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03-09-2011 12:07 AM |
Re: Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner
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Originally Posted by SingViet
(Post 6295088)
Yes, you are right bro. We need to show lots of patience and tolerance as their way of dealing with matters and their way of life is very much different from ours. Even the attitude of the people are very much different. As foreigners in their country, we should adapt ourselves to them. No matter how unhappy, try to refrain from showing anger in public. I remember when i first settled down there, i find it very disturbing when i find locals cutting queue at supermarkets cashiers. At first, i was angry. After that, i just let it be as its their way of doing things. I have all the time in the world, so if they want to cut queue, just let them lor. ;)
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haha,bro u are right,lost your cool there will get u no where.when i first went there i also get impatient especially when doing all those document to get marry there.but after knowing their way of doing things i think i just relax and follow.
best part is taking their public bus,once we are waiting a public bus to go back hcm city after visting some park.we are with her brother 2 kids,6 and 7 years old.my wife say once the bus come,she will go up the front door and i follow the 2 kids to go up the back door.the bus came but did not even stop,all people run towards and go up.
na bei,the 2 kids run with them and my wife also run to the front.they push,shove and pull with the crowd and go up.i quickly follow and go up,lose to them:p.when up,the 2 kids manage to get a seat.then a lady quarrel with a man and scold her why push her kid away from the seat.
argue here argue there,scold here scold there then end with some people stopping them.funny thing is they like to quarrel but normally will not end with a fight:D |
