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Many ppl got confused between immigration and custom! they r from different departments. Immigration officer check on passport while custom check for illegal smuggle of cigarettes. :)

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Hi All Bros,

This is my very 1st post here.
Right now i am going with a Vn Gal whom i met at a Pub, we have been together for almost 3 months. She is always angry with me for buying things for her, telling me not to waste money. When her mother need her to remit money back to Vietnam, she did not ask a single cent from me even when shes earning ard 60 to 90 bucks a day or sometimes none. She isnt pretty at all compared to her other friends but its the chemistry that draws us together.

Quarrels are sometimes abit here n there, but we would be back on good terms in a few days time.
When i made known to her that im not comfortable with customers smsing or calling her when im out with her, she respected my decision and knows what to do.

There was once when we had a huge quarrel as she accepted request from customers to drink and ends up with very bad headache and i told her that im so upset that she doesnt listen to my advice as im concern with her; and very dissapointed that i wanted to end my life(it was to test her). She was wailing n sobbing, held on to me for almost 2 hours without letting go.She has since stopped drinking as she told me recently she always does what i tell her to. It was after this incident that i come to realize how much she really love and care for me.
Well, i heard stories from my friends all these gals coming to work in Singapore cannot be trusted; seems that this theory doesn't necessary apply to all.

Her parents know that she is with me and are very eager to see me and keep asking her if im flying over to Vietnam. I'll be flying to Vietnam on the 25th to meet her parents and i am also very keen to see them.

i have read thru this thread and there are many different situations that happened to our bros here, so what wise advice would our more experienced bros can offer me.

Thanks and regards:)

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Hi All Bros,

This is my very 1st post here.
Right now i am going with a Vn Gal whom i met at a Pub, we have been together for almost 3 months. She is always angry with me for buying things for her, telling me not to waste money. When her mother need her to remit money back to Vietnam, she did not ask a single cent from me even when shes earning ard 60 to 90 bucks a day or sometimes none. She isnt pretty at all compared to her other friends but its the chemistry that draws us together.

Quarrels are sometimes abit here n there, but we would be back on good terms in a few days time.
When i made known to her that im not comfortable with customers smsing or calling her when im out with her, she respected my decision and knows what to do.

There was once when we had a huge quarrel as she accepted request from customers to drink and ends up with very bad headache and i told her that im so upset that she doesnt listen to my advice as im concern with her; and very dissapointed that i wanted to end my life(it was to test her). She was wailing n sobbing, held on to me for almost 2 hours without letting go.She has since stopped drinking as she told me recently she always does what i tell her to. It was after this incident that i come to realize how much she really love and care for me.
Well, i heard stories from my friends all these gals coming to work in Singapore cannot be trusted; seems that this theory doesn't necessary apply to all.

Her parents know that she is with me and are very eager to see me and keep asking her if im flying over to Vietnam. I'll be flying to Vietnam on the 25th to meet her parents and i am also very keen to see them.

i have read thru this thread and there are many different situations that happened to our bros here, so what wise advice would our more experienced bros can offer me.

Thanks and regards:)

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well bro, 3 mths is seriously too short a period of time to judge a person. Most bros here who got to know VN thru pubs have gone thru what you have gone thru. Things seems wonderful initially, she doesn't want money from you, she lam tinh with you for free etc. But some time later, the Viet angel will turn into a devil. You may argue that not all Viet WL are like that, but experience tells me that there's a super high chance. The trick employed is too much similiar to other Viet WL working in Singapore. Exercise caution bro.

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This I agree with u. WL r after all come SG to make money. :cool:

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Welcome to the world of vietnam vadoo...

1) If you are prepared to whatever is to going to happen at the later stage, you can continue your relationship with her.

2) If one day she is not longer working in pub and having good income, will you be able to support her, her family and her relative? (rest assure that if she is not able to support her family, she will ask money from you.)

3) If she is in vn and you are in sg, will you be able to belief what she is doing in vn. (she may work in the same line in vn but never tell you)

4) Ask yourself if she is the one your wanted for life? 3 mths with so much quarrel. How much quarrel will there be in a lifetime? (You have quarrel with her now becoz you don't like what she is doing now and you don't trust her. Even if she stops her work in this line, you will still have quarrel becoz of $)

5) How many trips to vn you planned in a year? How many more times she intend to come sg to work in pub?

