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MIFAcafe 25-03-2014 04:04 PM

Re: Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner
 
Taking means doing...
Try not to give second chance.

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Originally Posted by littleleroy (Post 10725388)
Thanks bro, will take your advise!.

Thanking mean you will not do it....
This is stupid; this part is more valid then 99% of your other story.

Once the DNA show the kid is not yours ; you can walk away.

Or you want your girl to tell you in the future you are a bloody idiot.
7-8 billion people in this world; a lot of them look similar... just because the kid look like you; may end up belong to other. The baby may belong to a "BigRoy" you have not met. (and your girl may know all along that her baby is never yours)

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Originally Posted by littleleroy (Post 10725311)
Thanks for the advise! Well, my sister and relatives ask me to do DNA test but I didn't think it was necessary as I know it's my son -he looks like me.... (or you can say I live in denial). Haha


littleleroy 25-03-2014 04:08 PM

Re: Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner
 
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Originally Posted by KangTuo (Post 10694258)
Littleleroy, since your wife wanna come back, you can let her back with your child on condition that she adhere to your terms. It's time you outsmart her.

Observe her for this period... Divorce and move on if necessary.

Never let her touch your finances anymore. Allowance given upon request
Keep your child passport.

By the way, how come you gave your wife 2k when she say she keep it for child education?
Don't you think it is too early and didn't you know that there is a thing called the CDA account?

Yes bro, she said she will follow my way this time and will observe her for a period. Hope her pattern won't come our again la. One of the things I think she's unhappy is to stay with my family and wants her own home. But knowing of such that she had done, and her bad relationship with my sister, I don't know how long to subdue her. Any ways to say tactfully that she won't be named under the house entitlement?

I actually maxed out the CDA account. So this other sum of money is for - kids other cost now and in future and other necessities so if she need can access to it. I mean I trust that she won't misuse it la, but Im wrong.

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Originally Posted by KangTuo (Post 10694296)
Because we always think we are ready for family life together but we are actually not.

indeed so!

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Originally Posted by Hurricane88 (Post 10694488)
haha...dun need to stalk you...was searching the thread to help littleleroy then came across your post...dun think you got replied...so just post to ask you because knew you went thru...:p

I really appreciate your help bro! 感动!

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Originally Posted by Hurricane88 (Post 10694514)
that is why dun rush into marriage even gal is pregnant...man can take responsible as father to care for baby but dun rush into marriage as sinkie...women charter is strong here...men have more to lose here during divorce settlement...:p

women charters applies to vbs?

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Originally Posted by Golden question (Post 10698665)
Your post does not look like u are worry or sad,is this a true story from u or u just want keep this thread alive?

bro, sometimes don't know what emoticon to post luh... S many things going through my mind Like I'm lost / sad / angry / denial. This forum no need me to keep it alive leh. Hahaha

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Originally Posted by Kim91 (Post 10700319)
Thats why I believe his situation is not that bad till need divorce... there's some missing parts.. he just need to get his wife back, have a good toking session n using bro singviet's methodology...

you are right bro! Tried to talk her out using chat chat card. She seems ok now that she's back in wet nam.

littleleroy 25-03-2014 04:15 PM

Re: Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner
 
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Originally Posted by MIFAcafe (Post 10725493)
Taking means doing...
Try not to give second chance.
Thanking mean you will not do it....
This is stupid; this part is more valid then 99% of your other story.

Once the DNA show the kid is not yours ; you can walk away.

Or you want your girl to tell you in the future you are a bloody idiot.
7-8 billion people in this world; a lot of them look similar... just because the kid look like you; may end up belong to other. The baby may belong to a "BigRoy" you have not met. (and your girl may know all along that her baby is never yours)

Erm I got count the dates that we lam tinh leh before she diagnose pregnant. So should be right la. I understand your point where you coming from

Golden question 25-03-2014 04:25 PM

Re: Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner
 
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Originally Posted by littleleroy (Post 10725528)
Yes bro, she said she will follow my way this time and will observe her for a period. Hope her pattern won't come our again la. One of the things I think she's unhappy is to stay with my family and wants her own home. But knowing of such that she had done, and her bad relationship with my sister, I don't know how long to subdue her. Any ways to say tactfully that she won't be named under the house entitlement?

I actually maxed out the CDA account. So this other sum of money is for - kids other cost now and in future and other necessities so if she need can access to it. I mean I trust that she won't misuse it la, but Im wrong.

So easy,told her cannot put her name as long as she is holding on to a ltvp or ltvp plus and i believe is what she is holding now,is not bluff is the hdb law.tell her and she will start to pester u to apply PR for her and just to let u know cos u post before she bring your baby back to vietnam before,is with or without your consent?just to let u know is a very very serious case and according to law,she will be prosecuted cos is consider child trafficking if u are going to fight all the way to her country,ask her try again if she dare,try to challenge the law lah if she dare

Golden question 25-03-2014 04:30 PM

Re: Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner
 
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Originally Posted by littleleroy (Post 10725445)
You are right bro, i need to be firm this time..

So if she use your baby to threaten u,will u be firm?

Golden question 25-03-2014 04:33 PM

Re: Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by littleleroy (Post 10725528)
Yes bro, she said she will follow my way this time and will observe her for a period. Hope her pattern won't come our again la. One of the things I think she's unhappy is to stay with my family and wants her own home. But knowing of such that she had done, and her bad relationship with my sister, I don't know how long to subdue her. Any ways to say tactfully that she won't be named under the house entitlement?

