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Bro, i have businesses around the region. I normally fly HCMC twice a month even if there's no family commitments there. My 4 years of stay in HCMC was fruitful, learnt a lot while doing business there. After coming back for 2 years, i should say family life is now more stable. I have to stop at 2 families, i have to leave some resources for myself too :D

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Errr ... your wives dun get offended when you do DNA testings on ur kids ??
I mean do they know or you curi curi get a few drops of blood for testing ??

Juz curious ... Sound a bit like Hong Kong drama to me. :cool:

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I believe strongly in communication. I explain to them that DNA testing is necessary for me. Not that i don't trust them, but better to be safe than sorry. If you explain sweetly to your love ones, most of them will agree. As for your question, i don't `curi curi get a few drops of blood', i bring them to the authorised place and they also know they are going thru DNA testing.

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wao, your 24 hours/365 days need to split between two wives, double family/in-law maintanance :eek:

btw, just curious, how you split the contents in your sperm tank? :D

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busybody a bit if you don't mind :D

just curious, how your 1st wife come to know about your extra-curriculum affairs? how you "pecah" the lobang?

before your 2nd wife agreed to marry you, did she know you already have a viet wife back in singapore?

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Do you think that everyone who has landed in Vietnam for the very 1st time is
fluent in Vietnamese?:D

Re: Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner
 

So is there anyone looking for a Vietnam Wife or GF at the moment?

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Is your 2nd wife legally married to you?

Me. Eligible?

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thanks Bro T... been there...mostly written in vn le...me vn not so solid...:p

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anyone is also eligible when you have enough vitamin to spend on them..

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All this while, my 1st wife knows that i kind of fool around outside sometimes, but she close one eye as she believes that as long as my heart is with her and the children, she will be alright. She started to suspect something amiss when i started to chat on the internet often. She has actually met my 2nd wife before when i was staying in HCM. But i introduced my 2nd wife then as a former student in Singapore. (i used to be a HOD in a large private school in Singapore for 18 mths) But in fact, its not uncommon for man to have a few wives in Vietnam. I know of a few vietnamese man having a few wives, one even have 6 wives.

Before my 2nd wife agreed to be with me, she knows that i am married. there were a few months when she struggled to distance herself to me. But eventually, she still came back to me. As for whether we are legally married, its NO. But we went thru customary marriage and her parents gave us their blessing. Such things may sound beserk in Singapore as singapore ladies will not accept such things to happen. But in vietnamese society, such things are very common.

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Many bros cannot imagine what i am going thru, as most bros have only recently entered the Viet scene. And most bros are only very much into the cheonging scene in both JC and HCM. Cheonging won't make u see much of vietnamese culture and the way of life in Vietnam. When i mentioned earlier that i used to have a bodyguard in HCM, most bros find it unbelievable. Why will anyone need a bodyguard in HCM? But because i was doing business in HCM and i had some business conflict with some local businessman. I also mentioned i bought a 7 room villa in District Ben Chanh, near to Phu My Hung Q7 and its facing the saigon river. Most bros don't believe, but there's a few bros who have been to my place before and they have seen it with their own eyes. 7 ensuite rooms and bathroom with jaccuzi. and it also comes with a sound proof Karaoke room on the top floor. All these sounds like HK drama huh? Go explore more of Vietnam , instead of only cheonging there. U will learn a lot.

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I think they should be lor............... :)

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Nowadays staying in HCMC is expensive and demanding for the poor but there are apportunities and work. In HCMC, one need to rent a unit/house, travel alot to work and pay much more for petrol and food. If one go back province, there is no need to pay rent and no need to travel much as one they either don't work or work in own small plantation.

Which is better? Let your baxa / girlfriend stay in HCMC to work or go back to province and stay with family?

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If your ba xa stays in the province, then you have to travel to province to meet her. Renting a car to go province is not cheap le. Unless you take public transport like buses or motorbike. The next thing being its time consuming to travel to the province