Originally Posted by FireShark (Post 12521344)

A lot of VB regrets going to Dubai and working in Dubai is not as easy as Singapore and Malaysia.




1) ICA will deny her entry if she come to often to Singapore. If you wanted her to come without issue, Please guarantor her stay while in Singapore. Please ask her to write your address and HP no on the white card. If she come over 2 weeks, make sure she left after 2 weeks.

2) For Taiwan just go to Taiwan Embassy to apply a visa for her. Once approved she will able to fly to Taiwan.

3) Chinese New year no need to buy abalone, dried cucumber and mushroom cos they do not really know how to eat. Liqors, Cigarettes, or Ang Bao will be enough. (that my opinion) cos normally I gave them that during CNY

Originally Posted by Jackie12 (Post 12521391)

1. to be gurantor just need to write my address and tel number? she comes only 2-3days twice a mth.. and return on time.

If she come 2-3 days twice a month and return home on time, she should had no problem. if she happened to ask to go the the Custom office, let the officers know that she come here for holiday and meeting up with you. Furthermore, she can tell the officers that she had not extend her stay before and always rtn on time base on her air ticket.

3. but the visa requirement need employment letter and proof of financial... how much to have in bank to have visa approved?

Originally Posted by devilcheong (Post 12521380)

There it goes again... similar same sad story gonna happen again... once cheated there will be a 2nd time and following on.. These VB are always using the similar tactics, excuses and even similar acts to lure carrot head's..
Tourist guides need help n bed with the clients.. ahem.. the excuse itself already showing the proofs and definitely will laugh the heads off our seniors here...
If you wants just to have temporary flings and fun is OK but there will be karma later on..
If you really want and seriously developed into relationship with her.. better to backed off and find others before its too late and u won't able to handle the KC poison :p

Originally Posted by FireShark (Post 12521344)

3) Chinese New year no need to buy abalone, dried cucumber and mushroom cos they do not really know how to eat. Liqors, Cigarettes, or Ang Bao will be enough. (that my opinion) cos normally I gave them that during CNY

Originally Posted by FireShark (Post 12521432)

For Taiwan, you need to talk to the embassy in Singapore. Employment letter and proof of financial is difficult. Check with the embassy can you as a guarantor for her trip to there.

Originally Posted by Hurricane88 (Post 12521459)

haha...a tour guide is also a gal...she also needs to find a potential mate and escape poverty...of course she love wrong person or keep trying her luck...so can you blame her...if she dun sleep with her potential mate then what can she offer that will interest her mate...:p:p

Originally Posted by Jackie12 (Post 12521391)

1. to be gurantor just need to write my address and tel number? she comes only 2-3days twice a mth.. and return on time.

Originally Posted by Hurricane88 (Post 12521504)

I always guide my friends never change their life too much unless you can change it for her forever...otherwise all are false hope...:)

Originally Posted by KangTuo (Post 12521746)

I changed my bx lifestyle :)

Originally Posted by Jackie12 (Post 12521226)

nov 2014 while backpacking alone in hcm.. i met a 22 year girl tour guide local graduate, she looks better than most Vietnamese girl on the street. i'm 35 btw. she brought me around for a day. we still whatapps after i return to singapore. we dint express our feeling just normal friend.
her family quite poor... and graduate only earn about 300-400usd monthly.

dec 2014 i decided to fly to hcm again to get my feeling sort out. ( long story short) we holding hands and hugged before i flied back to Singapore. i arranged for her to come sin for 1day and follow by 3d2n bkk trip on jan 11th-15th. i paid for the trip.. i been travelling alone so a extra air ticket and street food don't cost too much.

i thought she is a decent girl simple thrifty didn't ask me for expensive gift at all... i did suspect she has a bf or something... but she denied.

jan 2015 i brought her around singapore..uss, cable car, night safari, merlion park... we had our first night at my house, with protection as she requested. we flied to bkk the next day...1st night at bkk, i had 3 unprotected sex with her, i assured her i can pulled out on time which i did.
2nd day in bkk... there some problem with her phone.. while i was fixing it, a msg popped out " I booked hcm xxx hotel on the 16th-17th jan, are you able to accompany me for the 2nights?" ? my heart breaks when i saw the msg but i never confront her....don't want to spoil the mood..

2nd night we did 3 times again unprotected... thinking (might as well since already done it)

3th day before we making our way to the airport... i gave her some USD which i prepared to give her. initially she didn't want to take, but i told her to keep it... then i pop her the qns.. who is the guy that you going to sleep with?
is it i didn't give u enough money you have to sleep with someone else? why?

she said this american came a year ago in hcm and help her alot over the last relationship. and he is coming to hcm again to meet her... i said just because he helped you u have to sleep with him? she couldn't answer me... with a heavy heart.. we left for the airport... i tried to keep my calm... take it like a man do everything sui sui before we part, i still bought her a swatch watch at airport with leftover baht.

after sending her to her gate... i hugged her, i cried abit, she asked me to be strong and whatapps her. i shaked head... " you not talking to me anymore?" i said no, i am sad when you sleeping with other guys. i walk back to my own gate, i never turn back at all...


(long story short) after i landed in sin, she texted me, she will never sleep with anyone... i told her i dont care about her past.. i only care about the present. she said she would die if i left her... she promised me she wont see other guys.

we still together till now.. i wanted to celebrate 14th feb valentine with her... but she said she has to stay with family preparing for tet. (i dont know if she is meeting another guy on that day)
10th she will spend a day in singapore, next day we will fly together to KL 11-13th feb.

i find it hard to trust her 100% again as we only meet once a mth... she might have other bf too...


few qns here

1. will ICA deny her entry if she comes singapore too often? as most of the trip i planned i have her coming sg for 1day. i thinking of asking her fly to sg
every 2weeks.. air ticket is cheap... about $160 return...
i always book return air ticket for her which ICA did requested when she first visited.

2. i wanted to bring her to travel with me.. but vietnamese need visa for most countries outside asean...
she need employment letter, and proof of financial...
i checked with most vietnam tour agency they said min must have 5k usd in bank before the embassy will consider issusing visa..
i called taiwan embassy in hcm.. they said.. they never state any figure, they just want to ensure the applicant have enough money to spend in taiwan during their visit. anyone have experience in this?

3. what gift to buy for her family new yr? can abalone? dried cucumber? mushroom?

Originally Posted by LOTR3 (Post 12524054)

lol. I earn less than 3k per mth. not a prime target for kc trap. :o