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I met 2 northern girls working in hcm before, so far arrange to meet at least 12 southern girls...northern girls seem different from southern girls. Northern girls willing to make make frienz more and accommodate more...bring me around.. also no fly aeroplane

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You found your mistress yet:confused:

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Frankly speaking; I prefer to have sex with thais more than a VB but I would prefer to love a VB more than thai. This is my experience. In terms of sex; I don't understand why thai always give me the best sex; but vb they wont give me that kind of good sex. 15 years ago; when I was a management trainee and was send to Thai for a year, I really enjoy the party and sex there but I don't feel that I can love them. 2003; when I start to party in JC; sex with vb quite enjoyable only. When I start to know VB more I feel that I could love them more than Thai.

Cos Northern Vb are more smarter than the southern Vb. They know how to catch a fish better.

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next feb following a bro to hcm to look for a wife...

read a bit on this thread, feel complicated..

when vb marry viet guys, they dun seem to expect too much..

when sg guys marry vb, it seem got to take care of this n that..

one main reason for me is $$$$..

info on myself - 43 this year, divorced n earning 3 k per mth..

the good thing abt being single -- may not finish all the food in one meal..

the bad thing abt married -- may not have enough $$$$ to pay for the meal ..

zzzzzzzzz

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Since u know $$$ not enough to pay for a meal after marriage and u still go look for a wife....

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I disagree with you on sex part...I feel that VB can give you good sex if VB loves you more...but if you found dead fish then usually not enjoyable...:)

Agreed with you on love part...VB can be very loving...and if mutual can be very happily together...in terms of everything...:)

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just a quote nia.. of course I can pay more than a meal..

just that read fm thread that sometimes got to pay for her parents la,

grandparents la, brothers la, sisters la.. buy house, buy land n dunno buy

what.. I work hard for my money, I dun print money..

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There is nothing better than falling head over heels in love; all the sweet, the light, the sex and total romance of it all - I ALWAYS pursue such with gusto!

Meet someone new, sparks fly and chemistry boiling up, I just very willingly surrender to my instincts - BUT always keep at the back of my head the FACT that money also changes hands in the equation. Circumstances do not allow me to pursue TRUE romance and thus I go for the next best thing!

And I would also always make the "love of my life" (for then!!) also aware that this is the basis of our great love story. It's only fair, as invariably AND eventually, such must come to an end and sooooo unfair to her if she thinks there's more to the relationship than this. And yeah, I always keep mentioning this FACT periodically as I've experienced disaster at least a couple times when my gal and I both totally forgot what it's all about after years of bliss.

But in any case and whatever happens in the end, falling in love is totally worth it!

SEAJ

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reading this sometime made me wonder what the job of this wise man?

are u a writer?

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Nope, better for me to meet the same girl few times and before commit. The last thing i want is she take my money and disappear.

In that case isnt it better? Those southern girl i meet will not try hard to entertain me without seeing money or expensive gift upfront.

Will the wife that you are looking for next feb also need you to pay for some of these

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dunno leh.. that y the more I read on this thread,

the more complicated I m..

many tks to the bro who up me fm -1 to + 1..

no need to wait more than 2+ hr to see my post..

tks n cheers..

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LOL - thanks!
All I aspire to is to just be a regular contributing Samster.
Just that there are some who continually thwart my aspirations!

SEAJ

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dunno lei.. hopefully not..

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Do you believe me when I tell you.....

The more you ignore them; the more they go crazy about you.

Try it; it may sound cold blooded but it does give you an upper hand.

If the VB did not go crazy by you ignoring her; you can conclude that she do not care about you and she don't feel a thing whether you ignore her or not.:cool:

My record of ignoring is 10 months. And I still get text message from the vb showing sad face.

My personal best is 29 miss call (within 1 hour) from a VB that I walk away from. Hope to beat my personal best again soonest.