| mutantchicken |
30-07-2014 01:19 AM |
Re: Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner
Quote:
Originally Posted by FireShark
(Post 11521042)
I had one good example too. My friend which is old now 50 married a young VB which is 26 now.
-5K Wedding
-1k Photos in VN
-2K as a gift for her family
After that my friend only gave her $500 each month only cos my friend don't earn much. His BX work as a Beer lady but manage to save and built a house for her family after 3 years. I ask my friend did he pay anything he say no, only $500 each month.
I had 1 friend, Malaysian, got a VB pregnant and marry in VN. Total Expenditure for wedding is 5K only. Now monthly, he just send $400 to his bx only $400. The kids is abt 1 year old now. The bx didn't ask much fm my friend too. Just enough for her and their kids
I had another friend, in the midst of divorce, got 1 vb pregnant. No wedding No photo taking, the vb willing to take care of the Kid. My friend wanted to divorce immediately but due to the regulation, the case was dragged and waited for a while. The VB waited until delivery of their children, then my friend managed to get divorce and now I find them live happily.
All my 3 friends earn not more than $3.5 K a month.
There are always good and bad VB but for VB I find them have more empathy (if you explain to them) than some other foreign wives.
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ok firstly men are driven by ego..so even if they are giving more they may say they give less..to say they give more they will be labled a cockald..even to close friends..second i ask again whats the advantage of gettinng married, is it not to share you life with another person, to get emotional psychological and physical support...now in those cases you describe, in some cases the woman lives far away so its impossible to provide a man that kind of support, instead the man gives 300-400 monbth for little or no ROI, further he is not providing any support apart from financial support, so im sure for the physical/emotional support she is getting elsewhere...again for the beer lady, she gets to earn she gets to help her family, she prob is too busy too tired to have sex...fake marriaages to australia are worth 70k usd..so she gets a similar value in the singapore marriage FREE plus she gets 300 a mth..and she again gets a suppliment to her income for doing nothing...thats a bargain for the girl..please tell me where i can get a JOB where i get 300-400 a mth where i dont have to do anything except pick up my phone and say a few sweet words and maybe a few times a month/ do "something"...if that is what you guys call a marriage...then god help this society we live in |
