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:confused:what he want to do?stop his wife to work long hour or how to treat him like a husband :confused:

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well,if his wife is working long hour just to feed the family and their small kids,that husband should ask himself why is he asking all this instead of helping her

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not worry lah... just wondering if i really can totally give up on my ECA when i get married again. the date is getting nearer and nearer so i think alot.

i guess i will still be a normal man who will occasionally go for cat50 and FL for quick release liao... "everyday eat homecook rice also bored. sometimes need to eat some other food outside so that we will appreaciate home cook food." for sure need to stop finding "fake love" :D

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but if his wife is working hard outside and not look after their kids,is another things.the timing dont look like wl hours so should be normal job

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maybe it mp?

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Last time there was a girl who wore factory uniform go out to work night shift but later the husband is suspicious, so he engaged a PI and found this girl went to another man's house and sleep until morning come back,don't be surprise, night shift, so the timing does not tell anything, wl hours or not.

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lol jio drink kopi can la now dun chiong alr hahaha

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KangTuo, your post #10019, suppose we told our Vietnamese girlfriends BEFORE marriage that we will still be visiting massage parlours, Geylang Thai WLs and KTVs after we marry them; will they accept their future husbands' whoring and nightclubbing after marriage? But I reckon that in the unlikely event of a divorce, their Singaporean divorce lawyers will advise them to bring up those points.


A few other questions to ponder:

Do Vietnamese wives take good care of their children?

Has any bro heard Vietnamese wives say they are divorcing and their soon to be exhusbands can keep the children?

Do Vietnamese wives keep their homes clean and tidy? Or are they like some of those PRC and some South East Asian wives who come from urbanised cities who refuse to do anything at home.

Yes, I know we cannot generalise. Just asking about individual experiences. I am a Singaporean Chinese man.

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i have been doing that since married +- 20 yrs ago :D

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maybe,cos that bro also never say in detail and ask for help,dont know what help he want :confused:

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wow,dont know that girl have more creative idea,like telling husband that she work night shift and go out with uniform to "steal eat".maybe is nurse uniform that she wear to sleep with another man hahaha:D

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my wife is from hcm city.she always sweep and mop the floor after came back from work.she always wash the plates cos she complain if i wash,i will choke the sink:D
she like to tidy our house until she anyhow put my things when she is not working:mad:
so for me is mine will keep our homes clean,never ask her about her friends marry to sg spouse,maybe other bro here can share:D

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where got bro tell their partner about such activities wan?

vietnamese treasure family so i bet they will take good care of childrenof the vb. i have seen vb who are just plain lazy and never even wash clothings for weeks. my girlfriend can take care of home very well.
doing house chores will depends on the characters

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Traditionally, vietnamese spouses will take care of their children and husband. But whether this is true, it will dependd a lot on character of yr vietnamese spouse. If yr spouse is the very `province' type of gal, there's a high chance she's not too interested in the kid's education. My wife is not too highly educated, in terms of responsibilities and kid's education, she's not very `up-to-the-mark' yet. For example, sleeping is very important to her and she can just forsake everything for sleeping. To me, this is irresponsible. Kid's education wise, I am also in charged. I ensure that i spend time on my kid's education daily, without completing homework, they can forget about play. To the normal province vietnamese, education is not too important. Thus, i salute those vietnamese parents who place priority on their children's education.

As for housechores and taking care of kids, i admit i have pampered my wife too much. In Vn, we had a few maids to take care of the kids and housework. Even after returning to Singapore, i still employ 2 maids to do housework and take care of the kids. There was a period of time when i suggested to have just 1 maid, my wife had to take care of the children. She was damm frustrated everyday and we argue almost daily. So no choice, switch back to 2 maids. :confused:

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if you can afford, bro... why not? so that she can dedicate all her time to take care all your physical, emotional and spiritual needs right? :D