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Bro KangTuo is getting more and more experienced with Viet Gals and that is GOOD. :D I agree with what Bro KangTuo has said.

My word of caution for bros : Bros who got to know Viet gals at KTV has to exercise caution when getting into relationship with these gals. Not all are bad but majority play the same game to con the foreigners.

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you won't be able to see her response ....... why? :confused:

zoom ..................... she disappeared liao :D

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what I hate the most is not the "stories" for asking $$, but their efforts of cooking up the stories

some really low level type of stories and they expect us to believe ... and thinking we are just born yesterday

yes, we might be division 3 players when come to viet relationship in few years back, but we grow. now most of us are premiership player liao, don't come try fool us with their division 3 stories :D

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No wonder VN is having a inflation of more than 25% :)

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Bro, reading up is for your own good and dun expect to be spoon fed....enjoy your reading....subscribe to this thread and check daily to learn more....hahaha:)

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Bro, I suggest you read this entire thread similar to bro darkangel83 for your own good.....then subscribe to this thread....log in daily to read if you can

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Still u more experience than most of us here. U got 1 more VO than us... :D

Yes, KangTup is having alot of experience now. He is up and rising star here, getting popular wit many gals.

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Experience is gained thru time and exposure. relative to some Singaporeans who have been in VN for a decade or more, i am seriously just a small fry. I am still learning everytime i am in VN. :D

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thks kangtuo and singviet for ur valuable advice.

Actually i dont mind sending mthly allowances to her family as long as it is an acceptable amount. I can understand why they need and think of $ cos they ar very poor, their grandma hse is a complete mess, only hav harden mud as their flooring.My gal 1st hse i can only say it is more like a wooden partition, size not more than 2 of current hdb room, toliet and kitchen space included.

By using the $ my gal asked from me, her grandma hse is under going basic renovation and starting to rear some fishes to sell by using the rice field beside the hse. Now my gal lived in a much better living condition, just that i dont understand why she need to rent such a big hse, when a normal 1 will be enough.

anyway, if i am really going to marry her, i will accept the responsbility to make her immediate family living condition better, and i think i hav the duty to do that. Maybe it is just me, but i cant bear to see my gal family struggling in vietnam while we ar enjoying ourself in sing.

All i wan is that my gal stay truthful to me and dont lie to me just to get some $, and hopefully her family/her will not hav additonal irrelevent demand such as buying luxury things cos that is what irks me most. get an inch , wan a metre if u guys noe what i am talking abt haha.

But from all the post in this topic, i am getting abt worried now, cos apparrently it is in the blood of vietnamese to be get an inch wan a metre type, and most of them ar scheming devils. It will be very tiring to "spar" with ur love 1 own family if they behave that way.

++to kangtuo: her father in USA already divorced her mum. Her mum remarried but her 2nd daddy usually not in hse for few mths, thats why her father in USA stop sending $ to her family.

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Bro mace, i think u kanna the Vietnam CHIM spell too deeply la. I can understand yr thoughts but with yr idea of helping them, you earn US$30,000 a month also not enuff for them to spend. :confused:

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As for vietnamese WL and their stories, Mother marry this and that guy, divorced this and that guy, got this and that illness. Grandmother got this and that illness, but will only want MONEY FOR HOSPITAL, but will never die. Brother drug addict, will never quit that bad habit, but with MONEY, will TRY to quit the habit. Younger sister in school, always NEED MONEY for SCHOOL FEES, then very often SICK, need MONEY for DOCTOR. Rental always going up, from US$100, to US$200, to US$300 , to US$400 a month, cannot afford, if you don't give MONEY, she will go back province and you will never see her again.

KNN, everyone in the family seems to be SICK all the time and need MONEY all the time. But their Vietnam Dong never solve these problems, only USD or SGD can solve these problems. Finally one day, all Singaporean man involved with vietnamese ladies will be down with POCKET CANCER. :D

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Thks singviet for giving so many "hints" to me. Think it is now up to me to decide what i really what. Most proba will be using delay tactics and plan 1 last trip to HCM if i decided to fuck and forget..

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Btw just 1 question, for the local hospital, do u need to pay 1st for operation or operation 1st , then pay??
thks in advance if u can help me with this :)

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You will need to pay a deposit before the operation. Simplier operations only need less than 1 million VND deposit, but more complex ones need a few million VND. Better follow her to hospital to see the bill. Medical care for locals in local hospital is cheap, when i say cheap, its really cheap!!

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Who? I am out and going already
Borrow our bro SS08 quote. I am semi-retired.
Only go vn pub once/twice on weekdays
Cheong all the way on fri and sat.
So left 3-4 day a week to rest.
3/4 days out of 7 days is = SEMI :D