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The reason can varies between couples.. like example some wife's do not cater to the fetish or fantasies that the husband r keen in therefore the guys can only resort to outside services..
Although many feels that it is bullshit but it is like eating food. Your mom or wife can be a very good cook. homecook meals r awesome but once in a while u might suddenly have cravings for Jack's Place, HDL or Itacho Sushi, when that happens, what can u do? Go dine in at those places and then go home. That doesn't mean u no longer wanna eat homecook meals.

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If I may chip in my 2 cents:

I am a strayer myself and it is wrong.

I strayed because the mother of my son has become vulgar and violent; and I do not tolerate such behaviour. More so in front of our child.

There is also no way to talk things calmly to her because everything becomes my fault. Even if its hers. So I strayed because one day I just couldn't take it and packed my stuff and went overseas for a few days. That's where I met my current partner.

She knows that I am married but never force me to divorce. She told me that if I divorce my wife because of her, she will leave me.

So here I am.

There is no right reason to stray, but like what everyone here says; you must be prepared to leave everything behind. I am. The mother of my son keeps raising divorce find lawyers and everything in order for her to win the argument. My tolerance is already paper thin, the next time she says that; I am going to pack up and leave.

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Bro, you are so lucky to have a high sex drive wife.

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Thanks bro for pointing out what is commonly seen in marriages. Myself and my friends also have gf/wife who virgin and no sex before marriage kind. But it is very big question mark whether after marriage the sex drive can match or not.

Wonder if being chaste and marrying a virgin is a good choice. Any bros can enlighten?

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Haha ok la. If you don't mind she go around sleeping with other guys if you can't satisfy her. Than yeah lucky af hahaha.

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Well, my first gf was a virgin also. End up break up lo, cause lost interest in each other after 2 years. Always need to initiate the sex and she will complain pain after 5 mins. Can only pray your wife become a sex demon once you broke their virginity lor.
But usually if a girl can stay virgin for 20 to 30 years, i don't think the chance is high.

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Haha… true bro. For this, I pity you wearing green hat. Bro, I am sorry your wife has to find other guys.

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It will not be an easy road making up, and you will have to reset your mindset, bearing in mind what can happen if you slip and get caught again.
Its not just trying, but how you try.

Don't know how long it has been, whether heads cooled off for a heart to heart talk, but it will be needed.

Best to you, Bro.

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Haha nah, im the one finding guys for her cause i have cuck fetish, so wear green hat till army camo green already and loving it!

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Omg.. don’t she feel sad making love with other guys which has no love?

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When your spouse or partner or gf/bf cannot provide good sex or financially is very normal for man or woman to stray. Seen both sides stray before. Mostly man is for sex and woman is for money.

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everyone understands the "eat until sian theory". but you eat liao need to wipe mouth and hands with wet tissue right? if too lazy/too dumb to wipe properly and kenna found out, blame who?

you need to re-read op's original post. this time carefully.

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its very very much a matter of training her. think of a virgin girl as a clean slate. how it looks for you is how you paint it.

is it going to turn into mona lisa the next day? of course not. it takes time, effort and planning.

nymphomaniacs are not born. they are created.

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I m lifelong serial cheater for the last 3 decades.
from singlehood to matrimonial, the one thing that doesn't
change is cheating. i come to the stage i don't want to give
any more excuses because they are all lame shit. Fact is man
are created like this. All male mammals are born with
instinctive copulation needs. This is in us, to ensure evolution
of lifeform. This trait has been there since the beginning of time
and this is also why humankind still exist. The only difference is
the change in mindset of the female species where the strive for
gender "equality" superseded their nature instinct, creating feminist
along the way.
Damn ... i just came across as a bastard didn't i :D

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Haha do you feel sad when you visit geylang or fl? Well, she's been playing with guys well before she met me. So ,i guess not?
Heck, she's the one who find a guy to fuck Infront of me when i told her i got cuck fetish while watching porn.