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have la...but seldom said so...normally post VB to be villain...blood suckers...:)

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i also never see...or maybe the posting is made before i join SBF.... :)

i think at least 90% of the comments in this thread was saying bad abt VBs..

seriously wonder if all these were seen by actual eyes of the bros here or through hearsay???

and what abt the wife's of other bros?...why only pointing out negative remarks of other VBs?...i am sure wife of u guys certainly has something gd..if not why u guys marry in the first place?

come on guys..lets see things with an open heart...not all VBs are bad..and not all hearsays are true..there are bond to be black sheeps everywhere..and true,the amount might be more in 3rd world countries due to their living conditions..but there are also many out there who married a gd wife..hope to see more positive remarks on VBs in future...:)

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Totally Agreed. There are good and bad VB. I used to fool around with VB. Some of them really good to you. I had even tried to borrow $$ fm them. They didnt even chase for the $$ I borrowed. Cos there are too many bros here being con or hurt before. Like me, I was also hurt before but i still want to marry a VB. Good one no one will tell but bad one everyone will tell. :D

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Bro, when you marry ? got invite me or not ? I can join your entourage to the province and got chance tackle the vb there ? :D

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U said that u got bx in vn, why go vn and tackle the vb there????

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It is true that laos and vietnam gals share the same mentality whereby man have to buy a piece of land for the family?

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Thailand, Lao, Burma and Philippines all got the same mentality.

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Say bad things all assumed is `hear say' . Say good things all the truth huh? So now i sing some praises for the VB.

`VB very good and plan for the future. They help the foreign husbands to plan ahead for retirement by asking for money to build a house in the province. To show filial piety, they employ the parents and siblings to help take care of the house by paying them some salary each month. VB are also very considerate, they plan for the foreign husband's future by buying a few bikes and ask their siblings to take care of the bikes so that the husband and her can use when they return to VN for retirement in 20 years time. They are smart investors too. They show the many ways to invest in many different types of business in VN province.

For own family, the VBs are very traditional. They make sure all their kids speak more TV than mandarin and english. Singapore is too competitive, so instead of teachers telling her that the child fail all subjects in school and losing face, they make sure that the kids fail badly in school. No worries, fail in Singapore still can go back VN province to manage their BUSINESS. Some VBs are also good income earners. Poor Singaporean husband cannot earn enough to invest in VN, they network outside to pool more resources from other Singaporean man to invest in this big VN business they have. Many others are also very good businesswoman, they invest in mini hotels to provide accommodation and food for the big BUSINESSWOMAN that comes Singapore every month.

Their family in VN are always ready to assist in taking care of the investments in VN. Foreigner husbands no need worry. Invest in the future darling.

How can SINGVIET say that they are crooks and blood suckers? SINGVIET doesn't allow his wife to plan for his future, so he's poor and broke. Serves him right !!

VB
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All the best for the good singaporean husband who listens to whatever VB says. Good Investments!!!'

For those VBs who don't plan for the future by asking their husbands to invest, they are really bad. But thank god, they are only the minority.

:D :D :D

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haha....well said and agreed...:)

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Can you ask Volcano kor kor, he every province got one. :D:)

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sibei true loh...:)

but its an open forum..everyone has their rights to give their opinion..

if ALL VBs are so bad then why are there so many marrying them???

or maybe we are darn lucky that we manage to get one where we no need to feed their whole family,no need build house for her family,buy few expensive bikes etc...

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To help the parent repair or build house, I wonder why the local son-in-laws can not pool up the money to help, but instead, ask the Sillyporean son-in-law for $$ and our status is last in the list but in terms of monetary contributions, we are top most in the list.
Quite scary scenario. :eek:

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who kor kor????.....me huh????

me only small didi nia...not same as many who had travel to Vietnam for years and can get SYT easily wor...

didi here the most only has in VL and Hcmc nia..

but sure will pay respect to tai kor Seletar when coming to Tay Ninh in future...:)

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majority of guys in village of country side are odd job labourers or farmers..

their monthly earnings is abt 2-3 mills Vnd...and this amt might just be enough for them to smoke and drink...if wait for them to repair house..have to wait very long lol...:D

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Not bad liao mah in VL and Hcmc got vbs.
You see me so up, don't open bottle of liquor also difficult. :D