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I have already spoken proper English with correct grammar with her because I know she cannot understand singlish. But she speaks to me with Viet accent and worst of all Viet grammar... I hv no problem understanding english in Viet grammar when i was texting with her... but I do have a problem with listening to Viet-glish... So she thinks my English is bad hahahha...

Some key points that I get implied from such incident is that they have very limited exposure but they still think they are good and they know it all... They have the self-esteem and pride in them... Is this the so called Viet pride?

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Oh ya , they always think they are correct . Yesterday speak with a vb and she ask me this qus .

How come I cannot find love in here , those man I love , I have go hotel with them , but end up everyone seem to lie to me .

Notice the them ? And those ?

I was thinking ... You go hotel with a lot of ppl and want them to love you ? Where is the love when you spread your love hole to everyone and expect them to love you ?

Fisherman ? Spread net and see who get caught ?

I tell her my answer too .. You spreading love to everyone , we are also spreading love to every vb we like .

And she ask me , man love woman only love 1 person why spread love ?

I was wondering when she ask me this , did she think about herself ?

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Can you help to translate "a frog in a well" into vietnamese? :D

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井底之蛙 。。。。。 tio bo? :p

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Agree with u bro Viermar! They always think they are correct. And also they like to laugh at other ppl. Not laugh verbally but for instance, when I first travel to my bx kampong by van, there was a vnmese Aunty keep vomiting along the journey... My girl laugh and say that Aunty vomit so many time... But somehow later she ownself also feel nausea and want to vomit... Hahaha... I have the last laugh. Nowadays I still tease her on that... Hahaha...:D

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Yea need someone to help us translate this.

Remember there is one time at sbox when. U me and Viermar... We got one super Lao gor vb who is so Lao Lao until got long sighted? Hahaha...:D She keep insisting she is correct in all the translation? Even though when it is not?:D

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that why they never learn , when a relationship has a problem , they wont think it their fault .

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dun u guys know that Sinkapor men are horny by nature and Vietnamese gals are stubborn by nature....:)

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Depend on what ba .. Stubborn need to be taught and tame !

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I dont call it self-esteem or pride,i call it STUBBORN.Not only STUBBORN is SUPERRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR STUBBORN

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What i can say is their defination of love is different.Their love is messy kind of love

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Seriously,they always vomit.My wife take bus vomit and take plane also vomit.The only time she dont vomit is riding her motorbike and breath in all the polluted air in HCM then no vomit.The people over there will wind down the window of a taxi or bus.Have air con why wind down,reason is they prefer their polluted air:D

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Sometime must shout or talk loudly then they understand.Recently i raise my voice at my wife for all those small matters that she is so particular.
After that,she seems to step back and treat me better:D

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never behave wimpy in front of VB...she looked down on you...sure treat you badly...only when you in control then they will be very submissive...:p

dun go head on but lovingly domineering will do....:p

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I will never let my wife control me,either financial or personal freedom.Is through mutual undertanding,tolerance and trust that i always believe in.
My rule is simple,i treat u as my wife and love u but dont take things for granted that i keep quiet means i ok and i will not cross the line as a husband role

Quarrel or argument is common but always put one side when is over