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bad choice to retire in vn.
just my own opinion.

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Hi Bro H88.
Just kidding. I dun think can retire anywhere soon. You know in sillypore, we have to work till we die. Can die but cannot sick.

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so you are asking for fun and wasting time...do you know that after a few years the landscape in hcm will be different...the biz wise will also be different...:)

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Bro Hurricane

Landscape may change but it takes time, not with so much corruption taking place in VN.

We can get a glimpse of future Vietnam by looking at Jakarta and the surroundings cities there. While the capital cities are cosmopolitan, the smaller cities still retain its suburban beauty and the people in smaller cities remain suburban and rural in outlook.

Look beyond HCM and things get more familiar with the old Vietnam at the smaller cities. HCM can change, but it will be a long long time for secondary cities to follow suit. A long long time indeed.

Meanwhile, dont fret abt HCM or how this city will change. Enjoy the present HCM and look beyond this city if it indeed changes. HCM will change completely but the rest of VN will not change completely.

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yes...takes time to change but the last 7 years the changes in hcm are rather alarming...of course if you go to province then the changes will not be fast...but in terms of biz changes are frightening...:)

example...look at cam do biz...7 yrs ago only one or two in each district...two years ago you can get 3 to 5 in a street...today it had dwindled down to one or two per street...:)

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Hi Sir,

May i know if vb want to study english in hcm,which language school shd they go?

Thks

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Best is find sinkie bf / bfs. Free n get paid

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Hi Fellow Samsters,

I would like to seek advise from the big brothers in here.

I have been going to a pub and happen to know a Vietnamese girl who is working there. I feel comfortable being with her whenever i go there and she would always come look for me when i am there. She never ask me for any tips and purely we just drink and chat.

She does not share much about her family issues even when i asked her about it which i feel is normal as its been only about 3mths since i know her so she may not be too comfortable at the moment.

How should i approach this situation as i would like her to be with me however i am not sure if she is truthful in things that she say.

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why do you bother to know her family issues?

3 mths just sit and chat...why you started to feel for her?...does it means you wanted her to be your gf or future wife?

you dun tip her and she still come to sit with you?...not sure many can believe this part?...do you think she only has you as a client or you dun know who she is sleeping with?

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It is funny why will want to know her family issue. :eek: Dun u think it is better to enjoy her company than to listen to sad stories unless u tell me your job is family consultant and paid to listen to FL's family stories?

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3 months already? please be treat your little bro well... BED her :D:p

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Really expect your answer to be this nature. Best sound advice.

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Why must she be truthful to u?What if she is not truthful to u before you marry her but truthful to u after marry.

Are u going to divorce her if she is a good wife to u after you marry her but later u found out she is not truthful to u?

Marriage is a gamble and don't always think foreign lady have a hidden agenda for marrying sg man.Yes they do have but depends on what things they are looking for.

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its teh same scenario she never ask him for tips as he voluntarily offer BEFORE she even has to ask

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For working lady u meet at the pub: My 2 cents worth of advice. Enjoy her company, live at the present moment, be comfortable, dont make plan for future, simply said, live it up now and enjoy her. If she starts talking about future plans with you, go elsewhere.

If you meet a normal lady through friends or colleagues, you can take a gamble in making a future with her, but no guarantee if the gamble will pay off. But you have a shot at it at least and you might get lucky.