Originally Posted by SingViet (Post 11805130)

If you are sure that your gal is serious about you and that you want to marry her asap, then carry on. It kind of defeats the purpose of asking around when you know what you want to do. Btw, the term 'ba xa' is a term you use to address your `wife' after you get your `marriage cert'.

You mention you are jobless and average looking and you see no reason why the gal should choose you, don't forget you got a RED NRIC that can sponsor her a LTSVP that will allow her to work for the longer term in Singapore. What you need to do now is to get a job and offer stability to your gal. Forget about going to VN to do business, most Singaporeans cannot make it there.

Originally Posted by mackewell (Post 11814484)

Oh ya i also came across this documentary, watching it now. Its about Viet girls marry to singapore, interview type documentary.... dunno nice anot, check it out....

https://www.viddsee.com/video/destinyduynn/4tlsu

PS: IMO highly recommended to watch for bros like me who want to knoe more about viet culture, then u have viet guys who are lazy bums, useless ones haizz......

NOT FOR THE WEAK heart, i watch liao i abit emo after watching the living conditions, worst than thailand.....

Originally Posted by mackewell (Post 11826377)

bro u misinteprete lah i joking lah neber cry, i get what u mean, i must not be too soft dun call her for one week c how hee hee..... anyway i using prepaid card, cheap and can call long time, cant buy air tix :P

Originally Posted by mackewell (Post 11822459)

No no no not all r milfs, my gf's group got a few syts liao lollll, u need to knoe where to hunt them lah lol....

Originally Posted by mackewell (Post 11825093)

Damn, had a short chat with my gf, she dun like to tok alot, ask her about her family, her bro and sis at there keep toking to her in tieng viet(shite i dun understand), her brain really kenna controlled by her family members.

Scully she ask me can send her vitamin M help her? must be the bro there hassling for money. i told her i no money now, cant help. she say now she urgently need, when she go back jb work, no need liao.

I told her really now cannot, give mi time, she say she dun want to tok about her issues at home, she veri fan(vexed). She say dun call her until she go back johor. I kinda dissapointed lah, she say she not this kind of person, see bf got alot of money then like him, she say see his heart one.

Based on my past experiences with her, i trust her but i dun trust her family. Fucking hell, for sure got one useless bro buming right there asking my gf for money nnb. NVM i told her calm down first , think first, dun say angry words, i am not going to give up just like that and no way i am going to give money easily to his bro to let him la kopi at his hometown.

Haizz, same problems coming up, cannot say i give up coz i still see glimmer of hope, must brainwash her into my side, if not i can sayonara to my first r/s, hopefully not a short one wif a viet girl...

PS: due to cultural and communications prob, transparency is an issue and can be the issue to be all end all. Hopefully, the picture gets clearer and i get through the 'paintings'....

Originally Posted by mackewell (Post 11825206)

The way she say it: ''you can help, the amount i cannot say how much becuz not nice for me to say also.'' Scully bro and sis talk tieng viet, she said: ''i need 200 sgd lah''..... I ask her, she dont want tell me her family probs, i probe her , she wont say... she say veri complicated, dont want say...

OK i understand she needs money and i know got no free lunch and i want to help her abit also which i can afford to. However, the circumstance to how it leads to the final sum asked is something which makes me feel abit sad, a bit uneasy on my heart.... She did say take the r/s slowly, but then stupid siblings spoiler nia make her attitude change knn....

Its very contradicating, i want to knoe her better, but not her family probs, but its all come in the bloody package which i have to sign up for which most of the stuff inside suck balls....

Originally Posted by MIFAcafe (Post 11825378)

Never ask you to be a bastard..... just telling you this one no good just find a better one... no need to be sad.

By the way; you must be a Chinese.... only Chinese will think "if a gal let you F; it is a big deal."

The truth is; SEX is nothing to a lot of VBs. So don't over read a VB with your emotion.

Maybe you seldom for in love........ hence you so emotional. That can be a death trap.

Originally Posted by mackewell (Post 11825552)

bro, i like ur breakdown, u are not typical chinese, mi LIKE! LOL.... same as me

I think you get it wrong, i introvert even till today, i not like the uncles shout or grab girls by the hand and ask to sit with them, i give eye contact to girl and smile abit, if she want come, she come lor, if i think she not bad, i will ask her sit down when i at lorong 13. My girl insisted to sit with me she suddenly pop out from nowhere when i drinking teh o at lorong 13 during late aug 2013.

Next, i din give her tips also , she never ask LOL. Scully everytime we makan she feed me fries at macdonalds, feed keropok, wipe my mouth. I never ask her do leh, she veri happy to do that. in car or tax, hug me like glue sia i also never ask her do that cuz i tt time i knoe she lao jiao so i dun believe.

But her kc trap(hope not) super no returns one, till today i also hardly give her money, buy her medicated oil lah give her tip in malaysia ringgit when we drink lah, fair lah. So bottom line is she came into my life for some reason, she say i good heart she like, she lao jiao see all kind of men, when i say why dont u find a rich ong xa in sg and marry, she become dulan with me lol. I not bastard, i know she want a better life and if i cant give her , i tell her. I din like her first, but i am willing to let her go if she is happy tt way....

Originally Posted by mackewell (Post 11825650)

Bro i get what u saying but she doing all this for no money after 8 meetings, probably i bring her go makan and go temple only? how to explain? go ask bros who chiong wif me before , see how budget i am on women lol. Unless she is the one i love, i spend, or else try asking any hot woman to kc me and ask me to spend on her(of cos the lam tinh pay lah, first try no bbbj no more 2nd time, tip pay minimum dun care sia, cannot dun pay sure bastard one), once again i not haolian LOL, i dun think like chinese, i dun need to, and sure as hell i dun give an arse shite about ego or wadever crap....

Hurricane bro, i know u want to ask me find new VB and protect my fucking wallet first, but i really dun want to go back to my cycle of fuck and forget(F & F), what meaning after my 8 years doing tt? tired sia, got no direction, now i really want see how my r/s work, fail then fail lah, i scare i no face? i dun care sia, when i let go, let it go, but must be honest god to myself to give my best shot and not suck it up to all this critics, stereotype crap becuz ppl cant move out of their comfort zone sometimes....

PS: hurricane bro, i just up you, sory for being direct wif my views but thanks for your pointers...

Originally Posted by Golden question (Post 11827416)

Finally post finish,time to return to my porn or my beer:p

Originally Posted by Golden question (Post 11827041)

Bro is PINK NRIC lah,u need check your eye degree bo:D

Originally Posted by mackewell (Post 11828377)

Wah thanks for your rants, i certainly hope your previous cai tow experience with a working WL does not hinder your faith in pursuing a real r/s that involves effort and time. Porn and booze are awesome but overconsumption is detrimental to a person's social life...