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It is their culture that the youngest son will inherit most of the land, but he must also take care of the parents and pray to ancestors.

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This comes in a package. My bx is the youngest the sisters who wants to stay in the house when my bx is in singapore must seek me n her approval. But i told them who stay there is free but must take care of parents... up to now still no takers... thats how realistic they are.

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So this bro is that person who sit together with you while you talked to that VB???

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Yes, I have seen. Maybe the tomb of the parents are behind the house so the praying ceremony is held there.

I have heard that every brother and sister need to give money for the Dam GIO.

Yes I have heard if the amount is large like more than 100+Trieu vnd.

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Hhmmm... but my father-in-law is not the youngest and he took care of everything.
... Probably the youngest is the one who immigrated to USA.

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For my bx family, tombs are erected beside the house. I attended Dam Gio once.. pray and pray and pray al day. Night time got dinner...

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Any jobs out there for bx to work? Limited command of english and chinese..
Planning ahead for the working mother incentive ($300) when my monkey start schooling.. :)

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KT

You can go FB to look for Jobs. A lot of Vietnamese posted job vacancy on the FB Group Chat.

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https://sg.entertainment.yahoo.com/v...033000467.html

A video talking about Vietnamese woman seeking Marriage in Singapore

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I would like to find a young Vietnamese bride...how to go about it? Is there any reliable agency for it? I at my early 40s....What are do and dont ..any advise brothers?

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most of the agency are scam and the gals may had married few times or MIA after receiving deposits...:)

IMHO...if you want a bride...go to SOURCE...if want Viet wife then go to Vietnam...dun go just once...go many trips...learn their culture and language...slowly choose a good wife...get to know the gal and let the relationship grow...dun rush into marriage...take 2 years and see how...:)

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DESTINY (Duyên Nợ)
Three Vietnamese women reveal their fears and aspirations about marrying a Singaporean man, and what their lives are like in their hometowns.

This documentary has three stories of Vietnamese women interwoven with the matchmaker’s interview. Through their narration, the audience gets a glimpse of what their living conditions are like in Vietnam, and understands the women’s inner hopes, fears and aspirations, and how marrying to Singapore can help improve their families’ standards of living.

http://www.viddsee.com/video/destinyduynn/4tlsu

For sharing :D

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Thanks bro for your info...

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Totally agreed with H88. If you really wanted to take Vietnamese women as wife, you need to understand them 1st before you make any decision. It is not easy marrying a Vietnamese women. If you are lucky, you get a good wife, if not you will be the one who suffered in the end

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It depends on whether u have time and effort to find and select the so called right one. If u have then visit VN regularly and get your friend to intro.

It is tiring but to some it is fun, to spend the time and effort to go after a ger, stay together for a year or 2 then find it not suitable and repeat the process again.

If u are pressured to get marry, dun have time, can't regularly visit VN and no friend to intro then agent match make might be for u.

Marriage is a gamble... what seem good might not down the road. Most ppl are blindly in love when started but after marriage, staying together for long, the "freshness" is gone, every horn is out... This is the time for the couple to give and take and most important responsibility.

From the forum, the major issue with foreign wives esp those from the poor is money.... so be mentally prepared.

BTW why VN ger???