Originally Posted by Kim91 (Post 10517585)

Hi bro, finally back in Singapore..Vn is so hot... bring our parents to Ha Tien and stay HCM for a few days....

Originally Posted by MIFAcafe (Post 10529623)

Teaching your BX to fish May not be a great idea.

Just keep your finger cross that there are no secret agenda which is well hidden now, which will surface in X years to come.

Just sharing. Congratulation.

Originally Posted by Golden question (Post 10541474)

I agreed with u,if know how to fish already why need need the master

Same as I have PR status already why need u cos I can stay here and no need u to extend,i just use your rod to fish

I am also just sharing,congrate too

Originally Posted by deptrai4u (Post 10532387)

This thought of FAIRNESS may not be applicable here....first do u understand them? Their language and culture is just a tip of the ice-berg. You must also understand the environment they grow up in.

Many Sillyporeans buy vietnamese mail order brides and how many got good news after that? Statistics tells the stories.... I personally know of a few Viet ladies who married to Sillyporeas and treat their husband exactly like Sillyporeans.

Mifacafe, u learnt real fast....must be H88 fault...hihi

Originally Posted by Kim91 (Post 10534913)

yeah Anh deptrai, 1272 pg of stories n advices are not there for nothing.. I do hope I'm not wrong too.. only X yrs will tell. why bothers.. Once we made the choice, Just live n build the life we want to have..just with some awareness...

Originally Posted by MIFAcafe (Post 10535370)

Most of the time people married for other reason rather than "trust".

Mainly companionship, produce next generation, fulfilled parent wishes, love etc.

Trust is fictional as it can change overnight just like "LOVE"

The reason she married you is for a better life. And if you give too much; she may be destroy once you leave her. And if you give too little; any guy coming around with a thicker stack of dollar bill will draw her away.

When I meet my first VB in June 2013; I thought they are just like any other woman...... now in Feb 2014 I start to realise they are a different breed.

They can do thing that you will never believe........ you will experience those nonsense very soon.

Originally Posted by MIFAcafe (Post 10535396)

Not many people got so many "X" number of years to burn....
And not forgetting your effort and money to make the relationship work will also burn together....

Maybe you should read the first 400 pages of this tread; you may get at least 10 tips to train and guide your VB.

Originally Posted by Kim91 (Post 10537545)

haha my philosopy is diff... I prefer to give her family the fishing rod, as long they have means to earn the more stable we will be.. For her I feed her no prob.

Originally Posted by Kim91 (Post 10538960)

Haha I know u going to qoute these stories... I know...
I did mentioned somewhere b4.. Yeah it happen once. My wife 3rd sis ask for help for son small operation. No problem I give..the next day I saw the bro in law drive new bike. Its just a chance to seek sympathy. I made known my displeasure. then on the couple never dare to ask for anything.
n they know what I means.. there's no second chances..

Originally Posted by MIFAcafe (Post 10539033)

No story here.

This are real life example which a lot of brothers here went thru.

You come to this thread to understand VBs, what is the point of coming here to learn and still get conned.

Learned from other mistakes so you do not have to go thru the misery.

One day you darling might just told you she lost and owe $5,000 gambling with her relatives. How are you going to settle this?
All this are not fictional.

Originally Posted by Golden question (Post 10541621)

There will be a second chances but not the same story,thats why MIA say,they are of different breed

Originally Posted by Hurricane88 (Post 10541671)

last week in hcm...one VB who I knew almost 2 yrs agreed to come see me at 8pm...at 8pm she called to ask me if I really want to see her...I told her dun need to come since you have not even arrived...

Originally Posted by naemlo (Post 10542078)

U getting fiercer each day :D, same bad attitude like me.
In any "dates", for me I will wait extra 15 mins then I will go off. A few times, gers f me because I did not wait, I just ignore or hang up the phone. It is a courtesy to apologise when late or if she thinks she will be late, she has to call n inform me. Late n still wants me to pamper her? Go let dog f.
As your case, I will ask her to go f spider. Naemlo's quote, "She needs to be more eager to see me than I want to see her."

Originally Posted by Hurricane88 (Post 10541671)

I dun believe in giving Vb 2nd chance...:)

Originally Posted by Seletar (Post 10542205)

I gave a VB 2nd chance because she begged me but after few months she asked for 3rd chance, I straight away dumped her.