I actually maxed out the CDA account. So this other sum of money is for - kids other cost now and in future and other necessities so if she need can access to it. I mean I trust that she won't misuse it la, but Im wrong.

indeed so!

I really appreciate your help bro! 感动!

women charters applies to vbs?

bro, sometimes don't know what emoticon to post luh... S many things going through my mind Like I'm lost / sad / angry / denial. This forum no need me to keep it alive leh. Hahaha

you are right bro! Tried to talk her out using chat chat card. She seems ok now that she's back in wet nam.

Woman charter apply to all pussy who are legally marry here or recognise marriage by the govertment,not where she come from

MIFAcafe 25-03-2014 04:39 PM

Re: Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner
 
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Originally Posted by Golden question (Post 10725673)
Woman charter apply to all pussy who are legally marry here or recognise marriage by the govertment,not where she come from

Hhhhmmmm..... got baby mean must marry ha?

If I am in this situation; I will try to stay together for a 1-2 years before deciding....

I met many gals whom have baby; but don't know where the father.... so why can't this girl wait 1-2 years....

Hurricane88 25-03-2014 04:43 PM

Re: Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by MIFAcafe (Post 10725493)
Thanking mean you will not do it....
This is stupid; this part is more valid then 99% of your other story.
Once the DNA show the kid is not yours ; you can walk away.

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Originally Posted by littleleroy (Post 10725591)
Erm I got count the dates that we lam tinh leh before she diagnose pregnant. So should be right la. I understand your point where you coming from

i shall not be bothered with such naive person....will not bother to reply anymore of his post...better take our time to do more meaningful things...:confused:

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Originally Posted by littleleroy (Post 10725528)
women charters applies to vbs?

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Originally Posted by Golden question (Post 10725673)
Woman charter apply to all pussy who are legally marry here or recognise marriage by the govertment,not where she come from

GQ...thank you for reply...not keen to advise anyone who is not keen to listen...is like chinese say "sing a love song to the cow"...:confused:

I can walk away if some ppl are not worth to help...:p

MIFAcafe 25-03-2014 04:45 PM

Re: Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by littleleroy (Post 10725591)
Erm I got count the dates that we lam tinh leh before she diagnose pregnant. So should be right la. I understand your point where you coming from

You mean your gal cannot LT with other men including you on the same day?:confused:

Hurricane88 25-03-2014 04:47 PM

Re: Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by MIFAcafe (Post 10725726)
Hhhhmmmm..... got baby mean must marry ha?

If I am in this situation; I will try to stay together for a 1-2 years before deciding....

I met many gals whom have baby; but don't know where the father.... so why can't this girl wait 1-2 years....

haha...so many of my VB that I knew wants to have my baby...haha...still no have VB came to claim and want to marry me after 7 yrs in Wet Nam...:p

in fact I knew frens who had kids with VBs but no marriage...only take responsible of the mother and kid...still happily together...hehe...:p

littleleroy 25-03-2014 04:47 PM

Re: Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by MIFAcafe (Post 10723008)
I always take every turn of events as an opportunity to learn and also treat it as a blessing in disguise.

well said!

MIFAcafe 25-03-2014 04:50 PM

Re: Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner
 
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Originally Posted by littleleroy (Post 10725764)
well said!

A lot of things LKY said are all "well said".

But that is it...... LKY is hard to follow.

Although I am nobody; but you also hard to follow what I can and will do...

Just like TS said... Singaporeans are too soft and easily manipulated.

VB can lies without a reason. With a baby; now they got more reasons to lie.

littleleroy 25-03-2014 05:21 PM

Re: Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Golden question (Post 10725641)
she will be prosecuted cos is consider child trafficking if u are going to fight all the way to her country,ask her try again if she dare,try to challenge the law lah if she dare

Yup LTVP, she brought him back w/o my consent. She just left like this, I only found out when her friend who she stayed in her house told me abt it.

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Originally Posted by Golden question (Post 10725659)
So if she use your baby to threaten u,will u be firm?

will, If extreme then will file for divorce and give Maintainence fee for my boy.. But I will fight for his custody first.

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Originally Posted by Hurricane88 (Post 10725744)
i shall not be bothered with such naive person....will not bother to reply anymore of his post...better take our time to do more meaningful things...:confused: GQ...thank you for reply...not keen to advise anyone who is not keen to listen...is like chinese say "sing a love song to the cow"...:confused: I can walk away if some ppl are not worth to help...:p

give chance la bro, but thanks for your input and time all this while, will take some time to disgust all bros valuable input, okieeee I shall not bother you guys much for now. Peace out! :X

Kim91 25-03-2014 05:23 PM

Re: Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by littleleroy (Post 10725528)
I actually maxed out the CDA account. So this other sum of money is for - kids other cost now and in future and other necessities so if she need can access to it. I mean I trust that she won't misuse it la, but Im wrong.

Bro how u max out CDA ac? Can only put in cant take out wor?? Or u mean u mean give all the bb bonus money to her?

stillgottheblue 25-03-2014 05:24 PM

Re: Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner
 
Want to LT, tell VB don't want baby, if got baby, end of relationship and will not bear any responsibility.


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