Originally Posted by Kim91 (Post 7315995)

Oh ya forgot have a ngan infront.. Sin loi sin loi bay gio em hieu roi

Originally Posted by SingViet (Post 7321136)

Seriously speaking, vietnamese spouse do face bias almost everywhere they go in Singapore. I won't start to mention again on what kind of statements singaporeans make on them. But my wife do not really care how they perceive her as long as what she does is correct.

Originally Posted by SingViet (Post 7321159)

One of my wife's friend, a 24 year old Viet lady married to a Singaporean man and with a 3 year old daughter. This young lady has been spending a lot of time with my wife and listening to my wife's advice. Just 2 weeks ago, she had some problem with her husband and my wife and i spent the whole afternoon talking to them. From what i see, this lady is different from the rest and can be taught. But all things come back to square one, she's bored and she requested her husband let her go back to VN for 1 month. Her husband works on 2 jobs, 16 hours a day and made barely enough to support her. She insisted on going back and her husband borrowed from friends to let her go back. When my wife and i were in VN, we gave her a call. Damm it, she's gambling at home. Tell me about all the time i spent on counselling her, its useless. Went back there and all bad habits come back.

My experience with Vietnam goes this way, initally was something fresh, very interesting. Then came realisation stage when i started to realise lots of things about their country and culture and now, the immune stage when i have no feeling for that country, its just a place for me to earn money.

Originally Posted by SingViet (Post 7318207)

One thing that i really salute you, you make the effort to find out more about vn. Keep up the good work. :)

Originally Posted by SingViet (Post 7318234)

Bro vietboy, i not shooting you hor. :D

Originally Posted by Kim91 (Post 7318794)

Wah uncle singviet then u shooting me la?? Just joking.. I just feel that that to understand our wife n culture its a must to immerse in them=food n language. But even if u understand language then let them know esp if trying to know them. Then u can hear if they talk anything bad not. Its the same for our wifes. They tried hard to pick up our language fast n they are good at it. But they dun like sing food. Sad i dunno how to feed my wife with....

Originally Posted by Kim91 (Post 7316964)

sometimes I feel we spoilt our own market by allowing us being their atm. Eg. Cheonging times/Dating times buy ex gift for them spend lavishly, giving them think we earn fast bucks.

Originally Posted by SingViet (Post 7318220)

Many singaporean an like to boast to their viet gf how much they earn. S$2000 to them is a lot of money roi, but they do not know the cost of living in singapore.

Originally Posted by SingViet (Post 7320025)

doting your wife is a must but we must let them know that they need to adapt to the food and lifestyle here after marrying here. They cannot be asking for everything vietnamese after marrying here. ...... Many viet spouse use `not used to lifestyle here' as reason to go back VN so often, and always staying for a month or so. If this happens much too often, the chances of her having a viet bf there is very high.

Originally Posted by vietboy (Post 7323668)

Yur wife dun like sing food?? :confused:
1st time hearing this. Actually our chinese food is close to theirs

Originally Posted by KangTuo (Post 7323708)

many people spoilt markets buying iphone 3s/4/4s, ipad, give tips in 100s and spend lavishly buy bringing vb to romantice dinner... just to get under their skirt.

i don't boast to my bx, i don't hide from my bx.. i tell her the amount i earn but also educate her on the cost of living in Singapore. Anyway she saw it herself already.. i.e she feel heart pain when i spend $200 on groceries and food over the weekend.

Originally Posted by superhuman (Post 7319364)

dun understand why they can pick up mandarin so fast. There are countless of vb I have seen that can speak mandarin with ease.

Is it really that simple, then why angmos learn until tongue swollen. Whereas we find it so difficult to learn

Originally Posted by Kim91 (Post 7319779)

Hah not issue meh? I very worried lor. Dunno if breakfast she got eat not as she dun like bread and our usual breakfast food; she dun like our noodles etc. she only like rice like chcken rice duck rice com chao not much choice unless eat zhi char.. Sianz. Very worried esp when she pregnant how let her eat properly n happily..
Husband n wife liao then nothing to hide liao. Its more when starting better to be careful listen to what they talk=防人之心不可无 bro.. Based on previous relationship. ;)

Originally Posted by vietboy (Post 7324091)

Wa, yur wife pregnant already still let her eat outside food ha? Not too good for the baby leh. Outside food not that nutrious leh.

No one at home to cook for her all working ma. Bo bian.. Then the preg didnt go smooth, she is weak and always bleed haiz.. Btw the time bring her mum here also too late liao damn sad..
Now hope to try again also sad, dunno what to do.