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Dun waste time...he is in love will not listen...now he thinks his gf who is WL is always different from others...:)

If she not receiving money from him means he has other sponsors giving her enough money to live now...those sponsors are bfs screwing her but cannot marry her...typical cases which we highlighted so many times in other similar cases...:)

We highlighted cost of vb expenditure coming one month...go read them...if you trust WL pigs can climb trees...:)

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Initially feel puzzled when I saw your comments, but after I thinking back, you got your point, and I got you, the point!

Sounds like I am defending her....what if your point is correct...Then why is she still continue doing bia om in her howntown as she already have sponsors? Because sponsor not enough $? or She just simply like the job? of doing bia om continuously 7 days a week from noon until midnight, not having off day unless she has to take care of his baby. So money-minded but yet she loves me and not really take money from me?

Please enlighten me or "slap" me ya?

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Are you prepared for a rough ride?
Not just about this period of lovey dovey, honeymoon
Ready to discover and accept?
Ready to support and provide?

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dun be lazy...go read other similar cases which we posted here since 2008...:)

Do you know the Singapore PR worth S$ 1mil...and Singapore Citizenship worth S$ 5mil...:)

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he will not know what to provide means...he already claimed he is poor man...he dun know what he is getting into yet as Buy 1 get 1 free....till he discover he is the least priority in her family ties structure...:)

I will never advised any friend to have a gf that has 1 kid...worst Viet WL...the kid fathered by dun know who is the most important priority to her...bf or hubby (leaglly married) always last after son, mother, father, brother, sister, then him...also the rough ride of applying LTVP, PR, Citizen...the anxiety when she had to leave our shores because of application rejected/delayed...:)

thru the years we had advised so many and did anyone of them came back to tell us what happened now or thank us...:)

he should read my story 1 and 2 posted recently...:)

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I totally agreed with Bros here.. It's meant nothing, mine was a live example. I spend 10 days during tet with her family Travelling fr hcmc all the way to da lat... End up she ain't my final destination :D
But that gal was a deputy director of in a mmc, so I didn't actually vomit out much blood lol

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i feel u bro, salute u!:o

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Thank you to reply me...:)

I had seen, advised and dealt with so many cases that I am immune to Viet gal and WL...:)

My advice seriously if you want a Viet wife go to SOURCE Vietnam to choose and learn their culture...lots of different compared to ours...:)

Once again I knew of cases whereby the guys married WL and turn out good...but takes time to trust WL as wife...^^

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I think the problem is she wl and got 1 kid...if go to marry got many many risk there...bro yookevinyoo 要三思。。if you can tell your family what is her background and you can take the risk make you mind already anything happen to you ....just accept what you chose...i think you just go for it dont ask anymore you will not find correct answer...good or no good is all about your luck also...anyway i now still single dont have any marry exp...just take me as busybody ba...

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Just know her well enough 1st. I know my bx for 4 years till today and yet I still have not married her legally in Singapore yet.

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Actually for my case, it was a big commitment from her to meet her family. 1st time after 6 months, i was in HCMC for work and she stayed in HCMC but her family (more than 10 pax) took a 6 hours bike ride up to see me. I stayed there for only 1 night and left HCMC the next day.

2nd visit took place couple of months later, I went to her village with her and even her father who is divorced with her mum came home just to see me. Family treats me very well and her mum likes me alot. Sometimes when we quarrel there in the village, her mum always side me.

In general, meeting her family in their hometown is a big thing because they cannot have foreigners coming home with her every TET. :) 1 means serious relationship.

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she is bringing my to her hometown home and i will be staying at her home for 1.5 week. during this time, will be meeting her relatives, her hometown friends, classmates and also might travel to dat lat to visit her uni classmate, then go back hcmc together where i will take my flight back to sgp.

whats the situation i am in?

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tai sao? if u can tell me is who dump who, it makes a difference to me :-)

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today, are you still together with her may i ask?

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How you go dalat ?