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I agree...I found my current gf while holidaying in SGN last year. We've been spending eventful time together and things are going well now. Planning to settle down next year if everything goes according to plan.:)

It's a big country there and with so many gals, chances of finding a decent gal is higher than here. Plus it's not too expensive and relatively near to fly there too!

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I will agree with you if they also speak the same language. I was threre two years back and it's difficult to have a proper communication as I do not speak the same language let alone find a nice decent VB :)

This problem does not exist when I was in Guangzhou and DongGuan. Unfortunately most gals in China are quite materialistic.

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mm...ok, when I come by to HCM soon to visit you, cud show me around a bit..?(beside trying to re-contact one 'lost' VB).. Another fren wants to pick up one too!:o

In the other thread, KT is suggesting visit 'station'..WL onli..

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you have been staying at home way too long... see you post I blur blur. don't know what you talk.

No plan to visit 'station ktv' lah... just suan SS08 neh..
the plan is to go E*** ktv. :D

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Guess what...when couple love each other then they will try to learn each others language...this is the funny things that never fail to happen...kekeke...:)

Check out "Tieng Viet Lovers" thread and you will agree...:)

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Depends.... I'm 1 of those who dunno vietnamese. :D My basic in Vietnam is go straight, turn left, turn right and bill pls.

Also bian char bo... em yeu, ba xa, nho em.....:D

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Bro...you laojiao liao la...me too learn enough just to order food, drinks...count money...blur blur sotong sotong...survive no problem...alot of VB like this type men lei...dun know why...:)

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The main reason why I dun learn Viet is because I know how to speak Thai. I tried to learn viet initially and I always use viet in thai and thai in viet. So I give up viet completely.

Anyway learn a few words and enough for me to survive in Hanoi daily but not sianing mm. :o

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I have the same language problem when I intially met my gf. I could not speak tieng Viet and she couldn't speak Mandarin or English. Luckily one of my friend's wife is from VN. During the initial period, I depend heavily on my friend and his wife to translate her sms as well as sending mine. Tired Goggle Translations and it works only word for word but makes no sense in a sentence.:o

The following months I took great pains trying to pick up the language and bought dictionary and books and the same goes to my gf. Right now my tieng Viet is still lousy but we can communicate now without much problem.

If you love her deep enough, I think learning the language shouldn't be the biggest obstacle. At least that's my driving force to learn the language.:D

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Hi all..
I've been reading this thread for awhile now.. And this is the first time that I'm posting something. I'm pretty new to the HCM scene. But I'm basically oblivious about the Singapore Vietnam scene. I've heard a lot of stories regarding the Vietnamese WLs in Singapore. Most of them doesn't sound good. Some of the stories that I've read about the HCM WLs also doesn't sound too good. I've a friend who frequents JC. He basically stereotype all Vietnamese girls as sao nhieu nhieu and out for your money. Even when we went over to HCM, he treats the girl there the same way as he treats the WLs here. I need some help here guys. Do the Girls in Vietnam behave the same way as the one in singapore? And do all the girls(including the non WLs) over there are money sucking vampires?


I frequent HCM. I go there almost every month. Not to cheong but just to chill
relax and unwind from work. I just love and adore HCM. it's so laid back! Few months back, I met a girl at the bar that I frequent. It's a clean joint. I know almost everyone there. She's a SYT. We went out quite a bit on my following visits to HCM and always keep in contact via SMS or emails. She never asks me for money or anything. I will only pay for her meals when I asked her out. And at times, she would pay for mine! She looks like a good wife material. I've already to her of my intentions of making her my gf but she said that it's not a good time. She said that she need to settle some of her family problems. And she's afraid that she go no time for me. I understand and take things slowly. I feel that she is very wary of me. Maybe she thinks that all I want is sex or want her to be my sexcapade everytime I come to hcm. Now, we're starting to communicate better. She's starting to open up and I'm starting to understand her further. The thing is that I don't really know if she's a good girl or she's just buttering me up and just waiting to go for the kll and suck all my money as what my friends would say. I need some help and advise here, my Viet bros. Maybe some wise words from Bro Singviet and from the Legendary Bro Hurricane.

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ah...u r rite, I'm rusty now..the pipe not use for a while...
For E***, keep posted.

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My galfriend was also my driving force to learn TV. But now I always practice it with other viet gals in JC/GL.... :o

It is good that there is a motivational factor for you to learn TV. But as what TS always suggested...make sure your galfriend also pick up our langauge.

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Tot u always use Xin Loi Ko Can :p

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There are definitely good Vietnamese gers in Vietnam. Whether sucking vampires or not, all depends on luck. The only problem for sure, distance relationship is always difficult, cos you dunno what she doing when you are not around and this makes you guessing and sometime a lot misunderstanding.

You have nothing to lose except time. All couples go thru time and relationship to know each other more.


Kg Hieu, a noi gi

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Wahaaha ... of cos easy for you to say such things la .... you sure no problem, for such a mature man like you bro :D

You will be too busy with other chio bu having fun & making out, where got time to play the guessing game lah - as for you surely no misunderstanding one :rolleyes: .......... :D