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Dont know whether she's really into you seriously, need time. Follow what i did for step #1:
Ask her to come for 1 month and stay with you the whole month. Pay her for returned ticket. Found out more about her feeling for you and your feeling for her after stay together 1 whole month.
If still not sure, let her go back HCM alone. If there is a sign, go back with her and visit her family.

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ok i will do if can. but the thing is the stupid checkpoint refuse to let her in. KNN i damn angry when come to think of it. if not i would already have less uncertainties. the probability of her seriously into me is like 60%... subjectively...:(

at first i thought no matter i just want to drop by her place and see her family to increase my chances and improve my odds, with the assumption that her village is very conservative and some bro told me if she dun get married to me her village ppl will laugh at her

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I find it strange that the checkpoint refuse her to enter. One case (dont know her well, took her home 2 times), the immigration officer asked, whether she has boyfriend or husband in SG. She did not fill in DE with detail contact of a person in SG. She answered 'no' then the officer said, why you keep coming here for --> sent back.
My gf case, she came back to SG just after 2 weeks, she filled in DE full detail of SG contact. The officer brought her inside interview room, asking many questions and they checked her phone (sms, photo, etc) and her handbag contents. Later they let her in and advised her that if she wants to keep come to SG, she must get married.

"with the assumption that her village is very conservative and some bro told me if she dun get married to me her village ppl will laugh at her"
Dont assume and listen too much bro.
laugh at her if she keeps bringing new guys to her village, may be.

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Dont assume and listen too much bro.
laugh at her if she keeps bringing new guys to her village, may be.[/QUOTE]

noted with thanks. will orchestrate some good strategies by factoring in your step #1. thanks for sharing with me bro :)

regarding to your first scenario of VB at checkpoint, that one confirm gone case but it might help VB like my no1 :) bcuz i think they hv quota. those can some perform a little in the room can get in.

i got ask my no1 to put in my photo with her in her purse/phone etc.

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what kind of chance are u refering to?If u are refering to chance of her family accepting u as her boyfriend,i will tell u is 100%:p:D

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reason - we are holding sillypore passport. :D

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how? difficult.
at least must give some allowance when she goes back vn... how much is diffcult to guage also.

1 month....
you cannot afford wife, how about allowance for that 1 month period?

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I actually realised that when she is with me for the whole month, my spending less than she is not with me.
For start if she is not with me, at least i go JC/GL twice a week and hard to resist not to bring one home :). Now with her, i dont go out much, even go out only cost me a jug of beer. Afraid she will found out if i take a girl, beside she checks on me and ask to call her specially Fri and Sat during crucial hours ~11pm.
Yes, i gave her the money for the ticket and i give her allowance once awhile when she is here, gave her pocket money whenever she go out with my mother.
Before i left her in HCM, i gave her the remaining SG$ in my wallet, which was left around $300. That's it.

So Bro lovedoggie, be brave and dont think too much :D you can always walk away if you find something not right between you and her and move on with the next #2 or #3 :D

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read back your post...is this the vb you met on your 2nd trip to hcmc 1 year and 1 month ago?

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any updates? :)

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which vb you want?
i can give you the number if i still record in my hp but you sure you interested?
:)

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No Bro KT,
Since last year i been through a few VB's, a few HCM and 1x Hanoi.

The 2nd trip if i remember correctly is the one i met in local HCM bar, Uyen. That's history long time ago. Been many many trips to HCM (some in 2 weeks interval), just that i hardly active in this forum. Been through a few bad/bored relationships, either from WL met in JC or VB met from vietnam cupid. Good thing though that the quality is improving :). I think this one will be my last, best of everything. Even my JC partner find me strange, as not interested in JC/GL VB no more whenever we go out.

How is your To'i? it's still the one that you tried to bring it over one year ago and counting the number of days over her banned period?

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eeehhh, who is toi? my bx not name To'i.
"toi" means my/mine :)

she is stillthe same bx i know for nearly 5years already.
no more counting the numbers of days over her banned period but counting the number of days for my permanent arrest....

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you need introduciton meh? :D:D

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one month allowance is how much? $500?

yeah the chance of securing her parents first... and hopefully their daughter will follow... but all of them conspire together... i will die cock stand...:(