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Once I sat at a roadside decent café drinking my beer,saw the waitress arrive with a man on a motorbike with 2 young kids on the bike,she alight and he drove off.

Later I chat with her and she told me that one is her husband and her 2 kids.she told me that is her family,she told me her husband don't want go outside work and she no choice have to come out work at night.He rather take care kids at home then go out work.So this show how lazy is Vietnamese man that's why u see so many drinking coffee or beer from the early morning till late doing nothing but chat with friends or waitress while the wife go out work.Then they can go hanky panky outside:D

Later she told me she not yet eat dinner and whether I can treat her some food?i say ok.Next day went there and request again,i say no more this time.Then she f$$k off

That is their culture,dog eat dog society.

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the beer lady income enough to feed 2 kids and the husband?

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Beer lady with lots of extra income from extra activities. Viet man are just alright knowing that their bx go lam tinh with other man to earn money. Surprisingly, some local Singaporean man are alright with that too. No pride :confused:

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yes...knew of several cases...the beer lady Viet earned money and monthly give her hubby $$$ who stay home to look after a kid...so hubby dun bother what she does out including screwing for money...such useless sinkee man also avail here..:)

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Before you allow your Vietnam wife and her mother to discipline and educate your kids , look at how many useful children your MIL has raised .

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Hi there and good day to all bros here.. long time no comment on this thread and juz read the stories only..
Lately also come to know dat a short, fat n not very good looking guy recently also have hooked up with my so called ex gf and also the guy also knows she works in ktv which he declared his love for her and bring her to see his family but still allows her to work in ktv..
When I ask my ex.. she just says he did told her to quit but yet she don't want bcos bored if settled down early n have fun some more n also wanna earn more to her family.. also this guy has spend quite some amt on her too..
Just wandering why the heck this guy post to the fb to show his girl whereby his friends or families might even get to know her from fb or ktv on what she does for a living...

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Just came back from my trip to HCM. Must say was really an eye opener for me. Around the 3rd day i started wondering why am I lusting for the vbs in sg when the quality over there is 10 times better. One thing i realised is that the girls over there might be beautiful and dress well but are actually damn poor inside and utterly pretentious. I also caught my friend's vb gf messaging some other guy on wechat, but i just keep quiet and dont sour the mood. lost count the amount of times they try to rip us off with all the nonsense because we are a bunch of young foreigners. acted blur so much that i wonder am i really that dumb. :D

Another thing i observed is that a lot of the vietnamese guys really look like thugs with their jackets, motorbikes and badboy looks. must admit that i felt a little intimidated when i interact with them.:D

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to be honest, say looks viet guys win sg guys. talk about communication and common topics they also win. want talk love with them also cannot pass basic criteria..therefore must thread the path with caution and care.

my 2 cents

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is this true?:eek:

then what exactly binds a relationship or even a marriage in vietnamese context?

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They will tell you money is everything. The gal loves that guy a lot and the guy doesn't want to work. so the gal works , no matter what type of work, as long as there's lots of money.

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I can never understand this mindset. Are all vietnamese guys brought up this way? I mean if this were to happen in singapore, the guy would be absolutely taken apart the society. I really have alot to learn about vietnamese people in general.:eek:

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What you read here in this thread are the traits of the lower class vietnamese from the villages . These village viets flood the streets of Singapore. There are other educated viets from the city who demonstrates more civilised traits. But no matter what, their traits are surely more cunning than the normal Singaporeans. This is the way their society is formed.

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haizzz...ain't you glad you are no longer involved...:p

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Nothing personal about Vietnam.. This is to share with some brudders here about vietnamese.

(1) Vietnam have gone through a terrible war with United States in 1960s. Most of the generation for that period still alive to this date. They will do anything for money.

(2) Need to remind the brudders here. Vietnam and China is a communist country. Hence, their education system is different from us. They do not even have social studies and religion studies. Most of the people there do not practice our Social Ethics or have a good conscious.

The above is just my views. Please be cautious when dealing with vietnamese.