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Thanks for all the advice bros. I think I too in love with her liaoz. Hope time can help me to forget her and move on. It’s painful just thinking of her and I hope time can heal the pain real quick. :mad:

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U were late, I had mine at 12.

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in any r/s once you fell in love means you are showing you are desperate and needy...this is the end of any r/s...:)

as a man you should have self-mastery and act as though you are the PRIZE...and her loss if she reject you...:)

now you should go out and date 100 gals so you can immediately forget her....always abundance of gals out there...:)

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Fair comment. Just up you with 9 humble points.

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Hi all, can someone help me out. Based on past experiences, is it possible for my bx to still cheat on me even though I see her everyday? Also how many times can she enter singapore ?

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Can and cannot cheat u, how we know? Your bx, why come n asked this type of question? How many times also depends on ICA... btw since your bx, she should have proper visa in SG right?

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I think he breach the rule, marry a whore used to work in SG.

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Not married yet. She’s a WL but we see each other everyday. Is it possible that she’s seeing other guys as well? I’ve met her parents and they have talked about marriage to me. This case, does it mean she shouldn’t have brought any other guys back to her parents before? Thank you Bros for helping.

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U deserve a good f.... how old are u? She is a WL.. lies are 1 of her tactic and men are her income. If u think u can trusted her keeping her virgin for u then go ahead n live a happy ever life, else grow up and move on.

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Recently quite a no. of idiots in Vietnam threads.... I am surprised u were so late on these.

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I am sorry if my post somehow offend anyone here. I am genuinely asking for help. I understand where you guys are coming from. I have been reading the past entries on this forum and I have seen many bad experiences with WL. But I just want to know if there are cases where their bx have brought them to see the parents. I may seem stupid for asking such questions here but right now, I really really can't see any "holes" and the family treat me well too. I'm sorry if there are any similar stories been posted here before, I may have missed them.

Can these WL acting skills be really that good? Or do the parents usually help in acting with their daughter? They seemed genuine when talking about marriage. And is it possible I am not the only guy she brings back home? I guess I need more reasons (and probably any similar real life experiences from bros here) to help convince myself to get me out of this trap.

I went to visit her in Vietnam and she came back with me a week ago. Thus, have to go back to working as a WL. During the time when she was in Vietnam, we video call each other every day. And when I visited her, she was together with me for the whole week. Is there any possibility that she may have another boyfriend and yet was still able to stay with me everyday when I was there?

I am 24 this year and of course, I don't intend to marry her right now yet. Thank you bros for taking the time to reply me. I am sorry again if it offends you guys in any way.

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"See each other everyday" - I don't think so....unless you live with her in Wetnam...:)

I am sure you missed many stories in this thread becos you are blindly in love...:)

Read this back in 2014...https://samsforum.com/showpost.php?p...ostcount=20454

Gal's parents will not be bothered too much of which bf she brought home....so long parents received gifts including money...:)

I had quoted this many times in my posts here..."If you trust a WL then pigs can climb trees"...:)

BTW, you are 24 yrs old and wanted to get married...why dun you delay marriage and observe her for 2 to 3 years before making decision...bet you she cannot even last 6 months. if you stopped giving her plenty of $$$....**

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I have to salute u, maybe my male ego is high... a ger whom u have intention to marry, u still allow her to be fondled by dirty old men like me. :D BTW, since u can't support her, after marriage will she be allowed to go bed with strangers because of $$$? If u think after marriage, she will not demand $$$ then u are too naive. Her family, her uncles, aunties, cows, dogs, cats need to be well fed. Her furniture, bike, fridge, tv needs to be repaired or change. Her house needs to renovate... Get real, puppy love or honeymoon period is always sweet... reality bites.

If u still hopeful and looking forward to this relationship, then just go ahead... it is your life.

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They don't have to act to like you, they get fondled by wrinkled old men everyday remember? So easy to really like a young guy. Guys go see viet bx parents all the time.

And of course they genuine, tell her you can only give 1k angbao for marriage, see how more genuine they get.

Possible no other bf, possible you're the only guy in the world that think she's pretty and good enough to marry, even when working, why not? Doesn't mean she don't go hotels with her customers though, sadly.

Seriously, what do you think u can get out of marriage that you're not getting now? Most wl can't cook, don't know how to take care of family cos how they are brought up, most will love their families more than you, has shitty friends, can't speak english/chinese well to work normal jobs here.

Go take some night courses at smu etc hook up with a school mate more fun, seriously.

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Sorry Hurricane88 bro, I don't understand the first part of your reply. Does it mean that even though I see her everyday, I will not be able to tell unless I stay with her in Vietnam everyday?

Over the past week, I have been reading the posts in this thread from Page 1 and I'm only still at Page 260. I do see a lot of bros sharing their experiences and I know most of the outcomes with WLs are bad. Really thankful for this thread which had a lot of bros contributing to. But there is still a long way to go for me to finish reading all 1000+ pages. I know you are one of the earliest bros that has been contributing since 9 years ago. Can I ask if the "trend" is still the same among WLs? I have also learnt a lot about vietnamese culture from this thread. Have anything changed since 2007? Is money still very important in their eyes? And are they still as good as lying?

Also, to add on, I do not own a car so she should know that I am really poor. So I don't know what she's exactly thinking if she is only with me for the money.

And also, usually on average, how long does it take before they start exposing themselves and asking for money?

Sorry that I'm asking so many questions. Hope that bro Hurricane88 can advise as you are one of the more experienced ones here. Thank you..