Originally Posted by lornjourney (Post 23313831)

I believe whoever read or actively participate in this thread 8/10 experience it before. Or else, where got so much time/effort to accumulate to 1000+ pages.

Originally Posted by lalana (Post 23311884)

Sound u have bad experience before lah hahaha

Originally Posted by lornjourney (Post 23313831)

I believe whoever read or actively participate in this thread 8/10 experience it before. Or else, where got so much time/effort to accumulate to 1000+ pages.

Originally Posted by thebrokenheart (Post 23314529)

yes definitely. i guess most cannot openly share such story with friends and this is an avenue for it.
despite all these story and heard of it, it is sometimes hard to avoid the experiencing and falling into it

Originally Posted by Hurricane88 (Post 23316140)

Yes, when they brought the heart broken man to meet me...that chap was beyond redemption...he trusted the gf loved him but only if he can satisfied the gals conditions and greediness...:)

Till I showed the chap how to verified all his questions...:)

Example 1 - the gal supposed to be meet him oustide but failed to turn up...get a friend to verify she was meeting another man...:)

Example 2 - detailing the steps that the gf will request more and more cash and gifts....:)

Example 3 - catch the gf unguarded...by paying a visit to her home without informing in advance...also tell the friend how to track her gf...:)

Then friend will suddenly wake up and start to play again...but already lost plenty of money...:)

Originally Posted by thebrokenheart (Post 23316378)

i realize today that the age factor accompany raw sex with a young girl is definitely killing. i will just keep thinking that a 16 yrs old girl is innocent and still has chance to lead a proper life in the future. so despite many signs of lies, i will still try to think of her as good and innocent.but i guess you are right they lilely receive guidance from seniors. coupling it with raw sex and all the sweet talk of only having you. i guess this 2 factors really brokenmy guard.

Originally Posted by Hurricane88 (Post 23316406)

raw sex...:)

Most Viet gals dun like guys to wear condoms... especially those not in the sex industry...:)

Used to date some decent gals in Vietnam and if wear CD she will quietly cry silently after deed before sleep...asked her why cry...she said

anh khong thuong em...
anh hoi tai sao khong thuong em...
tai vi anh suy nghi em biet lam tinh voi nguoi khach khong mac bao cao su...:confused:

Originally Posted by Rubbaking (Post 23292512)

Anyway, if back to the topic of understanding vietnamese as life partners, i have my fair share of vietnamese gfs. Culturally it is really different. From my experience, they could be fiesty, easily jealous, self-indulging and self-centred and they tend to only believe in themselves and they will hardly listen to explanation even when they wronged you. In summary, there is lesser tendency to have faith in you, and they do not appreciate it regardless of how well you provide for them, especially those who think they are prettier than most. However, i do not wish to generalise but these are just what i realised from my past 4 relationships with them so no offence to anyone. It is just my luck and i am sure there are good examples out there. The only good thing about my experiences is their fair slim slender body and they can be really sweet at times when they are happy. Perhaps those who are overseas educated especially an english speaking one, might have a more akin character. Or perhaps find someone who may not been pampered by sugar daddies or men before in the past. The prettier a woman is, the higher the risk and the harder the maintenance of a relationship.

Originally Posted by lornjourney (Post 23294262)

For me, I don’t even trust those “clean joint” massage lady. Some didn’t pretend and go straight to the point. While some act holy (go temple, vegetarian etc). How I know? I had bad encounter as well. Since she is pretty and seem to be quit innocent until Time proof that I’m wrong. She is contaminated as well.

Pretty + work as masseuse + speak English/Mandarin = Very likely contaminated.

She didn’t really scam customer money but she will always hint others to buy her food or essential needs. She won’t reject if you offer the help. She seem very use to accepting things from others. Sadly, I only woke up when I realise she is leeching from all her customers and it is impossible to win her heart. Her looks is her bait for free stuff and tips. When I told her I want to save money. Suddenly, she unfriended me.

By the way, she always read Buddha scripture but when I groped her and kiss her when we went out privately. She didn’t fully resist it or angry. She just say I’m her friend. I need to respect her. I guess as long as any guys willing to continue feed on this parasite. She will let you eat soft tofu but no further advancement.

Although my posting are not directly related to Vietnamese life partner. But my point is if you really like this VN girl. Make sure she is not in any male servicing sector. Best if you can find more about her past. VN got tons of pretty girls. Just move on to next target if she got any Red Flag symptoms.

As for those guys who always give TikTok gifts to SG Massage Spa.. I hope you guys wake up earlier too! If you willing to pay because you too rich. Please go ahead… but it might be better off to donate to orphanage or old folks home.

Originally Posted by lornjourney (Post 23283608)

Agreed with all seniors collective sharing. You can only find this person by fate. Likely this person just work at VN cafe, bookstores, pharmacy etc. You can only know her if you stay at VN long enough. Also, check her facebook and zalo sharing. Whether got go party with friends or not. TBH, I am very afraid of having VN woman as spouse. A lot of VN families have toxic relationship with each others. They only Love themselves only.

But recently, I got to know this person from language exchange program and I felt she quite "ok". Why? Because she is not SYT (30+ and within my radar), she work as a normal admin person and came from the northern side (my filtering process immediately take out S and C). Lately, I started to have some thoughts and chat with her more often. She not pretty but acceptable looks. Nonetheless, she also talk to other foreign guys before. Very likely she is filtering potential partners as well (just like how to pick VN girls).
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(1) Never turn a great sexual experience into a relationship.
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Originally Posted by Hurricane88 (Post 23316122)

Go read bro Kangtuo love stories...he had also succeeded somehow...:)

Originally Posted by lornjourney (Post 23283608)

check her facebook and zalo sharing. Whether got go party with friends or not.

Originally Posted by KangTuo (Post 23325224)

stories of yester-years hardly apply to this generation.

Gen Z thinking is very very different now. 99% Boomers will not be able to accept.
So need to adjust your expectation if Boomers is thinking of getting Gen Z as life partners.

Originally Posted by Hurricane88 (Post 23325544)

The hungry moms are still hungry for money and will need the daughters to earn as much and send to mother to feed lazy brothers...

Hierarchy still remain no change...:)