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my regular vb-fb said if anyone marry her, she would like to have S$800-1k /mth for expenses, that includes the $$ to buy medicine for her ma. Today ktv another younger 25yrs old vb with a 5yrs old daughter also said she needs S$1k/mth ... :eek: .... if avg viet earn S$2-300 as per reported per capita ... really confuse how this 25yrs old can achieve her expected amount .. unless SG ktv really very ho-tan

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Bro kt shd start keep mountain liao.. last week go find childcare for my son to go learn something instead of staying at hm.. all full till 2015 except some exp ones like carpe diem etc...end up bk a playgroup let him play first.. then myfirstskool in 2016... btw basic subsidy for non - working mom only $150 not 300.

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Vn now also go by per capita... (per pax) :D

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I went for a few preview nearby...they are not offering what I am looking for for my son. I am looking for weekend playgroup. mostly classroom lesson. my son too young and to active for that now.

I will either let my son go Gymboree at vivocity or the little gym at marina
...another one...mygym at westgate

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worried... then its time to throw the vb liao..

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that's why the come here work in ktv to earn $$$ for her family to spend
ktv really ho tan... I have seen many vb working in ktv going back to vn with avg of $15K per trip

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enjoy the wind only? that simple? :cool:

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not only vb...viet guys also a lot to gossip and talk. any topic also they can debate on. you will notice it when they gather to drink :)

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But now the problem is her sister knows me n we are frens for quite long..today my vb she says she started grown to love me and not previously saying can like and cannot love...

I started to feels abit scared cos she knows too much of me already..
The only thing she dunno is my living place.. others info bout me she have..
:(

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Her sister know you so what?... Got to run means got to run..

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They have a big Viet group network here wor... I don't think I can run very far ... I'm figuring how to slowly or ways to let her not so love me or maintain normal bf status... n I can't bring myself to intro other guys to her... :(

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That one is weekly rite? Why dun want daily playgroup? Its less 200 per mth.. 2hr each. My thots is just let him learn to mix with other kids n learn english. Prepare him for childcare or pre - nursery. Remind u playgroup also very hot.. need advance booking.

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My boy is K1 this year. He started playgroup when he was 18 months old. My wifey and I wanted him to learn to mix with other kids. He started off with private kindergartens, from Kinderland to Learning Vision. School fees were always going up and up. Before coming to PCF last year, Learning Vision was charging more than 1k a month , with all the extra lessons that every kid must take. I finally transferred my boy to PCF last year. Depending on which centre, PCF is not too bad also. Fees are cheap. If you are earning less than 6k a month, there's subsidy. Even if you are earning more than 6k and with your wife working, its only $280 after subsidy for full day . My boy has been going full day, so that my wifey and i can attend to our business and my maid can do housework at home.

Its good to start young. The children will learn to be independent.

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Yeah fully agreed . thats why even though he still cant speak, i also want send him to expise him to english more... considering pcf pre - nursery. Just book child care for 2016 see how... if want him in sch learn more than cc otherwise pre - nursery (4hr) will do. Just why the subsidy focus on working mom..:confused:
Btw bro SV, ur son attending just K1 in kindergarten or in the child care type?

300 for both working; additional for income below 7500 depend on the income. Kinderland is abt 1k lor.. even pcf childcare also abt 700 before subsidy.

$1K is ok if they are good and don't do anything other thing behind your back but I doubt that is going to happen especially after the honeymoon period.