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To TS, did your wife find out about your once off or prolonged relationship/s or both.

Women react differently to once off than to relationships.
however as I see it, she is still in it with you but need time to balance herself.

Sometimes I wonder if women knows their partner will inevitably have extras outside, but is content as long as they don't find out and the family is not neglected or compromised.

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s their partner w

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Bro, so sorry to hear that. I hope you are alright.

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some will get to find out

Thank you for your reply.. well, i did bring up that we dont talk much nowadays, cause she use her phone n earpiece everytime, n when i chit chat with her, she can't hear me cause she listening to her online stories thru her earpiece.. so she didnt respond at all, i do feel dejected when there's no response n i then raised my voice to get her attention, then she looked annoyed i talked loudly.. but i didn't give it back, n instead opt to remain silent to prevent any escalation.. that's my way of trying to get closer to her, n still trying...

Thank you for your reply too.. yes, i feel she's still in our relationship, but she's cooled off much, not put so much effort into maintaining the relation, we still go out as a family n do family things together, not like going to implode n divorce soon, just that things not so fun as before..
To those who talk about counselling, yeah we went to imh see counselling, n the counsellor spoke to us individually n as a group, we put into practice the suggestion n its a work in progress.. one thing the counsellor said n which i rem is, don't give up, do things like we used to when its fun n the healing will start with time..
So if is in our biological makeup or whatever reason, each of us hv our reason to do what we did, n we reap ehat we sowed, so whether good or bad after effects, its a experience to not forget.. that's life..

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Hang in there bro, I know its tough, and it can only be tough. But my respects to you for giving it a honest sincere effort to reconcile.
Thumbs up.

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Do you really need marriage?

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After a few years like that then the relationship will change in nature.

That was how my wife and I ended up divorced.

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I'm fighting this urge now, but everytime i feel put down by those close to me, pushes me back to another's embrace, paid or not .. what do you think?

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Very common for us

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I'm fighting this urge now, but everytime i feel put down by those close to me, pushes me back to another's embrace, paid or not .. what do you think?

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I'm fighting this urge now,

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I'm fighting this urge now,

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initially due to excitement