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Fully agreed...no matter how many years...still need to compromise and adapt...hahaha...:)

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Sad stories are plentiful in Vietnam, especially when there's foreigners around. I have learnt to take it lightly. Most of the time, its not as seriously as they think it is as they lack general knowledge and don't know a lot of things. There was once, my wife's sister told us that her husband got VIRUS B, and she's damm worried. Say this say that.. say like going to die soon.. knnb... turn out to be Hepatitis B and can be controlled by medication. Then next, say got heart problem, say going to die again. But this sister's husband is rich, so i asked him to come Singapore Heart Center for check up. Came, did all the test, nothing is wrong. Turned out to be he invested a lot in HCM Equity market and the market was going thru difficult times and he lost a lot, so caused anxiety and sleeplessness. KNN, they really need to go to school..or maybe the government needs to upgrade the quality of teachers in the country :D But no choice, teachers are poorly paid in Vietnam and most people look down on teachers as teachers are poor.....

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Hahaha...well said and i also take it lightly when i hear any new stories...always check and cross checks their stories before any decision taken...:)

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Very true indeed.. now is the time to focus to dbl or quad your funds..

Not to be missed cycle.:p

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Different brothers offer different views about vietnamese spouses. I realised that brothers who have stayed in VN for a period of time differ in views from those who don't. Most brothers got to know yr vietnamese spouses in Singapore and have not spent a period of time of more than a year continuously in Vietnam, thus hold different views from those who have.

No matter what, different bros offer different views. Its good to have different views and these views made these threads interesting ;)

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Hi I am new to this forum. I just want to share something about my so called future "wife". We are getting married this coming August. I know her in the local scene when she was a WL. Then I maybe too foolish after so long in the scene that there is love. I fall in love with her. When she went back to vietnam. I went there to look for her and take care of her. I proposed to her after 2 months of knowing her. She agreed and I am so happy. She had all along want to continue working as a WL and I am strongly against even to the extend of upping her allowance to more than 1k. 1 month away from the wedding, she secretly came to Singapore and work. She even asked another lady to lie to me by asking the lady to pass her allowance to her on the pretext of passing the money in vietnam. The incident happened on Friday and suddenly her handphone is off and she become uncontactable. I had spent 1 day looking for her. In vietnam, I am wondering if they value wedding. I am very sad. I am thinking if she is cheating me or just want to work one last time before marriage. I really need help... I want to clarify the matter with her but I don't know where is working...

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what you know about her in 2 months? 2 months and you talk about marrying vn gal. She is treating you as another ATM.
you trust her so much previously that you give her so much allowance, now you wanna look for her to do what?
its time to let go these kind of girl.... save your time and $

Few months back I also got to know a vn gal in HCMC. She is the best that I had so far, so I also fall for her. When she went back to HCMC, I got every intention to "bao" her and stop her from working in Sillypore.

But due to some complicated issue in her family and they require some amount to pay their debts. I cannot possibly be their ATM. So I drop the idea. You never know what they do with the $ and you never know how many ATMs they have.

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Excel in academic and living foolish in the real world has became common in SG society. Stupidity is getting worse with world class education. :rolleyes:

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Wow bro u so rich, still can BAO a gal, with another commitment already :D

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hahhahh, another singaporean man that's cheated by Vietnamese WL. Not to be sacastic, but i do find a lot of singaporean brothers too naive, believing in whatever their Vietnamese gf tell them. ;) Its still not too late to regret now, forget about her and move on. There are plentiful of good gals in Vietnam for you to choose from :D

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only thinking lah. In the end, i also give up the idea.
If she can come back, it is also good lah...
making plans... :D

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There are many vietnam matchmaking agencis in s'pore.
i am wondering.. is it technically possible to get a vietamese bride diy without going thro. them? meaning we buy our own tix & fly there & hunt for our love ourself.

hopefully after some courtship then tie down. what you bros think?

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Is she that ECHO gal? She seems too young for u la.... Move on :D

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for you to guess and for me to know who is this gal :D
anyway i dun look old mah... always 26yo. :p
syt is just right for me

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Anyway this is her picture. Runaway bride... I can't stand it and she is a mother of one.

http://img36.imageshack.us/img36/2117/dsc00425f.jpg