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This is my final update of my liaise with my VB.. I am now in Hanoi to re-visit her.. For this past 3 months, have been my heaven and hell day.. As VB can give you the love that you longing and also can let you miss her like hell... For this trip, I know that I have to give a closure of the issue between me and her. I have love her because she is ambition, determination and most importantly beautiful. However, deep in her heart, she still love her ex boyfriend whom i suspect she break up with him due to his poor financial standing. However, she look for me is due to she is looking for a substitute in her love for him and a person who can help her to elevate her family poverty. During my trip to Hanoi, she treat me hot and cold. She ask me to buy her diamond ring and perfume in which I done so. And she will act busy in work or in school. I know that she never treat me as his boyfriend but as a substitute. However I wish I can change her mind and heart.

She reject my advances as she does not do this for money. However, as a foolish guy i still give.. I know it is CARROT-HEAD.. Hahaha.. After doing so, on the third day, I decided to put a stop to all this.. I have done something that i will forever regret by putting up a photo of her and her ex boyfriend in the message to her reminding her that in her heart she got her ex boyfriend. She give me her ultimatinium and told me to stop mentioning it.. So till now, she stop replying my message or phone call.

However, i reckoned that she will call me or see me tomorrow in a point of wanting more money. If so, I will told her that she never love me and in her heart she love her ex boyfriend and she should go marry to him. I will bless them with my heart..

I am writing all this is to let all the brothers here know. After this incident, I have learn something about VB that some might disagree.

(1) They are poor. They are looking for financial stability. Those who can provide them, they will follow. But in their heart they will never love that person.. and They will like to lied to get what they need.

(2) They can treat you with loving care giving you the words that you will like to hear and make you feel you are loved.. But all this is for the sake of money.. They will only love you when they stop all this nonsense.

(3) If you can willingly to accept being an carrot head at first, they will love you more.. But you need to know when to give and not to give... or else they will treat you like me.. "A REAL Carrot Head"

After all these, I will take a long break from the HH and heal my heart. Maybe one day, I will go to Myanmar to look for the truth love as my friend wife is a Myanmar who truly love him..

Yeah, the ex boyfriend and her still with her.. haha..

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Please don't start a relationship with any woman based on money. This is the fundamental mistake many guys make. The relationships which I use money to sustain all don't last.

Don't let these VB think or have the impression that you are the carrot head. If they like/ love you, they will want to be with you whether you are rich or poor.

A woman who really love you will not see whether you are rich or poor.

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for your information I am ugly, fat.. I am approaching 40. I just started my business. If without money, no girl will love me. I am relieve to do this way because this will make my heart less painful

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It is not because of your appearance that you cannot get girls to love you. Talking about fat, I am 92kg. Talking about age, I am older than you by 5 years.

It is the lack of confidence.
(The way you post you have low self esteem. And in font of a VB, you will appear to be weak.)

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No lar I am not having low self esteem. In the post I might seems so because I am raving now.. I am moping now.. Anyone in hanoi now??

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I am in my fifties, you are very young, my vb is 30 years younger than me, I can why you can not, I am not rich nor poor. Don't give up bro, there are many vbs at the SOURCE, take your time to explore. :D

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you guys are wasting time advising someone who dun listen...once upon a time you dun listen too...haha...so let him be his carrot head...nothing to do with us...we enjoy ourselves...he will always think he is right...so be it...to each his own...:p

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perhaps bro curious76 needs sometime to adjust :D
if that vb has somebody then let go her ba

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All seniors here had given you enough advices. Since you decide to be the carrot head go ahead.

Don't be so mean bro H88. He is just still green. Furthermore, the vb is from the north. They are so much smarter and clever in fishing man heart.

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1. She does not love you. Not a tiny bit.
2. She is just treating you as a money tree cum carrot.
3. She will "love" whoever can give her money.
4. Just another tactic to keep her money tree by not answering your calls.
5. Hope you finally wake up.
6. If not yet wake up, update us here. We buy pop corns and see show.:D

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Thanks for all bros concern n the message is a hoax from my vb.. just clarify with her that what the heck does the wechat post means.. Ha-ha.. thks again all..

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And the roller coaster ride starts again....

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Dun xao.... u build house for your vb still say u not rich????!!!

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land plus build easily S$300k?

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No lar, not that much I think less than S$20K

Land plus build 300K, I think can get a big Bungalow in VN le