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u are addicted to easy fantasy life not just travelling. guess you havent really work hard or have a career yet. most likely you will regret unless that gal family is richer than your family, and you married into their family instead to become their pussycat dog (like one of our famous brothers here did)... well i keep my finger cross for your future.. just know that too many bro here older than you have fallen. do you wanna have a shot in that hall of fame??

go out and meet more gals, you will miss her less and know what u missed. 23 is so damn young. so much more to enjoy and learn..

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let her go liao. she has shown her true color to you and you are lucky to see it so early. like the wise man said nan ren bu huai nu ren bu ai.

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May I ask where you meet this Viet gal...if this gal is decent and has a good job and family then the relationship may work out...btw, I had mentioned many times that Sin men are hot commodities in Vn...all Viet gals are hoping to marry good Sin men...they just want to get out of Vn for greener pastures...:)

I dun advocate men marrying older women or even same age...women ages faster than men and soon you will find them no more attractive...:)

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Thank you for agreeing with me. Bro SingViet and I just state all the facts and it is up to any brother here to digest them. This thread is to help any newbies or season brothers to understand what they need to go through if you want to have a Vietnam life partner.

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Yo bro i meet this gurl in sg actuali but she come for 1 time and didnt come here for more le as she was cheated here.. i fly to viet alot of times to see her also.. i mean she in viet her family gt problems from wt i see and understand. As u noe if the viet gurl gt no problem y do they care to come spore rite.I reali dun understand y i love her so much n also i missed vietnam. U noe that sometimes 1 mnth i go viet alone 1 time and worst of all even if it is a dae i would also go. nw its been 1mnth odd since i went back so missed her n viet so much. It is nt gd for a 23yr old guy to love a older gurl but then i also cant help it. Worst of ALL i tink among fellow brother here no 1 younger than mi rite ? I reali am confuse so much. am i really in posion. I really want to married her but then i would nid to give up my parents.

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Thom07 didi.. please talk to your peer.
probably most bro over here may be too old to understand the thinking of mao86 generation. Generation gap.

:)

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whahaha i tink i maybe the youngest here.. so u all may gib mi advice..
troi oi buon wa.. sao yeu mot nguoi co cho tim dau wa

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Cheated?? :rolleyes:

U r still young... there r thousands viet gers for u to choose. Take your time.

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Wow your problem is bigger than wat i anticipated...so she was a WL here...that's not good...she said she got cheated...may i ask why she dun come here any more...cheated is not banned from entering sin...you also mentioned she had family problems...so wat she is working in vn and is it hcm...if she is working as WL...then you are really kc-ed very deeply...love is something cannot explained...i think you love her more than she loved you...you are playing on very dangerous field...i am afraid you bound to lose...let me ask you...1. Do you know wat she is doing when you are not in vn...2. Can you afford to feed her family and her for life...3. Are you financially self sufficient...4. Can you afford to lose your parents and those who loved you dearly for a meaningless love relationship at your tender age of 23...5. What happened you defied everything and married her but later you found out all her faults and that she all along cheated you...6. Will your parents forgive you and take you back after all these events...you are really young to venture into this kc game and i will say you are no match for an older lady...btw, how much older is this gal...my advice is for you to dwell on and not that i am aways right...there are enough examples here in this thread if you bother to read...just my two cents worth...:)

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...ah, so heartening to hear this...but I run into brick wall still...dunno why (maybe becos I no TV xao nhieu-nhieu)..very sad. Dun noe how to restart my journey...though 'always 25' I think my gaps (plural) are too big liao...

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cheated here is such lame old excuses they used. my last time gals dunnoe how many use that. dun be naive bro. sg man are so frog in the well, they really need to see the world siah.

once i go to my fren viet wife village to see see look look, tons of gals wanna marry me. from syt to milf. it is so special feeling at 1st but after awhile i got used to it and play along. could have fark a few syt for free but didnt becoz i dun wanna be an asshole plus my fren reputation is also impt.

bro singviet has seen me b4 and i am not a good looker but imagine tons of syt wanna marry me, as they ask my fren abt me and some even come tok to me or beo me from afar. never in singapore am i such a HOT alpha male. from A cup to D cup, from chiou bu to ugly bu also asked abt if i available ...

as for the 86 didi, u dun lack any thing but just short of exposures with more womans. u limit your choice too much liao. just like bro KT just awaken from his dark period by her lady no. 2

my piece of bro to bro tok is that u need to meet more womans and you will understand what u cant see before. iwas like you b4 but no longer and graduated from the school of novice.hope u too soon

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Dun act young, u look more like 28... :D

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bro singviet,

i really think singapore man lack the mental str and the exposures for they get conned so easily by uneducated village woman.. my trips to vietnam expose myself to world out there where woman are not so hard to get like the singapore self-declared-gold-plated- cheesepies. there man call the shots most of the time and they behave like man should be. thats why many vietnam woman will con the goood sg man to feed the assholes-good-for-nothing vietnam MAN whom they loved.

no country have i seen better and considerate males than singapore males. i asmit i havent seen the caucasian world..

nevertheless i used your pratical advice and protocol to see this world and saved me lots of KC and traps. i like to add this: "WHEN THINGS LOOK TOO GOOD TO BE TRUTH, 99% IS NOT THE TRUTH"

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young at heart le...otherwise cannot play liao..(can add another 20 plse?):p

wah..so encouraging realli...how to go village ah? I nd to find a chance but TV kg hieu.. last tm taxi took me round-trip alto I said "Cho Ben Thanh!"...

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Poor village outside hanoi and hcmc. nearer to dalat is my fren wife village.. city gals in hcmc wont be like that. those poor village from poorer province will. you are their greek god out of proverty. And most importantly you must know how to act and dress well to finish off as a better greek god from singapore.