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refering to non vice girls

main reasons for viet divorces:

Cheating. husband going for sex massages or FLs, which is pretty common in vietnam.

Affairs. its not uncommon for co workers to go for lunch time sex on work days. it was a trend in hanoi.

Having unrealistic expectations about marriage. as most girls marry quite young, average marriage age 26 i think? but even marrying older girls doesnt mean they dont have unrealistic expectations, just a little less likely.....

Gambling: Mostly the husband but gambler wife is more common than in singapore.

Domestic abuse: can be physical or psychological (withholding sex, forced to handover salary, even slavery). guilty party can be men or women. Men more to physical abuse, women more to psychological abuse.

poor and low educated doesnt relate to higher chance of being dishonest. This is my experience. In fact higher chance such girls i met are more honest than educated ones.
In vietnam, rich doesnt equate to honesty. So be very careful in choosing your business partner there if theres a need to.
The difference between honest and dishonest mainly comes from their own expectations about their own life. Are their expectations realistic or not? The worst ones are probably the low middle income "fake rich" type of people. Trying very hard to keep up with their appearances.

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self check. Lust or love?
massage lady in sgp? I can double confirm your source of info :)

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thought this particular viet ktv girl is decent enough and not very materialistic. true enough started to show the tail - keep asking for luxury gifts.

point is she have not proven herself worthy to receive yet only have eyes on the gifts. Not even on intimate stage. Start to ignore messages after mentioning the words - in the future. lol

let her fleece from other guys.

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both lust and love? she is young. i am 11 yrs older though. a massgae lady in jb.

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sharing my review of this viet massage girl i came to know in jb back and it started back in may 2023.

only my first visit, i was immediately bewitched by her youth. though not a beauty, her youth and innocence made me dropped my guard. gentle and always sound very sincere. i managed to make her wet and raw on my first visit. since then, i have always been visiting her. had been visiting her and always chatting with her and she makes me think i am her bf. after some months, i heard from fellow kakis that she is also rawing with others and going out on fuck date… but she will deny everything.

at the end, i just realize that she is actually a very good player. she will lure all potential carrot head like me to fall in love so as to visit often or buy expensive gifts. she is so deep, she will not ask for anything to conceal her greed.always trying to put on the pitiful, sincere, innocent front to attract guys like me:(. her lies without blinking is excellent. when she went back to vietnam, immediately had a new bf and just ignored me… now she is back, it is all repeating. rotating between different guys and spending time on those potential one.

my conclusion is, just fuck and go. they are all very good and manipulating you. even if they allow you to raw her or cip, it is just her wanted to trap you.

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the 2nd part which you mentioned is definitely true. this barely legal ml in jb which i fall for, was stepping on my boat. having several boyfriends. only got to find out later that she is even going out with them for sex… almost acting innocent, earn money for parents and craps. great liars…

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They are not liars but just acting truely...just that you dun understand the game...:)

She only lied to you...and you believed that...:)

You didn't understand the game...you need to be very well experienced to win the game...:)

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you are right. i was inexperiended. probably never come across one that is so young and so innocent looking. may i lost because i am not treating it as a game. i am not sure how could you win against them as they may so many choices. if they see that no honey can be squeeze out of you, they will just turn to the next one. unless she totally has no other customer

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To win is not to give her gifts/cash/etc...pay her for farks and treat her as hooker...no more contact after that...:)

A hooker is a hooker...why bother to contact after deeds...:)

If you really want decent gal then fly to their cities to find them...example you want Viet gal then go Vietnam...if you want Malaysia gal then go Malaysia...simialr thai etc...:)

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somehow most men have the thinking that they have to marry the girl they fuck, even if she's a hooker.
1st step for men is to cast that belief out of their minds

I would be more worried about std to learn that she is fucking raw with many guys

Long time ago I have this thinking as well “marry the one”. Actually, thinking back. The more I f the more I win. Continue the game.

wow thats already fortunate that you manage to raw her, just allowing you to bonk her consider short listed bf very heng liao. i dont even have a chance for that hahaha, btw what is the amount and gift you spend so far, if not much is still worth i guess take it as expenses, but feeling putting in i cant comment

Can understand how guys fall into this. Some of these whores really look young and sweet behave sweet good bed skills like lover can get easily mesmerised. Then see her service other customers the guy sure heartache.

She’s back working? Pls pm me who is this so I can avoid risk of girls going raw. Kum sia