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One thing about the vietnamese is that they cannot differentiate between first name and last name correctly. For example, Le Thanh Hai, first name should be Thanh Hai, while Last name (also known as surname) should be Le. So he should be address as Mr Le, not Mr Hai. Want to be westernised but cannot understand what it means. This is the norm among normal vietnamese :D

Re: Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner
 

Bro, i didn't get my wives thru matchmaking agencies hor..;) Actually going after a Viet gal is not that difficult. You just have to spend a bit of time

Re: Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner
 

and money of cos :D

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Money is not everything......
but without money, you cannot do anything too. :)

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Khong hieu. Too difficult for me.:o

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Yes I don't think you know your wives through matching agencies.

If I can find one that I can spend my time on. She must be really drop dead gorgeous or really touch me with her good character. :)

Re: Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner
 

Tim = Heart, dau tim means heartache
Chim = bird (another term for penis), dau chim means cockache

So the phrase means...

My dear, you no good, just wanna gimme heartache instead of cockache.

;-)

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hieu, hieu, roi... rat cao cap!

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Hi Bro,

No everyone like you. Have money and have time. Some of them have money but no time and some of them worst -- no money and no time :)

By the way one of my acquaintance is going on a match-making trip and the match maker promise him he will get a virgin wife which come with medical doctor certification.

However he has no confidence with most of the vietnamese doctor as he heard that with some under-table money anything can be written on the medical certificate.

He wonder if there is any reliable clinic or hospital in HCM who will able to give unbiased report and would not succumbe (sorry my England very poor) to corruption.

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Bro, ask yr friend to bring the gal to FV hospital at District 7, HCMC. Its Franco-Vietnamese Hospital, one of the only few hospital in vietnam that meet international standard. But of course, the price is also INTERNATIONAL too :D Check out FV Hospital

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Just to add my share...went to VN last year. Met a girl whom I found out had a SG BF in Singapore.

We made contacts throught our friends in VN and even thought she got a SG BF, she stay with me during my stay. I can always hear her sms or answering phone calls between her BF.

I dont know if I should just pick up the call and tell that guy but since I MYOB, I just kept quiet.

I came to SG and she call me telling me that she wants to break up with her current BF and be with me. She ask me to pay for her air ticket plus remit 1K to her so that when she comes to SG, she can show to the immigration officer that they are coming here to spend money.

Luckily I didnt believe but another guy who is so season (50years old) in this line got con of 1K to his GF. He transfer 1K to her account via Western Union and He waited for her at the airport but she didnt turn up at the airport.

As for the gal who was with me, she call back her BF and ask him to sponsor her a ticket to SG. I heard that she is now having a baby for him.

But the funny things in HCM, I found out that she already has a 4 year old daughter. One day while having dinner, her brother bought her daughter alone. It was a surprise for me as I heard this 4 year old gal call her "Mi Mi" and when she look at me, she says this gal say in VN that she is hungry and "Mi Mi" says that she is hungry and want to eat.

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Like what bro SingViet suggested try the FV Hospital. But if I have no choice I'll spend some money and fly her down to Singapore and get her checked at a reliable Singapore hospital. Just a suggestion.

What does she wants???
 

Sorry.. I dun know where else to vent it out....

It is been the 3rd week I am with this Viet gal. She spent 3 nights with me and I had for a few times tried to give her some money on the pretext that she sacrifice her work time to be with me but she just shake her head and push the money away.

How it started was that I was drinking with a friend at L42 and she was sitting at another table adjacent to me. She kept looking at me and moments later she approach me to borrow the cigarette lighter. I invited her to join us and soon we exchanged ctc. The next day she called me and after that everyday she will call me after lunch. Occasionally she requested to have dinner with me at cheap eatery and even at times paid for it.

Wat KC trap is this????:confused:

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Why waste $$$?, buying a viet wife need abt 10k, and for ur info only a few hundred r given to the viet gal family, the rest of $$$ the agency will pocket.

Juz go to VietSingle.com - Vietnamese Friend Connection - All Listing to look for potential partners.:)

Re: What does she wants???
 

Most of the time they start with wants nothing end up with wants everything....start with nothing end up with u with nothing as well....

My personal view is nothing is free in this world....since she can spend 3 nights with u after knowing for a short period...u can believe such a girl?