6) You know her 3 mths and her parents wanna see you. They can't wait any longer for a carrot to arrive. (I only see my girlfriend parents in their hometown twice within these 2 1/2 years)

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I concurred with bro singviet and bro kangtuo. 3 months is too short a time to see thief true colors. Some viet gals do not execute their scheming plan from start but at later stage. Think of it as you becomes the bridge builder. Once the bridge is ready, then the test is for real. Do remember an opportunity to stay long term in SG could mean more attractive than a few thousands dollar to send home. Their games are diff.

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Hallo! Can u please wake up b4 it's too late? Her parents very eager to see you.:D Do her parents know she let men poke her pussy for $$$$? I bet they do. Most Vietnamese are great pretenders; Academy-award winning actors & actresses.

I find S'pore males very weak emotionally. I'm still very puzzled why S'pore males love to hook up with WLs. There are 85 million Vietnamese; ample supply to select from.

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bro bigdickman,dun get too emotion and impulsive, quite a lot of bro giving you opinion.Think wisely before you act because the decision is yours.cheers.

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a gd start fr her 2 let u lower dw ur guard against her.,.,
then cut u slowly,n let u bleed 2 death.!!!:p
anyway,bro,i might b wrong..,but pls,always always exercise caution.!!
wish u luck... :)

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Bro, just 3 months and u are flying over there now to see the parents. Postponed the trip first bah until u get to know her abit longer... 3 months too short to judge a person.

Anyway if u r going, prepared a big stack of $$ to birng.... I bet the whole village will come and welcome you... with chopping board behind their backs and you of course, the carrot.:D

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Bro BigDickMan, with so much negative remarks by bro here it is still up to you to decide. But not to commit to fast. Stand back and observe. Also let you have time to decide on whether you can tolerate the kind of working life she has/had before.

It is really too early to see parents. Maybe take this trip as a fun trip to visit her and VN. Also observe her.

There are still good gal among the WL. Chances are little. I also know my girlfriend thru pub in JC. Only visited her in VN 1/2 year after she was caught and send back. Only vist her hometown and parents on my 6th trip. There are alot of ups and downs in this 2 1/2 of relationship... I will keep to myself what are the ups and what are the downs. Anyway we grew stronger thru times.


It seems to me that you cannot even tolerate the few sms by other guys or she drinking with other guys. I would think that it will be difficult to continue this relationship. What if one day she tells you about her past, what she did... what if one day you found out the truth to alot of things... can you accept?

Think really carefully.

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I agree with KangTuo...good advice....cheers...:)

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lol. i witnessed two oscar nominee beater Actor and actress in action on my trip rescently. One is the WL in geyang 18 which my friend book twice. She find out he is in HCMC and rushed down within 12 hours. she stay 6 hours drive away from hcmc. guess what she tag around? a farking bro to come to see doc in hcmc and psycho my friend to pay to see doc and saty in the hotel. my girl said she overheard her calls that she is hidding alot of things and she suspect the girl's bro maybe husband instead!. we know this wl has a husband one. wahaha.. imagine vietnam man can stand his wife kana laid by another man in the next room..

Also this WL damn good in acting. We went out to chiong and my friend's ex bx which he know from KTV also came. She become damn damn pissed when go out of the pub to cry in the street! comeon on man all the vietnam crowd see why she cry in the public as if we did her something terrible! Later she said we insulted her by asking the ex bx to come. You should see how much she cry and how she pretend to vomit in the cab siah..
Later she tell my friend that she very sad that he ask his ex bx along. I was thinking you farking got a husband areadi still wanna prevent my friend from knowing other girl. Wake up your bloodly idea lah you bitch, u just another WL loh.. but i diam diam coz is my friend money she is leeching everyday and my gundu friend seem willing to pay so dun wanna to spoilt the holiday by crticising him. i told him u only book her overnight twice and she can love you so much or she knows you are another young inexperience man with thick wallet for her to shake the money tree.

Second one is a taxi driver. Look damn farking honest and speak very nice. I gave him 200k note for a 30k trip and he think I not counting the change and gave me just 50k+ back as change. I told him that he gave my short of 100k+ and he look at me innocently that he didnt get. lucky my hotel bellboy came and help me to settle it. later he no choice but to return me the 100k+ of change. I still think he is innocent and pay him 5k tip! knn later than the bellboy told me that the taxi driver is cheating one and is common trick for the know Foreigner usually dun count the change and also will gave up asking after a try. So the simple thing which i will always do when oversea is to change big note to smaller change but this time really boh liao..you should see the acting from his face. can win oscar easily siah..

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No need to think so much. Go HCMC, treat it as a tour. Go n experience Viet culture. I'm sure u can't learn this in school. Enjoy while u can. :D