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Really envy your fren :)

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They can make new passport and declared 1st time here :D

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I have a Viet WL friend whose passport is fake with a fake birthday. :D

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they have braddahs and fathers who cannot work? what they do all day? play cards and watch TV? and some unlucky SG guy end up with the girl as a wife?

YouTube - Vietnam airstrikes

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Aiyoh, that's why ICA has the finger print identification system lor. Making passport is not difficult in Vietnam, even after declaring 3 passport lost. U got money to spend, i can do it for u... hahhaha

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Sit at kopitiams & see girls lo. Im wondering why their sisters, father are healthy but dont wana work. 1 word, Lazy...

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Bro could you cool it on the racist rants? You want to sound like a big man in this forum but you just come across as juvenile. Have you been to Vietnam or met any Vietnam girls before? If you are too young to shave your balls then you should go somewhere else instead of flooding the Viet discussions with your antiViet and antiforeigner keyboard diarrhea.

In case you have no sense of history, the Vietnamese won the American war.

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your intent was good but the "balls" comment and other I do not appreciate.


FYI never been to 'nam. dont know any but i think the majority are nice people. i enjou Pho noodles sometimes. problem is SG man lost respect for himself not because pursue Veit girl but chasing after Viet whore, showering with money to buy love and wife. I practice what I call tough love for my braddahs. sometimes you have to explain it hard and tough for it to get into SG braddahs head prusuing the wrong kind of Viet gal.

now do you understand? enjoy your evening and weekend braddah.

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As the thread starter, i will hope that arguments be kept away from my thread. This thread was started for the good intention of letting other brothers with Vietnamese spouse understand their partner's habits, cultures etc. So if any one wants to corrupt this thread, please show your limits.

No matter how other brothers met their vietnamese spouse is not much of grave concern to others, as long as these brothers are happy, we should be happy for them. Whether their viet spouses used to be whores or not, we will be happy if these viet spouses can be good wives to their husbands, good mother to their kids and good daughter-in-laws to their mother-in-laws. Most important point is they no longer work as whores after marriage.

So to each their own preference, if brothers want to be respected, show respect to others. Have a great evening . Chao :D

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Well said lah bro,:)

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alright braddah, i see your feelings. if sammo want to take down the videos, its OK with me.

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Yes bro SingViet should play referee for this thread...well done and keep it up...:)

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Hi bros, need some advices really.

I know this viet gal can say is a WL. But she dont always work. Knew her since April. We fell in love and she has been staying in my house everytime she comes here.. Shes been here for 4 mths and 1 mth in Vietnam; for the 1 mth, i went over to accompany her for 2 weeks and we went Nah Trang and Dalat.

Now we also decided to get married, i know its abit insane like some bros here. She really can give me the family feeling, everyday cook for me chinese food etc, making me so addicted. After dinner, she will den go to work and i go fetch her home bout 1am. My parents also like her alot, becoz she is capable of doing housework, cooking etc and she is so automatic.

One thing she want me to promise her is, i have to let her work for 1 1/2 yr to clear her family debt and im also very clear she mean it when she say no way she will do anything behind my back. She do not want me to interfere her family problem and wants to settle it all herself. Until now, she did not tell me exactly how much debt her family is in and what causes it.

I know im walking into a dark pit but i really do not know how to give up at this point of time.... I belive its the same when your playing TEXAS holdem, Now im calling an ALL-iN on river which either misery or happiness.

Out from the 1st topic, may i know what are the steps for a marriage? We plan to get married but the wedding feast be held in a later date.
All i know is we need 2 witnesses, pair of rings, proper attires, guy need tuxedos?
Another friend told me that its better to go ICA to inform them we getting married and so on, dunno the exact procedures.

Please advice.

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let her clear her family debt first then marry her. Not long, just 1 1/2 years

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Give yourself n her more time to know each other. U have yet to discover much abt her. :rolleyes: