Originally Posted by SingViet (Post 2727627)

if you are broke, any girl will leave you, no matter which country they are from ;)

Originally Posted by cunt_eater (Post 2727673)

will the wife just leave him and go back to vn with the kid?:confused:

Originally Posted by X_plorer (Post 2726392)

Me also sending around $200 sing every month but by inter bank transaction which the exchange rate is getting lesser sing dollars for me, from $207 initial to $187 inclusive of Bank Charges, that is a $20 per month which is $240 per annum.

Anyone can tell me how to change my wife thinking from her family to her husband and son, otherwise there would be Hell to pay for me, I've paid for her Brother's Wedding, and Even months later, her Brother's Hospital for giving birth, her sister's son education for two years already, and lot & lots more things which my initial monthly send back was not only $200 per month but double, whereas at that point of time, she is not pregnant yet. So not so much commitment, but most important is I'm just earning not more than $2,000 per month at that time.

Though the monthly allowance is lesser, but i think i have given a lot already, but it is never enough, and very few months, confirm got something would happens. Then the money from my pocket would be gone, which i calculated in total for two years, if i'd save up, i think i can change my Honda Civic to a Old BMW without a loan at all.. Though now is earning much much more than before, but yet money is still not enough. 1 person income for dunno how many people's mouth.

So regret getting married so early, and my son is already 5 months old and I'm not even 28 yet.. So sad, still got a lot time things haven't really enjoy before..

Originally Posted by papillon30 (Post 2730900)

In my opinion, you should give to your MIL and FIL only. Token amount like
S$100 each as a "thank-u' for having brought up your wife. The rest can F.O.
Tell your wife that MIL and FIL are the responsibilities of the bros-in-law & their wives.

Originally Posted by papillon30 (Post 2730900)

In my opinion, you should give to your MIL and FIL only. Token amount like
S$100 each as a "thank-u' for having brought up your wife. The rest can F.O.
Tell your wife that MIL and FIL are the responsibilities of the bros-in-law & their wives.

Originally Posted by SingViet (Post 2731685)

Most of the time, the parents also didn't fulfill their duty as parents. Most of the gals fed themselves thru hardwork and even fed their whole family. The parents simply no use, don't have better, no burden and no request for money ;)

Originally Posted by SingViet (Post 2731685)

Most of the time, the parents also didn't fulfill their duty as parents. Most of the gals fed themselves thru hardwork and even fed their whole family. The parents simply no use, don't have better, no burden and no request for money ;)

Originally Posted by SingViet (Post 2731683)

Where is our Sha Gua? Ba Xa forbid him to surf the forum? :confused:

Originally Posted by Sha_Gua75 (Post 2732121)

I always around....just lazy to write or reply....baxa dont stop me...also my laptop and her laptop is less than 50m away....sometimes she read what pple wrote about VN also, sometimes pple who wrote thing about VN make her laff alot as to her most of the time pple here trying to show they know everything about vn....:o

Originally Posted by Honey Boon (Post 2726995)

ya, I have $$ but why should I pay for you relatives.... only the girl make me "song", you people never. So why should I? This is international norm.

Originally Posted by X_plorer (Post 2726392)

I've paid for her Brother's Wedding, and Even months later, her Brother's Hospital for giving birth, her sister's son education for two years already, and lot & lots more things which my initial monthly send back was not only $200 per month but double, whereas at that point of time, she is not pregnant yet.

And very few months, confirm got something would happens. Then the money from my pocket would be gone. 1 person income for dunno how many people's mouth.

Originally Posted by papillon30 (Post 2730900)

In my opinion, you should give to your MIL and FIL only. Token amount like
S$100 each as a "thank-u' for having brought up your wife. The rest can F.O.
Tell your wife that MIL and FIL are the responsibilities of the bros-in-law & their wives.

Originally Posted by Sha_Gua75 (Post 2732121)

I always around....just lazy to write or reply....baxa dont stop me...also my laptop and her laptop is less than 50m away....sometimes she read what pple wrote about VN also, sometimes pple who wrote thing about VN make her laff alot as to her most of the time pple here trying to show they know everything about vn....:o

Originally Posted by technofreak (Post 2733160)

Originally Posted by technofreak (Post 2733160)

Originally Posted by SingViet (Post 2733430)

hahhah, its just like some vietnamese think that they know a lot about singapore. Most singaporeans only visit Vietnam or have Vietnamese ba xa and only visit vietnam sometimes, while some singaporeans stay in vietnam for a few years and do business there, thus understand vietnam more. Vietnamese laugh at singaporeans, singaporeans laugh at vietnamese too. ;)

Originally Posted by Sha_Gua75 (Post 2734188)

So far I never see any vietnamese claim to or think that they know alot about Singapore....or maybe I meet not alot of viet....but if compare with Singaporean...then more Singaporeans are claiming to know about Vietnam than vietnamese claimed to know about vietnam.... :o