Originally Posted by KangTuo (Post 11698289)

Any jobs out there for bx to work? Limited command of english and chinese..
Planning ahead for the working mother incentive ($300) when my monkey start schooling.. :)

Originally Posted by naemlo (Post 11725995)

It depends on whether u have time and effort to find and select the so called right one. If u have then visit VN regularly and get your friend to intro.

It is tiring but to some it is fun, to spend the time and effort to go after a ger, stay together for a year or 2 then find it not suitable and repeat the process again.

If u are pressured to get marry, dun have time, can't regularly visit VN and no friend to intro then agent match make might be for u.

Marriage is a gamble... what seem good might not down the road. Most ppl are blindly in love when started but after marriage, staying together for long, the "freshness" is gone, every horn is out... This is the time for the couple to give and take and most important responsibility.

From the forum, the major issue with foreign wives esp those from the poor is money.... so be mentally prepared.

BTW why VN ger???

Originally Posted by sunhuan-con (Post 11726858)

No choice left...local and malaysian girls too chossy...needs time to sian them and not easy to please.Moreover social circle getting very small to know them ,

Originally Posted by Seletar (Post 11727422)

Whether local, Malaysians or vn girls all are the same, if you don't bring home money, they also run far far.. but vn gers a bit better hihi.. :D:p

Originally Posted by Seletar (Post 11727422)

Whether local, Malaysians or vn girls all are the same, if you don't bring home money, they also run far far.. but vn gers a bit better hihi.. :D:p

Originally Posted by hayhay1 (Post 11726721)

Bro u can try changcheng, my wife work there and many Vietnamese also work there, but working hour 12hrs, one week one day off, can take home $1800 include OT

Originally Posted by KangTuo (Post 11727479)

Thanks... Shall see and decide when times come. Working in changcheng will means needing to work on weekends.
Maybe just forego the working mother subsidies as weekend family time is important to me.

Originally Posted by Seletar (Post 11727422)

Whether local, Malaysians or vn girls all are the same, vn gers also not easy to please, if you don't bring home money, they also run far far.. but vn gers a bit better hihi.. :D:p

Originally Posted by sunhuan-con (Post 11726858)

No choice left...local and malaysian girls too chossy...needs time to sian them and not easy to please.Moreover social circle getting very small to know them ,

Originally Posted by Kim91 (Post 11730733)

Bro KT, sudsidies only at most $400 i think.. no worth to sacrifice for family time.. u planning to let ur son go playgroup or wat? Our sons shd be ard same age. I planning to send him go for more interaction with others next jan.

Originally Posted by Kim91 (Post 11730738)

Agreed. Ppl always tot we go for easier route to wed vb; i feel we went thru the hardest way..

Originally Posted by Kim91 (Post 11730738)

Agreed. Ppl always tot we go for easier route to wed vb; i feel we went thru the hardest way..

Originally Posted by sunhuan-con (Post 11731472)

Agree..lots of people say very good in marrying a viet....say they can be good wife, young, pretty etc.......how hard u went through?

Originally Posted by FireShark (Post 11731532)

There are many good VB wife but there are bad too. Just luck if you intend to look for those agency. Find someone who had not been to Singapore is still the best. Don't waste time and $ to those so call agency.
I find that in Vietnam, most VB don't interfere or talk much when Men Talking and 男人不坏，女人不爱. Once they come to Singapore several times, they like to interfere in Men Talking and even no respect for some men. I hate those VB.