exceptions, like the scumbag cobbler who raped with a faulty cheque). There are lots of Chinese Vietnamese ladies living in HCMC and the Mekong Delta region. For a start, places like Can Tho, Sa Dec and Soc Trang are good places to look for ba xa. Happy hunting!

Originally Posted by sonice82 (Post 2122664)

wah..tats hard then. for pple who totally no nothing about the vietnamese language.:(

Originally Posted by Torres_Mok (Post 2122702)

majority of viet gals who know how to speak english or mandarin r from the massage parlour, ktv, pubs..... unless u don't mind to hv a WL as life partner.

If u r lucky enough, u may find some that is not WL, but speak english or mandarin.:D

Originally Posted by Torres_Mok (Post 2122702)

majority of viet gals who know how to speak english or mandarin r from the massage parlour, ktv, pubs..... unless u don't mind to hv a WL as life partner. If u r lucky enough, u may find some that is not WL, but speak english or mandarin.:D

Originally Posted by sonice82 (Post 2122724)

hmmm...i always standby this 5 words 欢场无真情 one..in case in the end i end up 人财两空. so who has the largest cricle of frens in vn here? singviet? hehe maybe next time must ask him intro.:D sick of singapore gals. always see me no up. =(

Originally Posted by sonice82 (Post 2122733)

hmm..okay..so which are the places u would recommend a 1st timer to go?

Originally Posted by SingViet (Post 2122727)

I think most of the bros here are referring to the poor uneducated vietnamese gals from the province. There are also plentiful of educated vietnamese gals from the cities. Their families may not be rich but place strong emphasis on education. Most of the gals from this group speak some english.

Originally Posted by Torres_Mok (Post 2122742)

Do u hv any contacts of these gals? :rolleyes: