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Any one marrying Vietnamese life partners (women or men) beware that 3 million Vietnamese have been affected by Agent Orange n napalm sprayed by the USA military during the Vietnam War. These dangerous chemical have caused many casualties and terrible birth defects in Vietnam. Agent Orange is genotoxic. That is it is damaging to genetic material. These birth defects can be passed down from one generation to the next. As shown last night on the Russia Today news channel. It is a very good idea to visit your VB in her hometown and see if any one in her family and hometown has birth defects.

kasain may be she thinks your S$300 is just an add-on to her monthly income.

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You already married and dunno how to manage your finances? Need bro KT help breakdown? Bro KT since when you changed job become finanicial advisor ya?

Since I am free for next 30 mins I breakdown for you, everyone finance is different!

How much is enough = living expenses + debt servicing + support money for parents and parents in law + savings/investments + ECA / entertainment fees

Simple equation?

6k also not enough for me because I need to save / invest 3k a month as I still do not have a flat of my own and bx is pregnant. So use my equation u should be able to calculate how much is enough roi.

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congratulations...well done and hello new father to be...:)

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Thanks! Stress la, everyday think how to make more money :confused: and every time bros here jio go out I always say 'sorry working 'now see bro KT post median household income 7.5k lagi stress liao!:eek:

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I like the birth defect in my gals which makes their boobs bigger than normal. :p

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War crimes committed by the US Army. (US army version of the killing field)
Chemical Warfare used by the US Army.

President Obama is presiding events to glorify the US Vietnam War, the Vietnamese called it the American War, by justifying US actions and ideology. I didn't know till now he had brains as small and as useless, and selfish as President Johnson.

Now Obama is calling for an strike on Syria to fuel his war machinery. In the last century, Europeans make money by plundering less developed countries, now they plunder by using war theology.

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interesting thread.... hope to learn more.

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Congratulation new daddy. Do not worry about life; life will find a way out.

300 million in China live on $2 a day.

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Thanks for all the advice bros.
As i have said, its not about the money because it was not even a subject until i demanded to know further about her problems. And she did not showed any indication about hinting on that subject or personal matters regarding difficulties with finance and/or where it was the main reason.

To bro KangTuo: I hear you, though its abit hard as i've left already and cant physically be there.. When you're there with her its so much easier to sort out all the problems and discuss and tâm sự with each other, but when youre thousands of miles away things get complicated, and misunderstandings happens..
We've already had several big fights while talking, and 2 times almost broke up because of the things said and escalated.. I think we have a ok understanding of each others standpoints now but the issue regarding her escorting and past still remains. and its because of this that my distrust in her wont go away.. always thinking "what else"..

Today i caught her in a lie about where she was sleeping.. earlier on the day she said she would go home and sleep because once you go outside living you cant always sleep at the M place, only occasionally. Turns out she is doing it today?!? didnt call or sms me this evening. when i txted her viber she didnt answer even though it was "seen" 10min after, and finally when i called her 1h later she answered after awhile and also lied that she slept at the Mplace but it wasnt coherent... i told her to put on video but she wouldnt and got angry. She hang up and we viber.. i called her on the incoherence and then she admitted and said she was sleeping.. "dang ngu voj traj". I dont even know anymore if its out of spite because i dont trust her or if its real anymore..
How do i handle this situation Besides breaking up??

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yes bro pls move on. if u cant accept the nature of her job n she cant compromise. .. move on.. there are better girls around.

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dun waste time on this guy...he simply asked and dun listen to advice...so let him live his life the way he wanted...miserable life which he asked for it...:p

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Jump into saigon river. :cool:

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Another attention seeker :eek:

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can jump into west lake ...looks cleaner :D

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West lake too shallow.... can't die from drowning but maybe injury.....