Originally Posted by damong777 (Post 11982471)

Another example my current vb in vn, teaching her budgeting skills. If you outspend, too bad I will not give u more. That is to prepare her mindset that yes I can provide for u to a limit but no I am not atm. And she is prepared to accept not going out. She had been staying at home watching tv and learning english for past 10 days. Got tracker in phone to check just in case.

Originally Posted by geneo (Post 11984051)

Hi bros. I got married in Vietnam 3 months ago. It was a tedious and challenging procedure. Was really an experience.

Have been traveling up to visit my bx every month. She is working there. But I intend to bring her over to sg in the near future.

Is there a need to get ROM in Singapore? Or I can just convert the wedding certificate that I'd obtain in VN?

Originally Posted by Hurricane88 (Post 11984450)

congratulations...:)

just translate your Vn ROM to english...and show to the ICA when you try to apply your bx LTVP/LTVP, PR, Citizen...:)

dun mind share with us where you met your bx and what is she working in Vietnam....:)

Originally Posted by SingViet (Post 11984464)

I got married in VN 11 years ago and damm... it was seriously very troublesome. I guess they have not changed all these years.

Yes you are right Bro H88. Just translate your VN ROM cert into English, there is no need to ROM in Singapore again. VN marriage cert is recognized in Singapore.

Originally Posted by milfmilf (Post 11984367)

While I may be providing some financial support to my vb, I refrain from checking or monitoring her out of respect to another human, just like I don't like others to monitor me. But unfortunately some of her respond do let me start to suspect... difficult balancing act ... 放下自在？:rolleyes:

Originally Posted by devilcheong (Post 11984722)

I do tried do phone tracking to her hp and after she found out and she cancel it by either herself or friends helping her.. later she quarrel wif me till like end of the world..
Suspicion is unavoidable coz she is a VB...:)
So I usually calls her and listen to the sounds from the background to determined her location that she told me is correct.. :)

Originally Posted by SingViet (Post 11984805)

Tracking by GPS is not very accurate, especially when the 3G signals in VN is kind of weak. For example , she could have told you she's at Ben Thanh Market but in actual fact, she's at nearby Hotel banging away.... :D

Originally Posted by stillgottheblue (Post 11984969)

It make no sense if you need to monitor another person in order to be with her.

Originally Posted by milfmilf (Post 11984367)

While I may be providing some financial support to my vb, I refrain from checking or monitoring her out of respect to another human, just like I don't like others to monitor me. But unfortunately some of her respond do let me start to suspect... difficult balancing act ... 放下自在？:rolleyes:

Originally Posted by damong777 (Post 11986234)

Actually I dun bother to check. Just an option but never use at all yet.

Originally Posted by milfmilf (Post 11986483)

actually if she still wants the support, she should try to gain trust.
my vb once said something that I realize it is not in her agenda to show the person that pay for her whatever need$$, the proof, e.g see doctor, buy something. at times, when try to ask about it, she also reluctant to give details.. and that raise suspicion :(

Originally Posted by devilcheong (Post 11985024)

Its really doesn't make any sense at all to monitor her if from my point of views but from so many shared experience from bros and my 1st ex vb... its really makes sense and its true too by what many bros shared here...

Originally Posted by Kim91 (Post 11988309)

Bro after what happened, it dun make any sense now... move on to greener pastures... u find happiness.

Ps: It's really very mentally tiring to check on ur love one..