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Buddhist act holy lah
Go for devoted Catholic then. Once they sins, you will know because they dare not take the holy communion during weekend mass :)

my bx is a catholic, I am not but I accompany her to the mass every Sunday, seeing her take her holy communion :D

I am Gen X, but got to rant out to the indecent boomers.
VN got tons of girls. if you want find decent VN life partner, go vn. Don't hao lian your limited TV and withdrawn CPF to tackle those married VN ladies in Sillypore. Get you target correct.

After so many years as stay home caregiver, my bx finally can go work in F&B to subsidies household expenses since my kids are now all schooling.
Going out to work means got to be facing several different kind of customers, especially in F&B.

There is one specific boomers always visit my wife stall to support, buy vn food. One day, he tell my wife that he willing to give her money to open her F&B biz but with condition. My wife told me, then I appear at the stall one fine day and met the boomer. Wanted to discuss about his business proposal and see how he willing to partner. He say no such things happen. After that day, he no longer visit the stall.

There are some others who come hoa lian their TV when they buy food till I appear at the stall and speak to them with my level of TV. They diam diam :)

please lah.. get your target correct. don't malu yourself.

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Wow, agreed that want a decent spouse need to go Vn to choose and not aim anyone who came to Singapore to work...:)

Wow, why you knew is one of them...haha...:)

When back in 2013 to 2015...your tieng viet already v.good...by now you should be fluent after so many years marriage...:)

I remember your bx is gf no 1 and she loved you more than herself...already kids schooling and dun think she will change...your bx will forever love you...:)

You also very handsome back then and now I am sure you aged but dun change much in appearance...:)

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this is one key point, guys!
really. from experience as well.

you want good vietbu, go vietnam to find. not singapore.
although most vietbu are spoiled. golddiggers and act like princesses
there are still many decent girls you can find there.
just dont go simp around for them
if you are the one who spoil them, how can you not expect them to have spoiled behaviour in future?

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because what you find in Singapore is no longer the real thing. They came to Singapore already with a goal. what is certain is that the main goal is not love. although maybe along the way they could fall in love

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have u seen me before or ss08 told you :D
not very handsome but very presentable with a honey filled mouth sianing no. 2, no. 3, no. 4 etc :p

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can we have a thread for singaporean or malaysian partner hahahah :D

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Met you once with jackbl...:)

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ah.. he will never disclose sbf nick of anyone.
anyway if you met me with him, it must be very long ago and must be at JC pub which my eyes were only on the vb then :D

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Think was 2013...about 11 years ago...you came in and I about to leave...that's why you dun noticed me...becos your eyes were really on gals only...:)

Btw...not JC nut the GL ktv...:)

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not easy to have a vietnamese gf, let alone a wife

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Are they the loyal type?

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My x mother in law is a Vietnamese. but sorry she was unfaithful. but i cant judge. because idk maybe what makes she unfaithful is because she is a single parent. Or maybe t just her personality

I lost track. Anyway, I have a case, I got to know this service lady and she introduced her good friend (ex service lady) bf to me. Who is a sinker as well. But before I knew him, she ever told me her good friend F around with many poorer but good looking guys when he is away. Reason, the other guys are 小鲜肉.

The reason she is still with him mainly because his family rich. Or else, she always talking bad about him and meet other guys when he is away. So, this guy family actually rich, he is not ugly, quite fit, NTU grad, got his own business, willing to look after her… in the end… maybe is just her? But some of my other army friends also share with me similar case as well. Basically, unless both of you all stay at Singapore or Vietnam together. Or else, high chances they won’t be faithful to you.

But of course guys animal instinct will not stay faithful to single partner physically or psychologically as well.

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Case of 小鲜肉.
Once we bring in my wife nephew to Sillypore to help out.
KTV girls and mamasan after seeing him, they are queuing up to eat him.
Imagine Sillypore guys spending lots of money to visit and support KTV girls bed the KTV girls but the KTV girls and mamasan give money and willing to share (3some / 4some) the 小鲜肉.

bring him in to Sillypore to help out in the house but end up every night goes out till afternoon then back home :)

I am just reflecting back what the service girl told me and her looks at the point of time. Basically their age not too old <30 and got $100/shot standard. Yet they give free to 小鲜肉