The Asian Commercial Sex Scene - Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

I waited 1 1/2 year liao...still waiting another 1 1/2 year for her to be able to come back :( wedding bell should ring before 2010. Keeping my finger cross.

3 years up liao... her ban is over, but i am not happy.
She keeping asking me when can bring her over... Sep? Oct?

This time I am not ready... somethings from previous marriage are not solved yet :(

ekemono

11-08-2009 10:01 AM

Re: Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

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Originally Posted by KangTuo (Post 3999718)

3 years up liao... her ban is over, but i am not happy.
She keeping asking me when can bring her over... Sep? Oct?

This time I am not ready... somethings from previous marriage are not solved yet :(

Yes bro KangTuo, That is the way to handle matters maturely; resolved outstanding matters from the past before commiting to the future. That way you will not have problems later on.

Sha_Gua75

11-08-2009 12:11 PM

Re: Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

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Originally Posted by KangTuo (Post 3999718)

3 years up liao... her ban is over, but i am not happy.
She keeping asking me when can bring her over... Sep? Oct?

This time I am not ready... somethings from previous marriage are not solved yet :(

maybe can try to test the ICA see if any problem in coming in Singapore 1st?

Hurricane88

11-08-2009 12:22 PM

Re: Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

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Originally Posted by KangTuo (Post 3999718)

3 years up liao... her ban is over, but i am not happy.
She keeping asking me when can bring her over... Sep? Oct?

This time I am not ready... somethings from previous marriage are not solved yet :(

Make sure you get a copy of the divorce cert to be verified...:)

casannova03

11-08-2009 05:00 PM

Re: Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

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Originally Posted by KangTuo (Post 3999718)

3 years up liao... her ban is over, but i am not happy.
She keeping asking me when can bring her over... Sep? Oct?

This time I am not ready... somethings from previous marriage are not solved yet :(

Bro, just to share with you, 3 yrs up liao also they will try not to let ur gal in to SG.:(

It doesn't mean after 3 yrs they will automatically allow her in. On the contrary, once they see that she have "record", they will try not to let her in.
(Sharing from experience) This is because, there is no official document that says that they are only barred for 3 yrs. There is no black and white for this type of thing. Everything is verbal and in their records which we cannot access. Most importantly, they have this sibei powerful statement:

However, the grant of a visit/social pass is still subject to approval by the immigration authorities at the concerned entry/exit point.
.... this one statement overrules everything...

So bro, be prepared for a lot of e-mail,letters and appeals to ICA again. ;)

RJ2004

11-08-2009 05:16 PM

Re: Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

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Originally Posted by KangTuo (Post 3999718)

3 years up liao... her ban is over, but i am not happy.
She keeping asking me when can bring her over... Sep? Oct?

This time I am not ready... somethings from previous marriage are not solved yet :(

very curious to find out if she can come in just like that...

Honey Boon

11-08-2009 06:05 PM

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but we men like you.. or your style and we are proud of you. Welcome to the club ... Bad Son-In-Law Klub ... :D

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Originally Posted by SingViet (Post 3993860)

That's why my mother-in-law doesn't like me and i don't like her too. :D

ensign2000

11-08-2009 06:14 PM

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Originally Posted by Tee-Muay (Post 3979498)

Bro, please only get the girls from the village and not those that come to Singapore for matchmaking. If you are serious about getting a Viet wife, go find an agency that can do this. I can give you my friend's agency contact if you desire.

Been trying to get my friend brother to get married. Could you msg me the contact number?;)

David_Villa

11-08-2009 07:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Honey Boon (Post 4000988)

Welcome to the club ... Bad Son-In-Law Klub ... :D

No matter how bad we singaporean son-in-law r, we r still better than the vietnamese son-in-law.

The majority of the vietnamese son-in-law r useless and rely on their wife for a living. some even allow their wife to work as WL to feed them, and they use their wife $$$ to fuck around.. Some even rely on their sister-in-law foreigner husband for a living.....

they r sick men of south east asia....... :cool:

SingViet

11-08-2009 07:35 PM

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Originally Posted by Honey Boon (Post 4000988)

but we men like you.. or your style and we are proud of you. Welcome to the club ... Bad Son-In-Law Klub ... :D

No choice lor, good SIL have to give damm a lot of money to satisfy her needs and her other children needs. A bad SIL only need to give some money to satisfy her daughter's needs. So a normal person, with average intelligence, will choose to be a bad SIL ;)

KangTuo

11-08-2009 07:52 PM

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Originally Posted by ekemono (Post 3999781)

Yes bro KangTuo, That is the way to handle matters maturely; resolved outstanding matters from the past before commiting to the future. That way you will not have problems later on.

oustanding matter is too draggy and may drag another year.
need to break the news to her and pyscho her to stay in vn for the time being

i also got matters of my heart to resolve...

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Originally Posted by Hurricane88 (Post 4000139)

Make sure you get a copy of the divorce cert to be verified...:)

not done yet... that is why too draggy
drag by the other party

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Originally Posted by casannova03 (Post 4000838)

Bro, just to share with you, 3 yrs up liao also they will try not to let ur gal in to SG.:(

So bro, be prepared for a lot of e-mail,letters and appeals to ICA again. ;)

someone tried before...
without the ROM date, whatever letter/appeal also reject...

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Originally Posted by Sha_Gua75 (Post 4000114)

maybe can try to test the ICA see if any problem in coming in Singapore 1st?

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Originally Posted by RJ2004 (Post 4000871)

very curious to find out if she can come in just like that...

heard form her that her friend also kana banned. Her friend went to some black magic witch to perform some ritual so that she can come to sillypore.

we shall see if its work as her friend is coming in early sep.

chen_zhen

11-08-2009 11:33 PM

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Originally Posted by David_Villa (Post 4001198)

they r sick men of south east asia....... :cool:

Hey hello hello bro this statement very sensitive you know. but i strongly agree vn men r sick men of south east asia. :D

Hurricane88

12-08-2009 01:06 PM

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Originally Posted by chen_zhen (Post 4002030)

Hey hello hello bro this statement very sensitive you know. but i strongly agree vn men r sick men of south east asia. :D

I think it will need to take another one to two generations to eradicate this problem...now Vn gals are prefered for one child policy...:)

RJ2004

12-08-2009 01:29 PM

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Originally Posted by KangTuo (Post 4001275)

like this oso can :eek:

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