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All the best to u.... :rolleyes:

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Bro kang Tuo, all the best but don't expect too much from her words. :D

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Very good already.....at least married roi then have such comment....rumour about me going to vietnamese agency spread at my work place even to the extend that people i never work with heard about it :confused:

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They listen to their family 1st....then their friends...you the last perhaps :D

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hahaha... i think they take u as vietnam boy..u always hang out with Viet gal, so maybe next time they post u to vietnam :D

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by the way , which pub is that?

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To her eye i only a small fly! Luckily she is not my gf! :D

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At meridian, :mad:

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Saw this thread a bit late.

My wife also a Viet. She is 25 this year. I just upgrade to father status after 1 year.

Life is not easy after marriage. There are 3 barriers which I can conclude:

1: Language
2. Culture
3. Personality

Its normal when couples quarrel and fight but give in and make peace in the end. I regretted married her when our relationship is bad but thought of the sweet moments we had just forget and let out your unhappiness elsewhere.

Eventually she got her PR and settled down as a good wife in Singapore. Good if you find a good one, if not god bless you if you pick a rotten apple. True enough a lot of things to teach her above the life in Singapore.

One word for those having a potiential viet life partner, be "PATIENT".

Your partner left her home country and start everything new in Singapore. Wondering what her life will be and a lot of uncertainties. It will be good she had friends married here, so its easier to mix around and learnt from big sisters. My frequent trip with her on weekends to visit her friends also made me know a few bros with the same fate. In fact we still go CHEONG together. Vaild excuse.

I dun give allowance for her to send back to Vietnam. We agreed to save and start our own biz and buy a house in Viet. So make sure you work out some plans for your wife to work towards it.

So much for my contribution. Cheeros.:)

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Care to give some background about your wife and yourself? I think some of us will want to know more....thing like getting PR etc...so background will roughly give a gauge.. Personally I like to know very very much :D


If you cant give too much info, then it is ok

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Bro Sha_Gua75, the time to get PR status varies and depends on the our Garment...I quote few examples i know.

1) Friend of mine
Guy 32yo sillyporean, Bachelor Degree, Engineer in govt sector. Wife 24yo china babe, now study diploma in local poly, prevoiusly work in TECH as assembly line gal. PR in 3 mths after married.

2) Friend of my mum
Guy 48yo sillyporean, no education, lau ah beng with low salary work. Wife 23yo vietnamese, a working gal b4. PR in 5mths after married... think because of pregnant.

3) Young owner of a viet eatary in JC and his viet wife. PR in less than 1/2 year after married.

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I know that..more example given from different people will be better...sometimes people scare lose face...so anyhow say the period shorter....another factor is depend on the job u holding and u pay income tax or not

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Alamak, SViet - be discrete man... where's next part?:D

Wah, it seems a few bros are going to Vn soon. Sorry didn't get to meet at 51 today - another time man, always good to share experience, hopefully Mok gotten his wish fulfilled in this mtg:p . The group growing - now with Unclesammi login in too (he's active in other threads deh..some common interest indeed)

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if want, then must go all the way.. half hearted hard ler.. :o

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Yo bro, it was a good drinking session last time when i met Mok. bro Mok, nice meeting up with you. I think we should have drinking sessions once in a while :D