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typical SOP story...bored in singapore

And vb also women need companionship; if can find a robert who have $$$ and show "genius" TLC, why not

The case quoted is more of an exception for WL/FL in singapore.

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You gain so much wisdom lately.

Time to help other newbies.:p

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still a noob...:eek:

Had help from many bros here...:D

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gonna spend some time reading the first few hundred threads as I might look for a viet wife.

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Wish you good luck. :D

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To summarise-

(1) Learn Tieng Viet
(2) Go to Vietnam village or city to look for wife. (Never go to Club or cheong Place)
(3) Never believe what you see and hear from her.
(4) Try not to spend so much money on her. Keep your money with you at all time and do not let her know how much.
(5) Spend some time understanding her. (1 ~ 2 weeks stay in vietnam every visit)
(6) Get to know her friends.
(7) Select those that is not complicated. (Meaning that she must be simple people with simple need).
(8) If she ask for money, only give small amount monthly (less than SGD 500) if you can afford it.
(9) Do not get in love.
(10) Never believe what her close friend told you. Ask those who are not close.
(11) Whatever bullshit gift she told you to buy reject her. If want to buy for her, see it got bought.
(12) Wedding - usually what I know the wedding package is $6000 per head.
(13) Her family might request for something special, please think before giving.

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U grew up a bit :D

Why will u need to give monthly allowance to a ger? :confused: What type of wedding package will cost $6000 per head? :eek: :confused:

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If possible do not give.. However all these girl only want money.. All the vb I met ask me for money. She is smart previously told me not to give. But give lump sum money for her business and family.

For the wedding package, I have many friends pay these to the girl family. That's why I put this.

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Congratulations for the input here you have gave and hope it successfully apply on you too bro curious76 ;)

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if he had read this thread earlier he will not loss plenty of $$$...:)

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Yes. I understand her and her types.. But I still feel sad for this type of people. Why? They will not have any happy ending at the end. They will either get beaten up and torture. Eventually will end up at a whore house.

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Dunno where did u know all your gers....

Do u know how to differential between these words, "Give family" and "wedding package"?

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Okay.. Most I met at club. But I know one guy whose girlfriend work in Hanoi as a sales girl also ask for money. Maybe you have a different input.

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nov 2014 while backpacking alone in hcm.. i met a 22 year girl tour guide local graduate, she looks better than most Vietnamese girl on the street. i'm 35 btw. she brought me around for a day. we still whatapps after i return to singapore. we dint express our feeling just normal friend.
her family quite poor... and graduate only earn about 300-400usd monthly.

dec 2014 i decided to fly to hcm again to get my feeling sort out. ( long story short) we holding hands and hugged before i flied back to Singapore. i arranged for her to come sin for 1day and follow by 3d2n bkk trip on jan 11th-15th. i paid for the trip.. i been travelling alone so a extra air ticket and street food don't cost too much.

i thought she is a decent girl simple thrifty didn't ask me for expensive gift at all... i did suspect she has a bf or something... but she denied.

jan 2015 i brought her around singapore..uss, cable car, night safari, merlion park... we had our first night at my house, with protection as she requested. we flied to bkk the next day...1st night at bkk, i had 3 unprotected sex with her, i assured her i can pulled out on time which i did.
2nd day in bkk... there some problem with her phone.. while i was fixing it, a msg popped out " I booked hcm xxx hotel on the 16th-17th jan, are you able to accompany me for the 2nights?" ? my heart breaks when i saw the msg but i never confront her....don't want to spoil the mood..

2nd night we did 3 times again unprotected... thinking (might as well since already done it)

3th day before we making our way to the airport... i gave her some USD which i prepared to give her. initially she didn't want to take, but i told her to keep it... then i pop her the qns.. who is the guy that you going to sleep with?
is it i didn't give u enough money you have to sleep with someone else? why?

she said this american came a year ago in hcm and help her alot over the last relationship. and he is coming to hcm again to meet her... i said just because he helped you u have to sleep with him? she couldn't answer me... with a heavy heart.. we left for the airport... i tried to keep my calm... take it like a man do everything sui sui before we part, i still bought her a swatch watch at airport with leftover baht.

after sending her to her gate... i hugged her, i cried abit, she asked me to be strong and whatapps her. i shaked head... " you not talking to me anymore?" i said no, i am sad when you sleeping with other guys. i walk back to my own gate, i never turn back at all...


(long story short) after i landed in sin, she texted me, she will never sleep with anyone... i told her i dont care about her past.. i only care about the present. she said she would die if i left her... she promised me she wont see other guys.

we still together till now.. i wanted to celebrate 14th feb valentine with her... but she said she has to stay with family preparing for tet. (i dont know if she is meeting another guy on that day)
10th she will spend a day in singapore, next day we will fly together to KL 11-13th feb.

i find it hard to trust her 100% again as we only meet once a mth... she might have other bf too...


few qns here

1. will ICA deny her entry if she comes singapore too often? as most of the trip i planned i have her coming sg for 1day. i thinking of asking her fly to sg
every 2weeks.. air ticket is cheap... about $160 return...
i always book return air ticket for her which ICA did requested when she first visited.

2. i wanted to bring her to travel with me.. but vietnamese need visa for most countries outside asean...
she need employment letter, and proof of financial...
i checked with most vietnam tour agency they said min must have 5k usd in bank before the embassy will consider issusing visa..
i called taiwan embassy in hcm.. they said.. they never state any figure, they just want to ensure the applicant have enough money to spend in taiwan during their visit. anyone have experience in this?

3. what gift to buy for her family new yr? can abalone? dried cucumber? mushroom?

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A lot of VB regrets going to Dubai and working in Dubai is not as easy as Singapore and Malaysia.


1) ICA will deny her entry if she come to often to Singapore. If you wanted her to come without issue, Please guarantor her stay while in Singapore. Please ask her to write your address and HP no on the white card. If she come over 2 weeks, make sure she left after 2 weeks.

2) For Taiwan just go to Taiwan Embassy to apply a visa for her. Once approved she will able to fly to Taiwan.

3) Chinese New year no need to buy abalone, dried cucumber and mushroom cos they do not really know how to eat. Liqors, Cigarettes, or Ang Bao will be enough. (that my opinion) cos normally I gave them that during CNY