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haiz..at least your mum accepts your wife...

mine now still having probs...cant seem to make my parents accept my wife...
:confused:

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Bro, give them some more time. Your adorable bb will touch them eventually...

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hehe...wuah...finally u online .... :D

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Yeah ... thats true ... Very Important Factor ...

Although they cannot have a proper conversation, my wife will pay attention to what my mums talks to her ... her mandarine improve alot just by staying her 2 mths + , sometimes just curious how they can communicate .... the best part, they can cook together ... :D , they go market together sometimes .

My wife always buy 1 portion of food for my mum and nephew, never leave them out ... she wash clothes for my mum , mop the floor ...

she will buy what my mum likes to eat and my mum will buy what she likes to eat ....

Thats why my mum dotes on her ....

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Try to do something together or go out together ... i believe 1 day your parent's heart will touched ...

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I always online ma.... but u post I have to support ma.... hehe

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hai tried le...

but everytime my parents see us, only go straight for little OC lol....
somemore suggested to stay together but my mum dont want..

haiz.. :confused:

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haha...okok...thanks thanks.... :D

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when the parents accept the vn girlfriend/wife and they talked too much also problem :(

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wuah...is it? mine just the hi and bye only...

dun talk much at all...

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it is actually big problem....both of them will be talking about my bad habits and discussing on ways to stop me from drinking....:mad:

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Bro Jackby very creative thinking leh... :D :D :D

Must be good in KC any gals.

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They are very strong in learning a foreign language in a very short time especially chinese which i found out.

Some time is the connection and action that break the communication barrier.Both party must really appreciate each other.If your mon treat your wife as her own daughter and your wife treat your mother as her own mother,everything will be smooth for them.Small little bit action of caring for each other is always good.

If either party just want to be superior than the other party,your life will be very tiring,one side is your mom and the other side is your wife.What i feel is vietnamese wife tend to take better care of elderly and more willing to stay together with them when compare to sg girl.

Happy for u bro:)

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it depends...

my bro vn wife is out going type and do not like to stay with my parents. she knows that staying long with them will have quarrel somedays.

my girlfriend is homely type more willing to stay with my parents but sometimes just cannot tahan they way my mum do things and she only complain to me at night.

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ya loh,staying together is tough.I always be fair to both party and only i am the 'boss' and they must listen to me if got any disagreement:D

I always listen to both story first and sit down with them to explain to them on their different in term of thinking.