Re: Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner
 

4 years ago I met my galfriend.
she become prettier 4 years later

:D

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Look for vn wife in joo chiat and geylang??:eek::eek:
die faster :D

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hahahahahah ......

then I must wait another 3 years (4-1) before my BX turn prettier ... :p

Thats a long wait ....

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$$$ dry faster too :p

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Yes I do agree past is past , past is only valid when you are into relationship and not doing it anymore , then what's past is past to me ....

But then already into relationship and still got hotel with clients, I think thats not past ..... Unless u consider married already then u considered that as past ....

However, I truly repsect and admire you for that, I can't take it if i were you, I might choose to give up even it's it fate ....



Well I must fully agree ... its FATE ... Love got NO boundary .... GO for it if you thinks it's worth it ....

Re: Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner
 

He still asking after 4 years.. so let him have a quick guide to VN culture in JC. I think maybe his agent is no good..:)

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Yes bro...good sharing and courageous enough to own up and share your story...your bx has all the time in the world to learn to be a good daughter in-law because you said it all "definitely want to see this journey through with her"...think long haul and psycho her slowly...educate her daily that learning a few words in Chinese or dialect will make the MIL very happy...:)

It's fate that brings you both to the matrimony...relish the challenge and cherish your treasure...take care and happy ending...:)

Please continue to post here to share with newbies...pretty soon there will be other stories posted here and sure enough they dun bother to read the past fr...do read this thread often and sure you will learn alot better to handle your dearly beloved...:)

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here is his posts....http://www.sammyboyforum.com/showpos...&postcount=124

So any brothers want to post somethng...pls check what had you posted previously...all your history can be tracked...:p

Re: Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner
 

will do so bro..

thanks alot for all the advice...

but one more thing to add..

VN Gals do have a fiery temper when u step on their tails...haha...

cheers

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hahaha...tell me about it...after 3 years I think I knew it more...that's why I said "relish the challenge"...I have learned their fiery temper culture and learn to play it better than them...if you have any problem you may post here or pm me if you want to be discreet...:)

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Sighzzzzz .... Tell me about it ..... :o

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How you do it better?
fire against fire or just keep quite and let the fire die off on its own?

Once awhile my galfriend will get mad. I used to bombard her with sorry sms, love sms, sweet talk her on phone calls.
But now I just let her be. When she cool down her own, I will then sweet talk her.

I never believe in fire against fire :)

Re: Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner
 

haha..true bro..

in the beginning i could not handle...
tried fire with fire...no use..
then bombard with sorry sms... no use...

leave her alone---work wonders...
haha....also i wun have heart attack everytime..
use so much time & energy for nothing...

but one thing..she always keep her thoughts to herself...dun like to say anything...
hai...been trying to get her to open up more...

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Fire Against Fire Definitely Don't work for me ..... It will only cause a Back Draft ....

My BX is "Eat Soft No Eat Hard" Gal and says if she angry , don't talk to her, she will cool down in 1-2 days, but I just not that kind of person ... so I will talk talk talk ... hahaah ... then Back Draft loh ...

Now I learning very hard to leave her alone , then say sorry here, sorry there ... love sms here, love sms there .... it works :D

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haha bro..

same here...my type also cant leave her alone sometimes...
for me , when got prob , must settle asap..dun like to drag..

but for them , they dun care...sometimes say another time then talk..but the "another time" never comes....

then the next time , the same issue happen again...wuah!!
buay tahan sometimes..

"botay"....

haha....