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If u really keen to learn, please read from PAGE 1 of this thread. There are some very informative material for you to start with.. :D no need learn about the pronounciation first, just remember the words means what can liao.. anyway sms no need to speak what, right?!!

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oic.. wah still quite confuss. anyway its really hard to communitcate with her. my viet is 0 her eng is very limited. tok on the phone also very simple eng. i only told her i maybe coming viet but maybe she thinks that i really coming over n now gt all these misunderstanding. in my shoes im thinking way she is so persistance to wan me go over maybe up to no gd. delima

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yup have been reading since past few days. thanks for all the guides

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WAH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! you have improved alot ah....so you coming in Jan to visit country side isit???? :p ;)

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Thanks KangTuo for the translation :)

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e bit a muon o ben e that lau roi ma e hiu tam long cua a ma.

What this sms means? partly is because 2 words I dun understand.

o ben
tam long

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hahaha .. same same here .. i agree its so frustrating. sometimes u dun wanna call her cos may b wkg in d pub. not nice lah. sms her, she got time then reply lor. when i sms d viet gal, most of d time dun underst wat she saying so gotta reply 'khong hieu' ... then need to seek help fr online dict or frens/SB bros here lor.

at least dealing w PRCs r much easier. all of us had gone thru at least pri education here. so basic words, even if dunno hw to spell correctly in sms can still use similar pronounciation, which can still b understandable most of d times lah. :D

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now worst she is back in viet call ex sms khong hieu. ya luck got helpful sb bros here help me middle of the night 2+am. really nice of them. dun reallylike prc deal with afew when i station in suzhou and sh all i gt is money mind. lucky the food n stuff there are very cheap at manage to so call impress them abit but sg prc cannot afford. lol

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tis qns is oso open to all bros here wrt chiong-ing in a local viet pub:

1) is thr any unofficial general rule of thumb, if u r oredi with a gal (unofficial bf/gf. when u go there u always look for her type), is it right for u to look for anthr gal in d pub? will she b jealous or angry? but herself butterfly all d time n may have numerous bfs.

2) N if u spot a gal u like oredi with anthr guy, is it ethical for u to approach her when she's alone? there is no written rule on tis but always hear ppl fight over gals in pubs. most of d time, when u ask d gal, she'll tell u 'no bf'. but in actual fact she has many sugar dad/bros.

i guess bros here wd hv encountered d above too often. hw do u tackle d issues? thks ! ..

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hi bro if im not wrong o ben means beside. she means that she know u wanna be beside her for really long already.

e hiu tam long cua a ma.
i understand heart belong to u. somewhere along there.not very sure

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yo bro,
tuc jan = tuc gian = get angry.
they use jan as shortform for gian.

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I'm delighted that this thread is serving its purpose in a big way.

When I first started out in the scene about 3 years ago, I din even know what ba xa meant. Thus, I totally understand the frustrations that new viet cheongsters would face. Hence, the thread to help out fellow newbies. Back then, not many guys could speak viet, and not many girls could speak chinese. Even vdict was not as sophisticated as it is now. Life was really tough and I missed out on many glorious opportunities :D

Fast forward 3 years, I had hoped to share simple pointers with cheongsters who could use basic information about the language. What really surprised me though, and I'm truly glad about it, is that many big bros have stepped out to make this a really useful touchpoint for those who need help. Appreciate this greatly.

But rather than just ask blindly, it would be good to first check out some of the language tools recommended by our bros here. I'm sure you'll find a plenty that will at least help you in some way. That way, sharing becomes a vested interest for all.

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Same rule of thumb. Guilty until proven innocent. Let me put it to you this way. If she considers you only as a customer, what would your response be?

No problems with ethics here. People often fight over girls, but they fight over everything else to. What's the point?

All girls there will have more than 1 regular (or they have to eat grass). These regulars are often termed as 'Ong Xa' or 'Nguoi Yeu'. Viet girls are very attracted to guys who look orange, with a nice stalk sticking out at the top. Viet girls love them to bits, and so do rabbits. Sames cheong rules apply.

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That one ah? We will never know, only the gals know. :D

Shhhh.... Too many competition around if she is a SYT. :D

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Since I'm so free this afternoon, just thought I pen down a few pointers to note with regards to 'testing' out Viet girls. Some of these, I probably have touched on before, but do bear with me ya?

Rule 1 (and most impt rule) : Guilty unless proven innocent. It took me more than a year to believe the kind of person my ba xa really is.

2) If you have the opportunity, observe a girl's behaviour when she is with another customer. You may be able to see the diff. If there is no diff, you have been sitting with a pro, or someone who treats all customers as equals.

3) Body language when she is sitting with you. If she makes you hug her from behind, move on. It just means she doesn't wanna see you face.

4) Never tip a girl much on the first day. Money usually blinds rationale.

5) When you exchange numbers with a girl, ask her for her number but dun give her yours. If she doesn't ask for it, she's not interested in talking to you. For me, I seldom take a girl's number until I'm sure I wanna remain in contact. That would mean 3 sits at least.

6) Once she has your number, don't take the initiative to sms her. If she doesn't sms you, it's not because her phone is spoilt or that her card does not have money (the 2 common excuses)

7) If after the 3rd sit, you feel that you aren't getting anywhere with her, move on.

8) Never let money be part of the equation. Once that happens, the sums will never equate.

9) If a girl says she likes/loves you, sex should never = money.

10) Girls who take you for granted are never worth the effort.

RULE 11: If you have found one that is the one... treat her well