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SS and KT, I apologise again if my doubts offended anyone. But I really don't think she will be tempted la. Just voicing out my fears and doubts. Long distance r/s really hard sia...after all 2 weeks in sg, 2 weeks in HCM...I don't know can work out or not. But these doubts do cross my mind sometimes. I can't help it. But you guys have VN wives already and are blissfully married. I want that too. But too many heartbreak stories already...sometimes the more I read, the more I scare sia..Hope you guys understand...

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He must has reached the time of the month :D

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read less and best is don't log in :)
follow your heart

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Good advice. Quit SBF completely.

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The more u scared of heartbreaks, the more u likely to get it!

Have no fear!!!:cool:

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My fellow pals in VN says I think too much. Just go with the flow and see how. I think they are right. lately things have kinda settled down liao. Think both of us trust each other a little bit more liao...^^ This 21st May planned a Con dao getaway for just the 2 of us till 23rd then meet the rest from SBF pals for dinner.

I read SBF to see who else have encountered r/s problems and how to solved it. If possible, anticipate and prevent needless frictions between my girl and me due to cultural differences. Since I decided not to open the eatery biz liao, she decided she will work as a salesgirl or something just to kill time since she don't really need the money with me supporting her and stuff. So far so good la..hehehe....

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just go ahead and try with the relationship...just dont commit yourself in anything first and not to have any investment in Vietnam unless u have really know the market..but frankly speaking,for my ownself,after staying for so many years,i still cant fully understand it...:o

but 1 thing for sure which i believe many bros here will agree is that majority of VN gals are stubborn..(in fact is sibei stubborn from my point of view)

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Totally agreed.:)

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Thank you guys for all the advice. As with all relationship, I guess you never know until you tried. Frankly, I got good vibes from my girl and me. Now things have settled down a bit as we had passed the initial honeymoon period. So lets see how things go.

As for the eatery venture, still a big consideration over my side seeing that the economy reports differs from independent studies from other countries. But I guess until my sg biz is firm and ok, I will spent more time on it.

Once again thanks all in this thread. All your inputs and opinions are truly valuable to me as I feel I had a lot of catch up to do to understand the VN culture since I decided to commit to the r/s already. Good health and good wealth to all!:o

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Waiting to hear the FR of the trip. Have never go there before :)

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Think u hv to visit VN more

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He has been visiting Vn...just not learning their culture...only stick to a gal cannot learn the Vietnam culture except her own culture...:)

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hahaha...I have to agree with that H88. Usually I go there, I only go out with her and my own friends. but my own friends usually go bia oms,saloons and so on which she dont accompany to go. haizz...

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Understanding... 04-05-2013 09:55 AM +6 elth

Bros elth who upz me...please identify yourself as I cannot find your nick...to return favour.....cheers!:)

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Wasted effort.

You should go there to experience other selections.