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in summary... 1) dun marry WL in Sinkie 2) need to travel frequently to Vietnam to find decent GF... 3) long distance relationship is tough 4) many IDD calls which is costly unless VB knew internet msg 5) VB need to come Sinkie frequent visits which can be costly unless stay with you...heard each visits can cost from SGD 500 to thousands...shopping, entertainment, travelling, etc... 6) Anxiety for applying LTVP, PR, etc.. 7) cultural difference... 8) food difference.. 9) Learning languages means communication difficulty for her and yourself... 10) provide spouse a better life than what she had before in vietnam 11) monthly or regular remittance to in-laws can cause quarrels if not set expectation correctly... 12) in-law demands such as...funeral, marriage, buy property, repair house, etc...deemed as emergencies... the above are my 2 cents worth and not meant to discourage you but hope you think thrice before making decisions...:) Let me quote here what I heard as examples...these are from friends who went to Vietnam first time and spending money on VBs... 1) A sinkie travel 5hrs to province just to hold a VB hands...he spent 4mil VND which is SGD 235.00 for the entire trip... 2) A sinkie was asked to go shopping with VB and friend in hcm...spent 4mil VND and VB still address him as ban or friend and not Anh or Bro which is much closer in relationship... both men are pretty young late 20s or early 30s...spent more than SGD 1k for entire trip...but at the rate cannot frequent Vietnam monthly...so the VBs dun have faith in them due to long wait and making demands each time...:) |
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but if WL, i got chance :p Quote:
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13) in-laws or relatives bad habit or "shit", u are expected to clear. 14) "excess baggage" for those who plan to "buy one get one free", from the expenditures on daily neccessities to school fees to moving to singkie or studying in singkie. |
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Wake up so early? Last nite got be "hot boy va hot girl" not? :D:p |
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