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Congrats...

I have not make any effort to apply PR for my bx :o
Got ltvp+ already i slack alot..

I should put in application soon liao..

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Bro, just a quick check this time round how long do you wait before your bx PR approval, my application is already pending for more than a year since last Jan.

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Thx. I agreed Ltvp+ is good enough, can work n can get flat (with ur son). Just that since there's something better just apply lor.. why not.. cheaper medical/hosp fees for 2nd kid later n some perks who knows.. if ur wife wanna work later higher chances employment n got cpf. Like what I mention just apply n apply...

Bro Blast: I sent in July. They say 6mth wait. My advice is if u have anything to add to up ur chances, email them. They probably will reject within weeks. Then u just apply again. Otherwise just leave it there. My experience is whenever I email them, the application is rejected.

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I also lazy ... Hahaha ...

Wait til the current LTVP+ going to expire that apply.

However now want to submit document also must wait 2-3 mths ...

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Teaching your BX to fish May not be a great idea.

Just keep your finger cross that there are no secret agenda which is well hidden now, which will surface in X years to come.

Just sharing. Congratulation.

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what 2-3 months... I just went online to book a date for submission.
Next earliest date is mid Aug :eek:

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Congratulations to you too.

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read these then you will know who up you and how to up others...:)

http://www.sammyboyforum.com/showthread.php?t=60407

http://www.sammyboyforum.com/showpos...37&postcount=2

http://www.sammyboyforum.com/showpos...4&postcount=20

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Thx for cautioning. . But if I dun trust her why get here in first plc. What will be will be only time will tell...

Btw I'm not hao laning here.. I just like to share good news with fellow brothers here.. We though have foreign wife deserve to live the same as others n we will. Ppl outside dun understand us but we do.:D

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This thought of FAIRNESS may not be applicable here....first do u understand them? Their language and culture is just a tip of the ice-berg. You must also understand the environment they grow up in.

Many Sillyporeans buy vietnamese mail order brides and how many got good news after that? Statistics tells the stories.... I personally know of a few Viet ladies who married to Sillyporeas and treat their husband exactly like Sillyporeans.

Mifacafe, u learnt real fast....must be H88 fault...hihi

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yeah Anh deptrai, 1272 pg of stories n advices are not there for nothing.. I do hope I'm not wrong too.. only X yrs will tell. why bothers.. Once we made the choice, Just live n build the life we want to have..just with some awareness...

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Most of the time people married for other reason rather than "trust".

Mainly companionship, produce next generation, fulfilled parent wishes, love etc.

Trust is fictional as it can change overnight just like "LOVE"

The reason she married you is for a better life. And if you give too much; she may be destroy once you leave her. And if you give too little; any guy coming around with a thicker stack of dollar bill will draw her away.

When I meet my first VB in June 2013; I thought they are just like any other woman...... now in Feb 2014 I start to realise they are a different breed.

They can do thing that you will never believe........ you will experience those nonsense very soon.

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Before I go VN in June 2013; I already have GFs in Singapore.

Every VBs I meet more or less have problem that always point back to "MONEY".

Buying phone, mother sick, father injured, brother married, ban gai ko co tien, sister baby coming.... never ending story and disaster always point to getting more money out of your pocket.

Every VB whom ask me for something; I will ask H88 whether the request is reasonable.

However, there are some that never talk about money and travel 3 hours by bus just to meet you in HCM. Although I maybe touch by their gesture; but I still bare in mind that it may be all a mind game between two of us.

And end of the day; H88 is right. All girls come to me for a reason....... MONEY.

The girl may really love you; but without money in the equation they might as well married a local guy whom do not give them money.

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Not many people got so many "X" number of years to burn....
And not forgetting your effort and money to make the relationship work will also burn together....

Maybe you should read the first 400 pages of this tread; you may get at least 10 tips to train and guide your VB.

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Can share share what nonsense the VB do?